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singleton 5 Reviews 8569 reads
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what i was gonna bring for my next lady!   ;-)

seriously though, i agree 101% ... even with GFEs, i find that 1 hour is just too little (for a first encounter at least).  

i think with PSEs it's desperately too little and not enough time, cuz they have so many more great stories to tell, industry folks to trash and pornstar "Jedi Mind Trix" to teach (or is that Body Trix?) ... anyway, it's just never enough time!  :-)

LOL

fasteddie518501 reads

OK, first let's stipulate to the fact that senior hobbyist have a better chance than others that a PSE will put on her "A" game when she sees them.

That being said, I'm curious...

What is the main reason that you think that some guys get a good or great performace and other a mediocre or bad one?  For example, the recent post regarding Kiki D'Aire... My time with Kiki was diametrically opposite to the gentleman who made the post.  While I have no reason to doubt him, I did wonder if my experience was better because of my "reputation", so I checked her reviews on TER...  for performance, three 8's, three 9's a 10 and one 5.  So it would seem that the great majority had an experience similar to mine.

This got me wondering about what causes the difference.  I wasn't always a "senior hobbyist" - for my first year or so I was in the same boat as everyone else who's a newbie, but in my 30+ PSE encounters, I've only had three that were somewhat disappointing, and even those weren't what I'd call bad... the lady simply didn't live up to my expectations.  So I think it goes beyond "name recognition".

Part of it I think is that I do my homework before meeting a lady, so I usually know what to expect going in.  But I also think there's another, more important factor..When I meet a pornstar, I'm always recently showered and shaved, my teeth are brushed (plus I down about a half a tin of Altoids before I knock on her door - lol) and I dress casually but nice.  I ALWAYS bring gifts... Something simple like flowers or  a scented candle and usually a bottle of wine or champagne... I spend a few minutes chatting while I open the wine, telling them how much of a fan I am, I try to make them laugh (hopefully not AT me), and throughout the hour(s) I attempt to give as much pleasure as I get.   The next day I send them an email thanking them for a great evening.  

Maybe I'm naive, but I think that's the primary reason I have mostly great times with these ladies, more so than my reputation.  Case in point, I was the very FIRST hobbyist to meet Sadie Sexton when she started with E2K.  I brought a bottle of nice merlot and a Mikasa crystal bowl filled with potpourri, worth about 20 bucks... not expensive or elaborate.  I had the opportunity to hang out with Sadie about six months later, and she said to me "You ruined me for other guys:  You're the ONLY one I've seen who brought me a nice gift and treated me like a lady, and since you were my first I assumed that everyone was going to be the same way".  That's an honest-to-God true story.

We're all human, and we all have our "off" days, hobbyists and pornstars alike.  But when I read a poor or bad review, especially when it's counter to the majority of other reviews, my first instinct is to wonder who was really to blame, the hobbyist or the pornstar, regardless of whether I've met her or not.

I'm curious to hear what others think on this issue, particularly from the pornstar's point of view...  

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Asian Fan7974 reads

Ed, I just don't understand why you continue trying to prove yourself on this board and question those that have a different perspective of ladies that you've seen. Stop scaring these fellow hobbyists away from these boards with your comments. Every time someone has a bad meeting with one of the ladies you review, you come out to the ladies defense instead of been neutral. You've stated that the ladies as well as the hobbyists do have bad days, so then why not leave it there.

The reality is that if you book through one of the agencies that you sponsor you will be treated extremely well, opposite from us that aren't associated in any manner to them other than been another client and a shill at times.

The ladies know who you are and what you mean to them if they give you a spectacular meeting. I see no wrong in that other than their performance isn't consistent and close to your reviews when others that pay the full price and treat them well with gifts and all, get 1/2 or less of the show.

That's the problem in this hobby with the senior hobbyists getting special treatments.

Asian Fan

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I agree with Asian fan ,I respect your post Ed and you have been very helpful to me and alot of others but you dont need to defend the girls all the time.If a guy spends the high price and dosent think it was worth it he has that right.With higher prices come higher expectations,I also think your sessions are different than alot of people,I have had a great time with alot of fine providers and believe in treating them with the upmost respect also.Lets not forget what this board is intended for to share thoughts and information. Just my 02 worth lol

A Spectator8829 reads

with that lady.  He is always courteous towards other members and as far as I remembered; never call others names even though he disagree with their stands or posts.

