Is it going to be a problem if I don't like DATY? Any suggestions on satisfying the provider?
And in fact, some girls get a little freaked when a guy tries too hard to make them cum.
Trust me, you will get the moans and groans and maybe even a scream here or there but you will never know for sure anyway.
So no, you don't have to DATY. You don't HAVE to do anything you don't want to do.
Again, the beauty of p4p sex.
and it is not a problem for a lot of us to just concentrate on your needs and wants...no need for reciprocation
Lots of ways to please, without DATY. While it's not mandatory, if you really want it to be a two way street, just ask what else she likes. A lot of ladies bring toys with. Just ask her what she likes. A good heavy make out session is always hot.
elaina and big papa are correct 
You are paying for the experience that you want and neither of you should be expected to do anything you're not comfortable with. If you don't like DATY don't do it, if you aren't comfortable with a BBBJ ask for a cover.
bottom line, it's your choice.
LLAP,
Swim
Great advise. I appreciate the help!
I would love to fuck the shit out of my friends, but the little guy is often non-coorperative. But, clit play, and DATY are options, howver most of my sessions are chatting, and them making me happy. And usually BBBJ can get me there and that is OK.
To answer your question directly, no, I don't think it would be a problem. A few providers don't have it on the menu but most, I believe, do.
If I am seeing a provider that has DATY on the menu and the first date goes well I will purposely not go there. The reason being it just adds something to our next date. Sometimes I will even ask how she likes it performed, other times I simply just let her reactions guide me.
D.