I appreciate all the responses. Wanted to let everyone know GaGambler lives here with me in the Dallas area. He knows the girl and said she is A-Ok! So I'm good to go!
Just FYI, I had only contacted her through gmail. That was it in case anyone wonders. I still don't know why she approved me. When all I told her was where I worked and that I could email her from work if she wanted me to. Never did. Strange, but I'm not complaining. When it's over, I may ask her. eom
Being new I've learned to do ur homework, make sure ur provider has many reviews, make sure she's had at least 15 in a certain amount of time etc.... But, I believe this one might just fall in the middle here. I seen her ad in Eros. Very beautiful young lady, and I made reservations with her tomorrow. However, I told her I've only seen one provider and it was about a year ago. I also said where I work, and that it's hard to verify employment at my job. And I said that I would email her from my job if need be. That's it. That's all I said. Then she just emailed back and said what time u wanna meet? So I said Friday at 130pm. So I have a date. My concerns are 1. She didn't really verify me at all. 2. She has reviews but not any since late 2014.(on TER) 3. Her P411 website has no pic of her but she had a profile. Seems like some small stuff that's concerning me.
I did check her out in other review sites, and she does have more recent reviews on them. But I'm kind of fond of TER, meaning, I think TER is the most legit. She seems very real and apparently has been around a while. Just a little concerned about the lack of recent reviews. So I wanted to get y'all's take on the situation. Should there be any cause for concern with the lack of recent reviews here on TER? Appreciate any feedback.
One thing to keep in mind is that while TER is by far the largest review site of it's kind in the word, it is not the dominant site in every market. Dallas is one of those markets where TER is not the "go to" site
I've been living and playing in Dallas for a while now, I'd be happy to give you a sense of whether or not she is "safe enough" for a newb, My gut feeling from what you've told me is yes her positives appear to outweigh the negatives, at least enough to rule out her being either a ROB or LE, your two major concerns.
When you are relatively new at this, it's best to stay on the well trodden path
He said she had an Eros Ad, which almost certainly has a pic. He also said she had reviews, just because a review is not a TER review doesn't make it less trustworthy.
Not all cities have a big TER presence, Dallas is most definitely one of those cities. Trying to verify providers using TER alone is not the same here as it is in "TER cities"
1. Girls have many ways to verify us guys. Just because you can't find any evidence of her checking you out, does not mean she didn't do it.
2. There are many reasons for the gap in her reviews. She may have left the hobby for a while (who knows why).
3. On P411, they do not have to post a pic, but I'll have to admit when I can't find any pics of a provider, I get skeptical.
If she has reviews on other review sites that are more recent, she's prob OK. Remember, TER is not the only review site, just the biggest.
Go with your gut, if you think she's OK, go for it.
LLAP,
Swim
Do you contact her through P411, or use a different form of getting hold of her?
If you did contact her through P411 and you have ok's then she can contact your ok's to find out more about you. I had one lady tell me that she contacted couple of my ok's before she agree to see.
I meet a lady through P411 that had no reviews on her at all and no web site. That is by choice on her part she does not want any reviews on her. She wants to fly utr. We had a good time and I went back a second time because the first time was good. I had to find out if I wanted to see her more. I did decide that she wasn't my type.
I meet a few provider through P411 that had no or just a few reviews on them. Each one work out well for me. One lady is now UTR, her P411 account is no longer active and her web site is down. I do have a appointment set up with her next week. I very happy that I didn't listen to people on her about not meeting provider that have less then ten review on them.
Now I would only see ladies that have less then ten reviews that are on P411, RS2k. Any other web site I would do more homework on her if she had no or little reviews of her. Most provider on P411 and RS2K can be trusted. I only had problem with two provider from P411 mostly no show or last minute cancel.
Don't worry about it to much if you went through P411
I appreciate all the responses. Wanted to let everyone know GaGambler lives here with me in the Dallas area. He knows the girl and said she is A-Ok! So I'm good to go!
Just FYI, I had only contacted her through gmail. That was it in case anyone wonders. I still don't know why she approved me. When all I told her was where I worked and that I could email her from work if she wanted me to. Never did. Strange, but I'm not complaining. When it's over, I may ask her. eom
Maybe it's just the way you emailed or talked to her on the phone an she felt comfortable enough to see you without the work email. I've emailed providers or talked to them on the phone and bee approved for the date without any reference checks. They'll just tell me they got a good vibe from my voice or emails to see me.
Just FYI, I had only contacted her through gmail. That was it in case anyone wonders. I still don't know why she approved me. When all I told her was where I worked and that I could email her from work if she wanted me to. Never did. Strange, but I'm not complaining. When it's over, I may ask her. eom
Hi Dallas_texan!
I'll probably humiliate GaG, by 'White Knighting' him on the discussion board, but I'll do it anyhow.
I've never had the pleasure of meeting GaG, but I've interacted with him since 2008. When you need advice, he'll give you his honest opinion. When you don't want his advice, he'll also give you his honest opinion. He doesn't BS, and he tells it like it is, so you always know where you stand with him! Some people think he's a bit grumpy (lol) sometimes, but actually...he's one of the dearest and kindest men, I've even known. When you need a friend, he's ALWAYS there for you!
Dallas_texan, you're lucky to have connected with GaGambler!