He and I disagree with my post about Heather a few months ago but it is just the nature of expressing one's view in message boards.

Some members have good experience with some PSs, others not.  As with any sort of celebrities, PSs are often overwelmed by fans and demands.  Unless they start to feel comfortable, their natural defense mechanism automatically kicks in and treat their sessions with a client as simple business transactions.  That is why quite often PSE are not GFE.  A combination of PSE and GFE is a rare thing in this biz.

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i think it just may be YOU that is "scaring these fellow hobbyists away from these boards with your comments" .. have you ever stopped to think of that?

it's just that your Modus Operandus so consistently reminds me of someone else on this and other hobby boards: he hardly ever participates, never adds any meaningful insights to most discussions, only pops in every now-n-then to pester Eddie, inject some negativity and then withdraws. are you that person(s) by any chance?

i'm sure Eddie will most likely ignore your little jabs (he knows better), but little ol' Moi? that's a different story my friend. i don't know any better (well, actually, i do but i pretend i don't  ;-)

you know my DOCTOR told me (my therapist that is) that instead of being argumentative i should try more to give people a "piece of my mind" , so to speak ... i think by that he meant my "thought process", so here's a bit of my "process" for you

last time this thread resurfaced about a half-a-dozen folks expressed their thoughs, it was illuminating, Eddie clarified things and in fact i think even YOU complimented ME in one way or another. i'm not sure, i forget (J/K, i never forget! ;-)  but the point is the matter was resolved (or so we all had hoped) in a surprisingly civil and positive way

YET ...

a week or so later, this gentleman "hoop" brings it up again, and sho'nuf 20 mintues later you put in your usual combative $0.02 ... so here's the deal (my "though process" i mean)

i says to myself, i says: "wow, this guy hoop must be a real playah, to have scored Heather few years back when she was a virtual unknown or under the radar at least!  (and he is calling her a PSE which means he must know something we all don't) ... so i's bettah go check up on all his other posts see what pearls of wisdom he's deposited on these boards"  EXCEPT when i check this board, the National, the LA and the Florida board, i see he has NO POSTS!  and NO REVIEWS ... so i says to myself, i says: "this all has a familiar look-n-sound to it"

but i says to myself, i says: "to be polite AND in case i'm wrong (i'm not infallible), i better not say anything to AsianFan about it" ... and so i let it go. but THEN YOU (in your own inimitable way) continue to persist and regurgitate this point over and over and over and over and over and over ...


i don't mean to be disrespectful [cough] but isn't there a barbecue or something you can go to today? you know, just to chill out, eat some chilly corndogs (with extra onions) and put this great injustice behind you?  :-)

Asian Fan7856 reads

I'm out having a Ribs, Onion Rings and Pork & Beans Barbecue, sipping some home made beer, watching re-runs of FOX 24 since the US Open is rained out and responding to your posts on TER.

Asian Fan

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roadtripking8446 reads

Your post is proof positive why us "junior hobbyists" don't respond to threads or post reviews that contradict you senior hobbyists. We just get taken out back to the wood shed and get our butts beat a few times and then just disappear. I have been at this a few years, have made few posts for this reason but have also incurred a bad experience or 4. So my experiences in your mind are not valid either, so why would I post them? Why would someone new step forward with a different experience, especially when there is very little available, and then get criticized? Do all you want is a small group of "senior hobbyists" participating on these boards patting each other on the back? You must be involved in enough back channeling to know that there are some disagreements as to the girls performances.

But now that I have stepped forward I will be also be labled the "Doc" by you and sent out back to the wood shed and.....


first off, let's not accidentally mislead or mislabel anyone ... am i (singleton) a senior hobbyist? YES i am! but only of the GFE variety (i've "bagged" only one PSE so far and unlike most folks here i'm not interested in becoming a "Collector"). so naturally in matters pertaining to PSEs i defer to Eddie ... now ... a purrfectly good question for you "junior hobbyists" to ask at this juncture (and note that with some degree of mischief and subtlety you're actually being discouraged from asking it) is WHY EDDIE?  aren't there other seniors here?  

