Are verification services worth the risk and money? Which one is the best? If I pay for a verification service why do providers still ask for references? Seems like a waste of money and your info could be hacked like Ashley Madison.
Sorry if this is an old topic but did not find any results from searching. Thanks
In almost all cases, the risk to the girls are greater than for us. They are taught to be able to cross verify i.e. using more than one method as no method is fool proof. This is wise on their part.
Some guys find the ease and quickness of verification through sites like p411, which proly has the most cred among the ladies, to be very useful. Many guys decide to see a girl that very day and p411 makes this a breeze.
When using references only, you are at the whim of your references getting back to the girl you currently want to see and some times can take days/weeks, if ever
You can join Preferred411 anonymously.
I did a search and found several threads on this topic, so I'm including the link to a recent one. HTH.
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Thanks for the link. Don't know why I couldn't get any results...
...from two (I think) providers that P411 can verify are legit providers. That's how you can join anonymously. You're not giving false information you're giving none.
You can get 6 months for free with P411. You can access that by clicking on the P411 link in a provider's TER profile. Then click on the free 6 months trial link in the upper right corner of her P411 page. You must have two references to qualify for this.
Some providers want more info about you in order to see you if you joined P411 using the reference method. Some providers want more info about you in order to see you if you didn't use the reference method to join. P411 makes things much easier and is well worth it. However providers all have their own screening methods. It's up to you to decide what you're OK with giving out to them.
I fucked up, I provided references and my name. I emailed them about it and we'll see what their response is. Hopefully their understanding and will let me enjoy anonymity like everyone else.
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So even if you gave them all of the necessary information to go the employer-verification route of joining, I believe that is not kept nor is it ever shared with the providers.
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Based on personal experience and what I have heard from the grapevine, the choice of verification site will depend on your region. P411 works well for me because I live on the east coast and I travel often to the west coast. Others have mentioned that RS2K is more popular with providers in the Midwest. P411 has been invaluable for me because you can have providers listed based on the date of their last login. It's easier to tell which providers are more recently active and most likely to respond promptly to appointment requests. In addition, P411 makes it easy to obtain a provider "OK" after a confirmed date, and there are a good number of providers on P411 that will accept two or more OKs as sufficient screening.
Disclaimer: I do not work for P411 and I was not paid to write this response. Just a satisfied customer trying to offer advice.
I'm currently waiting on P411's verification. They do seem to be the best. I tried RS2K and filled out the initial application but then they wanted me to email them a copy of my driver's license with my photo! I emailed my DL without the photo but they insisted on my photo...phooey on that bullshit! I want verification not extortion.
Long ago I was actively involved with another large site, in the day, similar to TER. There I knew of one of the principals of P411 and they knew of me. In spite of that, when I joined P411 they still checked me out completely and professionally... and I think that spoke highly of their business. That being said, I don't think ANY sort of adult business is perfect or even 100% safe, so never stop using your brain! Always check out the TER reviews of the ladies you are contemplating meeting, as well as the reviewers who have meet with them -- and be sure to look for a pattern in their reviews. (To me a series of 5 or 6 recent and similarly short reviews of a provider or by a reviewer SCREAMS possible fakes!) If a provider has less than 10 reviews than look closely at her, but if she has more than 20 reviews or 10+ reviews over a year, then you are likely okay, but stilll look at the reviewers to see if they are easy reviewers or hard reviewers. I also read what they wrote -- some give all 10/10s and others might call a 8/8 terrific. Once you get 10 or so P411 OKs, then the MAJORITY of P411-participating ladies will likely see you unless your emails scare them. Don't scare them! LOL (NOTE: Some providers will still want your name and other personal info even with 10+ P411 OKs... and you will need to decide if you want to share your info with them or not.)
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days not counting the posts in this thread.
Like I said, I don't know why the search function is not getting results
Putting the words you want to search in the "author" box, instead of the "search for" box.
So try again, making certain to put the term you wish to search in the correct search field, and see what happens.
If it's still not working, then perhaps there's a glitch on your end.
I can only speak for myself, but I've usually found the root of such things to be "user error" lol.
Yep, I admitted it: I'm NOT perfect. LMAO!
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Found the problem. The date range was fucking me up. I had 0 to 120 days and it didn't do shit, then I left both fields blank and it worked. I tried all kinds of day ranges and still didn't do shit...useless feature
...leave 0 in the second box (ex: 3000 to 0).
That should get you plenty of results. Notice the default has 30 in the first box and 0 in the second. Follow the established pattern. Just add zeros to the 30 and hit search