Flexible is a + for me. "Loose joints make points" as Joan Rivers used to say.
What city is she located in?So I contacted a provider whom I've never seen before that has a few reviews recently and had more in the past. When I've contacted providers in the past (I haven't contacted too many) nothing sexual has ever been hinted or anything. When I asked what her times were she stated that her time is flexible and "I'm also flexible in other ways as well" or something to that effect. When I asked about donations she said numbers with time and then said that certain amounts of time are the only thing that includes "oral service".
What's your thoughts on it? I think she seems legit but I also want to be as careful as possible. Does what she said sound out of the ordinary or incriminating?
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Flexible is a + for me. "Loose joints make points" as Joan Rivers used to say.
What city is she located in?
With some you can talk sex stuff from the gitgo (but I wouldn't advise doing so) and others you can't mention a peep, even after verification.
Since you are a newb, why not see a girl with a much more lengthy review history and someone who doesn't speak in the manner she does?
She doesn't sound like LE, and most likely not an issue, but I would still point you to more experienced, more professional gals until you have more experience yourself.
Good luck.
I think you're being a bit paranoid though some paranoia is good. Most "providers" get countless texts per day. Some may get a little loose with what they say cause they deal with it all day, but most wont say anything other than time/donation rates. I wouldn't mention anything sexual and wouldn't set up an appt with someone who did. I pay for "time" not anything else. If you have an uneasy feeling, move on. Start off with one, with tons of reviews..I personally like the safe, wholesome, suburban types(soccer moms with a well paying side job) versus the younger, tattooed dangerous type. Find yourself some training wheels first and have fun.
...but different providers will have different approaches. I was in this exact situation last year, a newbie with one review posted, contacting a provider with only one recent review after a 4 year hiatus (probably 40 reviews total at that point), and her responses to me were very flirty. In my case, her potentially indiscreet language involved spanking, and genitalia - not in the same sentence, thankfully. But it gave me something to think about.
I read her older reviews, and recognized the name of the poster of the only recent review, and decided to proceed with an appointment. Glad I did, and she now has more than 20 reviews more recent than my visit. And her communications are exactly as flirty as the first time.
So I went and everything was fine. Of course now I have another thing that I'm paranoid about lol. So I shaved before I went (I know I should have done this before today if I was going to) and was being careful and did not notice any nicks but a spot felt uncomfortable and I did not notice anything. Anyway during session had cover as usual except for a BBBJ. So I get home and am taking a look and notice a nick which has me a little concerned but she appeared clean and what not so I just flushed the site with water for like 5 minutes at least and wiped the sites with some alcohol pads which burned but just trying to be cautious in the event it actually could help anything.
I'll do a check up at some point and I'm sure I'm fine but while I like the hobby, I'm the type that if I sneeze after a session my mind starts to wander.