good question. since Eddie is too busy dining at the Y (with a bottle of Merlot) i'll answer my end of it ... cuz he's the ONLY senior hobbyist on this board who took his time to help me out (and i don't mean with one-liner replies on the board) i mean with detailed long PM/Email advice. now mind you, THAT'S ALL!  contrary to what @ssFan would like you to believe -- that Eddie keeps his little "minions" on a payroll -- the truth is that i have yet to get any such "goodies" form Eddie -- heck, the fact is that mine and Eddie's tastes in PSEs have little overlap so it's very unlikely for me to "feast on his kills" like a good little "spotted" hyena or striped "feeder" fish!  LOL


the very fact that i'm responding to you (note it's a response to you) means that no one (least of all me) is gonna take you around the back of the alley and go SOPORNO on your ass! LOL  the more people voice their opinions, commentary and why yes, even DISSENTARY! the better it is for the community of hobbyist -- it's not when/where/why you do it (notice i threw in WHY) it's the HOW you do it that sets it apart IMHO

now as for this and that and the other and labels and aliases and fake accounts and whatnot ... don't concern yourself ... UNLESS ... it really does apply to you (which i'm guessing it doesn't)

A Spectator8428 reads

or trash you.  For the most part, every members in TER boards have the equal right to voice their opinions.  Some of us have gained some goodwill and credibilities over time.  Others are just new in messages boards so there are still skepticisms about them.

No matter what kind of things a well known hobbyist, for example myself, has done in the past, if what is said in my message is wrong, feel free to point that out.  I have made mistakes in the past and I am not afraid to admit it.  I think many other responsible hobbyists would feel the same way.

Expressing different opinions in a message board is a healthy thing as long as the discourse is civil.  We all have to back up our arguments with strong logics and facts.  Members of TER are very smart.  Even though most of them choose to be lurkers, they can decide for themselves who presents a stronger argument and who doesn't.

If you know the hard truth, why not express it here?  As far as I know, the current moderator, MichaelCA is a fair man with little contacts in the PS community and those 2 PS touring agencies.  (I could be wrong on his PS contacts but I doubt that).  Don't think anyone is going to suppress your message in this board unless it violates the guideline.

Have peace.

roadtripking7994 reads

Just feel free to read how Singleton went after the hoop guy - thought it might be the "Doc" just because it was his first post and therefore his view was worthless. Didn't sound like a warm welcome to me, that's all.

i can't PM you, i'll have to tell you this on the board.

what you are assuming is plain wrong. but it's not your fault. this sorta thing happens when you meddle in things you have no knowledge of ... and as the old tag line about "ASSUME" goes, you end up ...

:-)



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Asian Fan7791 reads

You seem to think you know the answers to everything but frankly you are no were close.

HAPPY HUNTING!

Asian Fan


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roadtripking8339 reads

Take the time to enlighten and share your wisdom!


it's almost 8pm and i have a hot "Labour Date" to go to ... the kind that -- as Kiki rightly pointed out -- leaves you with a smile on your face!  :-)

but i'll be happy to give you a bit of advice if you'd like, with all due goodwill and as one (relative) newbie to another ... it comes from AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) and is an often heard suggestion given to "newcomers" (newbies in our parlance) who're trying to find their place in the "program" or a new group/meeting and basically to "fit in" as it were

take it for what it's worth, or don't take it at all (it's no skin off my back) and that is:  "stick with the winners" -- AA

i would have to agree I think Eddies post are very helpful to new hobbists eddie has a good reputation and i hope he will ignore you asian
hogan

fasteddie516366 reads

Actually, I don't have to prove anything to anybody.  And reread my post.  I didn't disagree with the other hobbyist.  In fact I made it a point to say I DIDN'T DOUBT HIS WORD.  But he did pique my curiosity - since my experience was so different than his... I wondered if it really was because of my "status"... something that YOU take every opportunity to shout to the world, which is why I checked the reveiws of other hobbyists, none of whom I'd call well known.  7 out of 8 gave her a rating about equal to mine, so the conclusion can ONLY be that my experience had NOTHING to do with my reputation.

While you seem to take pleasure in making negative comments about most of my posts, the truth is that you don't really care to read them closely or pay attention.  You claim that I defend the ladies against any bad reveiws  The FACT is that I rarely, if ever, contradict another's review of a lady I've seen.  Look at the previous page...there's a mediocre review of Kiki there, and I didn't post a thing.  Keep looking, there's a negative comment by TraderBilly about Raylin, who is one of my FAVORITE ladies, and I didn't post a thing there either.  He posted the same comment on Big Doggie, then took a cheap shot at me, and while I responded to the dig, I never once even made reference to his feelings about Raylin.  Reviews are personal opinions...  I'm not there during their meetings, so I don't bother to disagree when someone posts a review.  I WILL put my two cents in when someone insults or lies about any pornstar, whether I've seen her or not, but that's another matter.

