She and I got along all right I suppose, but like most "therapists" I never had a lot of respect for her work. Psycho babble all sounds the same to me, just so much blah, blah, blah.
I know these types of questions get asked all the time but each case is different too. I did a search and couldn't find anything based off these few questions. Anyhow yesterday I saw someone. Prior to meeting I trimmed up. I didn't aim for a super close shave just used trimmers to be more presentable. Anyhow a spot felt a little uncomfortable after on my shaft. I applied soap to the area and didn't feel a burn and did not notice and nicks so I thought maybe it was a hair poking into it or something.
Anyhow during session yesterday did BBBJ and covered FS. Came once, cleaned up and made a second attempt and stopped after a bit. When I got home I noticed what looked like two abrasions along my shaft, one in the area where I thought felt maybe uncomfortable before that but another abrasion that looked like the same that would more towards the head so it would not have been an area shaved or anything. From what I can tell I don't recall the condom appearing to have broken or anything either time. I'm assuming it was an abrasion from inside the condom.
I'm hoping there was no breakage or possible exchange of fluids. Anyone else have a similar story to share and say what you did and what happened? Or any advice whether something similar has happened to you or not?
I had to search the Erotic Highway board to find this old post I wrote back in Winter 2009 (when I was young & innocent, lol). Sex with a condom can cause a friction tear on your cock, particularly when a provider is fucking your brains out (see below):
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I had a session two days ago with an attractive provider, description: blonde, 30, spinner. The session turned rough, she tore a button off my shirt, then we were on the bed, then to-the-wall, then down to the floor (carpet burn), then finally back on the bed where she was topside.
She started riding me so hard & fast that I dare not move or she would've broken my cock in half. Then she actually tore-me-open, my foreskin has a half inch cut on the side of the hood.
I was wearing protection & the condom didn't break. The tear looks like a friction cut or a paper cut (no blood). I cancelled my appt today with my local ATF. Do you think I need to be tested now or is this a common injury?
Thanks, --z
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Sounds like it was a good time haha. So there were no issues or anything afterwards for you? I'm assuming everything is fine but I'd rather ask and gather advice. So in other words it's common enough for abrasions to occur while wearing a condom without it breaking?
*** "As for STDs, if you wore a condom throughout the session, I don't believe it's a testing issue. Is it a common injury? Surprisingly, more things happen to penises than one would think - and most of it comes from "a little too much action," if there is such a thing."***
Zangari again: My advice would be to take a little break over the holidays. As stated above, since you used a condom, testing is a bit of overkill. But you might have microtears on your cock now, so take a little break & bank your money for a week or two. regards, --z
I checked the link just wanted a little more of your personal input on the situation. I appreciate your responses and glad everything went over well on your end too. I'll definitely take it easy on it as I don't hobby too often anyway and am currently single so I probably won't be doing anything sexual for a bit.
She did however moderate "The Erotic Highway" for quite some time.
As for being a "licensed sex therapist" I think the title is a bit overrated. Wasn't Dr Ruth also a licensed sex therapist? I never found much of her advice helpful either.
Licensed sex therapists are like licensed financial planners IMO, the licensing process doesn't seem to ensure competency.
n my previous reply, I linked to an old post "Wounded in Action" from the Erotic Highway board (circa 2009!)
You're probably right about the "licensed sex therapist" title. But I do miss LG (she really hated me). And unlike Dr. Ruth, LG was smoking hot. That board was way more fun back then. --z
She and I got along all right I suppose, but like most "therapists" I never had a lot of respect for her work. Psycho babble all sounds the same to me, just so much blah, blah, blah.