I was very saddened by the recent murder of Cheryl of Chicago. I had never met this lovely lady, but did know of her through provider friends.
Then I read the boards about Vanessa Sue. I was shocked, outraged and sick to my stomach that someone with so little regard or compassion for another human being could do this. I had only met Vanessa Sue one time, doing doubles with a client, but found her to be a very caring, intelligent and lovely lady. Surely not deserving of such horrific treatment at the hands of another.
I was also dismayed to see that these events have influenced some well respected providers who have decided to retired. I only met Julianne yesterday evening, after she had already announced her retirement, and not in a "business" environment and found her to be a truly lovely and caring lady. I'm sure the gentlemen on the board who know her will agree. But I respect her reasons for leaving and wish her the best in her retirement and her family.
I am also disappointed that there are providers who are choosing not to visit our fair city due to the "dark cloud" that they feel hangs over Chicago.
As we approach the holidays, lets remember Cheryl and Vanessa Sue and their families in our prayers. Lets be thankful that we have our families and friends with us and remember to give them an extra hug.
Ladies, it is my heartfelt wish that Vanessa Sue's recent misfortune will be the last posting of this type that we will see. Please be safe in your erotic adventures. While I don't know all of you out there, please be extra careful and screen, screen, screen. If you ever need a provider reference, please feel free to contact me. I always respond as I believe we are all in this together and want everyone to stay safe.
To the gentlemen out there.. be patient if it takes longer for prescreening. Understand that the ladies in Chicago are justifiably concerned and being extra cautious. Do cooperate fully with their prescreening and do be prepared to arrive at your appt with your identification in hand.
I wish everyone a very happy and SAFE holiday season. Vanessa, you are in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery.
SINfully sin-thia
-- Modified on 12/4/2004 12:38:01 PM
Its sad that the ladies have to be so afraid for their safety, while providing their clients with the best that life has to offer. I posted on TBD not long ago imploring a more proactive stance by the clients to ensure the provider's safety. Due to my lack of presence on that board I am fairly sure my words will fall on deaf ears once more. The good men of this community need to band together and rid our hobby of these women-hating cowards. Its dirty work, but it has to be done. The ladies need to feel safe again and only the good clients can ensure this outcome. It might take face to face confrontation...whatever it takes...it is worth it. Count me in
Violence often increases around the holidays. A girl was just grabbed in my neighborhood and dragged to an ATM/711 and the guys got into a gun fight with the police. WTF? She was OK.
I hope this is obvious, but in my opinion girls should NEVER do incalls in or near their homes. I believe your best clients, your biggest fish, should never know where you live.
If girls choose to provide incall it should always be a heavy traffic hotel.
BTW, $400 tasers are not regarded as fire arms in Illinois.
//C
All excellent points; reminds me that not everyone follows that rule regarding "location" ... probably to save a little dough but, it's an excellent point that it must be much more difficult to protect yourself when caught off guard ... and how much more "off guard" does it get than having somebody show up where you live when not expecting it. Here's to hoping we can get rid of or at least avoid some of the nut jobs out there that do not treat our ladies the way they deserve to be treated!
One quick sidebar: you may be able to have tasers without a license in the state of illinois ... but they are NOT legal in the City of Chicago ... just an fyi