YOU, on the other hand, take EVERY opportunity to take a shot at a lady that you apparently didn't enjoy every single time someone mentions her name on the board... case in point Raylin, just a few posts below... EVERY time her name comes up, good or bad, you ALWAYS post to tell everyone that you didn't have a good meeting with her, and somehow my name always gets brought up in the process... Guess what?  We heard you the first time!  It's YOU, not me who constantly contradicts anyone who's reviews are different than yours...

It was the same thing with Fujiko... I expressed an OPINION... and you went ballistic.  You also get nasty when someone disagrees with you and you begin making sarcastic remarks about people being shills and other peoples pets or servants and minions et. al. and become abusive in your tone and language... several of your posts were deleted by the moderator because of it... You keep posting that "The Truth Hurts", but the fact is that you wouldn't know the truth if it bit you on the ass.  Even your screen name is a lie...  as you've admitted yourself, you are a paid member under a different name, and more of us than you realize know that there's more than one other name you go by... You're not as clever as you think, and you're not fooling anybody.

I, on the other hand, use only the fast eddie handle, and I use it on every other board as well.  I don't feel the need to hide behind several different personas...

Look, It's apparent that for whatever reason, you don't like me... so you make a point to dog my posts, and usually the posts of anyone who happens to agree with me, who then become in your eyes my puppets or servants.  You know that Raylin is one of my fav's, so you take a shot at her every single chance you get, possibly hoping to get a rise out of me.  That's OK...  keep bringin' it on!  And keep posting replies to yourself under one of your other screen names to agree with yourself... you've done it before, and I'm sure you'll do it again.  But as I said, YOU'RE NOT FOOLING ANYBODY!.

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Asian Fan9029 reads

Ed, there is no need to be so shifty when responding to my sincere posts. I must admit that lately you have stayed somewhat neutral when your favorites have been given bad reviews, but that is mainly due because you have been criticized in the past for it.

As for me, not fooling anyone with my Aliases, who say I was doing such thing, you? I don’t recall saying such thing, did you?

Ed, I don’t hate you, envy you or dislike you, what I don’t like is that you and a few others jump on the first-timers for no reason instead of backchanneling and assisting them or staying neutral. You once were a newbie and I’m sure you had very good seniors assisting you instead of trashing you, right?

I’m increasingly enjoying this board and its Moderator. You don’t have and will never have a clue who the hell I am. You might think that I’m another character here and in other boards but the truth of the matter is that you and a few others that backchannel with you are way, way, way off. Let’s see, some of your friends as Singleton and Nikki think that I’m "DOC" and "Lord". Are there any others you wish to add to the list of Aliases?

Ed, you must be very careful when you say that I use multiple Aliases to agree to myself on a particular thread, that is something illegal and not permissible on this or any TER board. Implying such thing, you are stating that the Moderator, STAFF or GND aren't doing their job when they have easy ways of knowing who is behind each Alias. Stop making a fool of yourself with your Conspiracy of Theory. I’m not the only one that doesn’t agree with some of your practices and principles.

Happy Hunting,

Asian Fan


"mainly due because" ?   LOL

i'm only replying to you cuz you mentioned my name in your message ... and frankly Eddie doesn't need my help in dealing with you  :-)

but you apparently DO need other's help and in spades too!  cuz you persistently try to enlist and incite others into joining your insane Jihad. sometimes it's newbies who unwittingly get thrown into the fray by YOU  when in fact they wanted nothing to do with your grudges and personal vendettas  

and even now, out of sheer desperation, you've latched onto this latest of personas/roles which is (laughably) an advocate for the "downtrodden" masses of rookie posters who you seem to think Eddie (and/or i) are brow-beating into silence.  i should think if anything it's (once again) YOU that are scaring them into silence. cuz the fact is if-n-when they post a contrary opinion they can rest assured that 1 of 2 things will happen: a) either Eddie won't say anything or b) if he does it will be with utmost civility -- unlike YOU who has to spray your venom and inject negativity into every thread that meets with YOUR disapproval (despite what you've deluded yourself into thinking, there are NO such hordes of scared newbies here who daren't speak their mind -- unless of course it's the fear of running afoul of YOU!  ;-)

