I am new on the board but have been with three providers so far in the last 6 or 7 months. How do you get them to give you a white list referral? Is it appropriate to ask them? If I understand it correctly that means they are vouching for you, right? I asked about this to the provider I was just with two days ago and she wasn't sure how to do it, partly because she said her english is bad. Is there a link or something I could text to her? She is listed on TER.
...in order to white list a client. The information in the link explains that. (She may already have this.) Instructions on how to white list are here.
The White List FAQ's are also included (the link to them is) in this information.
I recommend you read them.
Yes, it's OK to ask for a white list. I usually ask in an e-mail or TER PM a day or two after the appointment. Simply ask and leave it at that. If she does great if she doesn't that's fine too