the hilarious part (oh yes, there IS one! ;-)  is when you're hopelessly out-witted and then try to drag in senior hobbyists  into your "battle" by ingratiating yourself to them and adopting their vernacular (like your latest "HAPPY HUNTING" borrowed from JLD) where the fact is no senior hobbyist that i'm aware of is really in your 'camp' or coming to fight your battles for you!  LOL

it appears to me (an admittedly "late arrival" here) that you're simply a lone bitter angry man who's crying over spilt milk (milk YOU yourself spilt long ago and our now regretting having to stare into an empty bucket!  ;-)   ... i've seen you attack ladies on this board with such blood lust that it can only serve to verify what others only suspected about you.  as for your other slip ups, believe me, it doesn't take a internet "guru" to figure these things out ... any old con-man can 'tell'


hey ... do you even know what a 'tell' is?  ;-)

LOL



Asian Fan5527 reads

i haven't asked anyone to assist me, cuz I don’t need anyone, only juniors do and never me. I can handle myself very well without having to kiss anyone's Ass, be a puppet, a servant, a con-man or a internet "guru" ;-)

to answer your question, No, I don't happen to know the meaning of 'tell', do you? ;-)

happy hunting.

Asian Fan

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your lack of reading comprehension is astonishing.  it's not so much a matter of being a native English speaker or not (i know you're not) just the utter lack of attention to what someone else is saying that really baffles me ... and oddly enough baffles you too!  LOL

if someone was piling it on me, i think i'd take the time to read their messages VERY carefully (and yes, even read BETWEEN the lines) to see if i could find a little "chink in their armour" (so to speak) to then attack them with if needed (read Sun Tzu's "The Art of War" -- believe me, you desperately need to!  ;-)

in fact, it's this lack of comprehension and attention to detail and nuance that "tells" on you so very much (i bet you still don't know what i'm talking about, do you? ;-)

but ... it's no big deal.  ultimately, there's just so MANY things wrong with your posts and your uniquely bent "logic" that i for one don't know where to begin to point them out (and frankly i think Eddie's attemtps to do just that are rather futile -- but then again he's only humouring you  :-)

i hope this has been entertaining for you since i've noticed when you can't pick fights with anyone on other boards (to satisfy your petty desires for confrontation) you always startup over here ... and then quiet down for a while (let your other personas take over) and then pickup again when you get bored

so ... adios seniore!

fasteddie518672 reads

My response was "shifty" and your's was "sincere"?  Give me a break!  Nothing you post is sincere.

I'll try to be specfic and as "unshifty" as possible here, so maybe you'll be specific back, instead of making general statements that as usual make little sense and have little truth behind them....

ASAIN-FAN STATEMENT:  "what I don’t like is that you and a few others jump on the first-timers for no reason instead of backchanneling and assisting them or staying neutral"

WRONG:  SHOW me a link where I "jumped on" a first timer.  

And you have no idea how many people I backchannel with help and info.

ASIAN FAN STATEMENT:  "As for me, not fooling anyone with my Aliases, who say I was doing such thing, you?"

Well, duh... yeah, I was.  Why would anybody post under more than one name (which you've admitted that you do)  unless he was attempting to mislead people or to hide something?  

ASIAN FAN STATEMENT:  "You don’t have and will never have a clue who the hell I am" ...  ... "some of your friends as Singleton and Nikki think that I’m "DOC" and "Lord"

WRONG:  You leave clues to who you are EVERY time you post... a third grader could figure it out, and as clever as you may THINK you are, it's laughably transparent:  My guess is that 70 to 80 percent of the people on this board knows at least some of your other aliases.  I get emails every single day from members who venture opinons as to your true identity, and most all of them guess the same person...  you can keep claiming that we don't have a clue, but if you REALLY believe that, you're only fooling yourself.

Second, Singleton and I are friends only in the sense that we're fellow hobbyists with similar viewpoints... just because he tends to agree with me and not you doesn't mean we're buddies. (Sorry singleton, the engagement's off - I want the ring back! - lol)  

Third, I don't recall Nikki or Singleton ever saying you were The Doctor or LOTR, although maybe I missed those posts... could you PROVIDE the links to them please?

ASIAN FAN STATEMENT:  "Ed, you must be very careful when you say that I use multiple Aliases to agree to myself on a particular thread, that is something illegal and not permissible on this or any TER board. Implying such thing, you are stating that the Moderator, STAFF or GND aren't doing their job when they have easy ways of knowing who is behind each Alias."

WRONG:  What makes you think that it's "illegal and not permited"?... Singleton not only did it recently, but came right out and said he did... I didn't see any admonishment from Michael about it.  Singleton wasn't banned or punished.   I don't think it has anything to do with the Moderator, STAFF or GND doing their job.  Do you honestly think they have the time to check everybody's aliases against their true identities?  This board is moderated with a minimum of interference, which is how it should be.   I can see how you'd make that statement though, since it provides you with a defense of your actions... However, if MichealCA the moderator cares to reply to this post and tell me that I'm wrong, I'll apoligize to you.

It's funny, there was a very similar statement made by someone else on Big Doggie who claimed over and over that he wasn't posting under another name and within the same threads, when  one day this past July he forgot to clear his cookies and Lo and Behold, he "outed" himself.  I'd be happy to provide the link if you'd like to see it...


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Asian Fan8873 reads

The rules are simple and if Singleton is allowed to do such thing good for him and any other that wants to do such thing, but in my case, I don't recur to such thing, as you might want the members of this board to think.

As for your friends thinking that I'm "DOC" and "LORD" it does not take someone higher than Kindergarten to figure it out by reading some of their replies with the word "Lord", a fallen Angel that start with the letter "S" and even once when Singleton mentioned DOC's name on one of his posts.

As for someone else that forgot to clear his cookies on another board that claimed he did not used another Alias, you can go ahead and expose him here or you can provide me with the link that I will do you the favor. I’ve only post on this board in my short time on the boards and you or anyone won’t stop me from saying things that I find incorrect unless Staff or the Moderator ban me. Contrary to that person you are comparing me with; I have never hidden the fact that I do have another Alias.

Furthermore, I don’t need to waste my time searching this board to list your occasional attacks on the newbie’s or those that trash the ladies that you've reviewed favorably. You very well know you do so at times.

ED, bring on the evidence. The members of this board, your followers and lurkers are waiting anxiously as I am too.

Asian Fan


why you confused and desperate little man!  ;-)    you're almost (i say almost) charming in your feeble attempts at logical and factual discourse!  :-)

so now you talk of "evidence", eh ? ... the ONLY time i made a clear and direct reference to DOC was the link below -- as even "your" hordes of downtrodden newbies can easily verify this by simply doing a FIND MESSAGE search ... it's not hard to find, trust me.  if you have your minions do a search for singleton and the keword "DOC" they'll find that there are only about 5 posts on this board and a few of them completely irrelevant (roots, prefixes, suffixes, etc)

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=23&Messageid=13601

which was a direct reference to something Doc had said a while  back about the Cubana pornstar LOLA  (btw, have YOU met her?  she's hot!  good thing Carl dissauded me from seeing her. but i'm also indebted to Doc for having poked for me so i wouldn't waste my money, as it were  ;-)

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so last night, when you shuffled around and looked to find the Cliff Notes to "The Art of War" you must've not read it too carefully (yet again) to make a silly mistake now: making a bluff someone else could easily call!  LOL

but nearly all your posts are like that:  empty threats, secretive statements about your fading cache, false accusations and -- oh yes, my favourite -- cowardly attacks on pornstars you don't like, either behind their back or directly to their face like with Nikki.  for this, if nothing else, you will eventually walk a way in shame, amigo, in SHAME!  

[sigh] ... the humanity ...  hah!  LOL




fasteddie517402 reads

Once again, you ramble on and answer nothing.  I gave you several SPECIFIC points and asked you to address them.  But you didn't...

I asked you to point out the posts where I jumped on newbies that didn't agree with me.  You, of course, didn't produce them... You said you won't waste your time searching for, in your own words, my OCCASIONAL attacks on newbies... so now it's become occasional, quite a bit different from your previous statements.

I asked why someone would use multiple names to post unless they were trying to mislead or hide something... you chose not to answer THAT question... Hmmmm.....

You make accusations, never produce ANY evidence, and then challange me to do so....  a feeble attempt to draw attention away from the fact that you never support your statements... but then, how could you, since you're always wrong....

And don't bother with the claim that you have nothing against me... a simple search over the last month or so will show anyone who cares to check that you've waged an ongoing and nasty-minded campaign to discredit my posts... for what reason only your own convoluted mind can fathom.  Also notice that most of the replies have been in my support, but of course, anyone who agrees with me and not you is a "puppet" or "slave"... what about those few who agreed with you?  I'm sure in your opinion THOSE people are free thinking intelligent members.  Oh, and also notice the number of supporting posts I've gotten from the pornstars themselves.... including Sinnamon Love, whom I've never had the pleasure to meet (maybe she's agreeing with me in anticipation of one day having me defend her against a bad review)....

You're a bitter, shallow man, and this is the last reply I'll make to you now or in the future... you're just not worth my time.

Asian Fan8074 reads

Ed, you have all the right to have supporters because you demand attention. I, on the other hand, don't need or am I seeking support from fellow hobbyists, pornstars or moderators like you need and seem to have.

In the future, if I dislike anything that you or anyone post here, MAKE NO MISTAKE that I will respond to it.

Happy Hunting and good luck with Sinnamon, brother.

Asian Fan

Actually I was a little busy and missed Singleton's post where he stated he was using multiple aliases to post in the same thread. This is definitely not allowed.


Michael, i don't blame you for missing it (what with all the unnecessary added clutter you have to deal with ;-) ... but i think it was rather obvious:

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=23&Messageid=14566

you'll note that in this linked post i clearly quote (well, paraphrase at least) GND's direct reply to me in regards to the operative policy. frankly, i thought you already knew this, what with all my clowning around on NATIONAL and even the LA board -- where GND posted this policy (i can dig up the URL for you if you want)

but anyway, this is all past. if you want me NOT to use 2+ aliases IN THE SAME THREAD even for comedic purposes just say so and i'll stop (you'll note that in the linked post above i clearly state that if  folks here on this board prefer that i wouldn't i would gladly stop).  but again to note that the Rainier Wolfcastle (TM) thread yesterday was NOT an example of that, yes i outed myself (naturally -- cuz i'm not being deceptive) but i stayed  within "character" in the handle's name at least!  ;-)  

believe me, since  GND explained this "policy" to me (cuz i think it's not written down anywhere as a cast-iron-clad RULE per se - more like a suggestion or wish) and that it's "frowned upon"  i've gone on a campaign to educate others with lengthy posts on NATIONAL. look for a recent exchange with me as Bill Maher and Bribite aka "Check My Meds" on NATIONAL for an example


now as for this business with folks with, how shall we say, less than humorous or honorable intentions, doing the same and NOT making it clear who they are, well that's another matter which i'll leave to you, GND and Staff to deliberate. but once again, if YOU wish that i didn't do it AT ALL on this board (not even for humorous purposes where it's completely obvious, to a majority of folks reading the thread at least, that is in fact little ol' moi! ... then just say so!  

your wish is my command!  :-)




"I'm curious to hear what others think on this issue, particularly from the pornstar's point of view" -- FE51

first off, despite all my efforts, i'm NOT a pornstar ... though occasionally, through the internet, i come as close as is humanly possible to playing one (the male variety that is)


"What is the main reason that you think that some guys get a good or great performace and other a mediocre or bad one?" -- FE51

i would have to say the size of one's schlong ... the bigger it is the more "defensive" and stand-offish the ladies become. am i right ladies?  ;-)


"I brought a bottle of nice merlot and a Mikasa crystal bowl filled with potpourri" -- FE51

wow, what a coinky-dink! why at home i have a whole cupboard full of Mikasa crystal bowls (whatever they are) so i'm way ahead of you there. but just what is the deal with Merlot?  is there a special eleveated mix of sulphites in this wine that renders the ladies pliable and extra-friendly. ... i mean, i know all about that being "nice, decent, attentive, caring, sensitive, friendly, reciprocating" crap, but if a guy just wants to get his "freak on" without necessarily giving a rat phuck about her, her feelings and enjoyment, would Merlot be the right way to go?  cuz on the other board this one expert was telling me i'd be amazed how far a good Pinot Noir would go!



When I was touring on a regular basis, I'd usually stock up on bottles of Merlot, Shiraz, and Chardonnay - then when my guest would arrive I'd ask which they'd prefer and begin our evening by opening it up so we could both relax. (After having a guy in Detroit open a bottle and wind up with red wine all over his white dress shirt and the ceiling... and spending half an hour bent over the bathroom sink scrubbing the stains out so his wife didn't see them I vowed no man would open a bottle of wine in my presence again! Even though, I did kind of like his creeping up behind me and doing me right there... Lol!) Anyway, I digress... It isn't a matter of a particular bottle of wine making a lady more pliable - hell, a bottle of Champagne does the trick for me to! The idea is to figure in enough time for the two of us to get to know one another. After all, while I may be a porn star, it's difficult to just hop into the sack and be COMPLETELY amenable & genuine until you get to know one another. Granted, 10 or 15 minutes over wine isn't alot of "getting to know you" time, but oyu get a better idea of what the person is looking for, why they "choose you" and if they've seen your movies what they liked the most about your performances... Not to mention, it allows you to feel a little more comfortable that the person is not LE. When  a guy rushes through the door and immediately tries to jump all over you it sort of makes you feel less than human. If the hobbyists biggest fear is having an agency call in the middle of a session, having other clients call, or having the next appointment knocking at the door as they are leaving, (because it reminds them that this was a monetary exchange and they are the one paying,) then the girl's biggest fear is being treated like she was just picked up on some street corner for 10 bucks and therefore not due any respect.

Yes, Eddie's approach works, (though I still hold judgement till we meet!) Guys complain about the hygiene of ladies and blame it on them seeing other clients throughout the day. BUT I'm telling you guys now... if you just had a Philly Cheesesteak with extra onions right before coming to see me you will NOT be kissing me. At all! I don't think it's a matter of individuals having an "off" day. I think it's about chemistry and the level of respect offered the lady. Guys, if you want a lady that you can just walk in and treat her like trash then tell her that up front. Some will be into that. Many will probably decline the appointment.

Personally, I refuse to do 30 minute appointments for that same reason. Because I can't enjoy myself or make sure my partner enjoys himself enough during such a short/ rushed time frame. To me, even an hour is pushing it... I only book 3 - 4 appointment a day when on the road so I can allow myself time to unwind, get some work done and prepare for the next gent. Each person that visits gets a whole new me... I gracefully request the same thing.

SL


what i was gonna bring for my next lady!   ;-)

seriously though, i agree 101% ... even with GFEs, i find that 1 hour is just too little (for a first encounter at least).  

i think with PSEs it's desperately too little and not enough time, cuz they have so many more great stories to tell, industry folks to trash and pornstar "Jedi Mind Trix" to teach (or is that Body Trix?) ... anyway, it's just never enough time!  :-)

LOL

kikid8386 reads

Hi Eddie!
 As usual, you've said things so well that I don't quite know how to add to them, but I am going to try. As a provider, I really do want to give every single person my best 110%. That said, there are a few things that make a session way more difficult then it has to be. I have experienced men that thought that jumping right into the meat of the hour was going to get them a great show. That doesn't work for either party because we have no knowledge of what either person likes and quite frankly if I don't know what you like how can I make you feel good? I've also had men try to force my head to their lips or other areas and that is definitely not a way to endear yourself to me I mean would they do the same thing to their normal date? I or any other provider is just as human as you are. We want to enjoy the experience as much as you do, otherwise we would not be going on tour to meet you all. That said, please treat myself and my provider sisters as you would a lady you just took out to dinner. The only real difference between that lady and myself and my provider sisiters are that with one you know you are going to go home with a big smile on your face.


i'll be sure to tell Eddie  (since you replied to me i guess folks are really starting to think i'm his secretary!  ;-)

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Yo' Eddie! ... will you PLEASE take your mug out of that muff and come over here and post your own messages already!  ;-)

LOL

Something else to consider gentleman.

About ten years ago, I was visiting Montreal when I stopped in a massage parlor. The first girl to come out was the spitting image of my MOM, thirty years younger and twenty pounds lighter. I admit I'm a sick puppy, but that was too much for me. Although I did have several sessions with a provider who looked a lot like one of my Mom's friends.

But just remember, when you first walk into the room, you may look like somebody from the lady's past, and not neccessarily in a good way. And the lady can't just cancel at this point. So you get a subpar experience.

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