If we're talking sex that's hot because the partners are physically comfortable with each other and the woman really understands herself and her sexuality, then my hot zone starts at 30 and continues with some women into their 50s. Now and then I connect strongly with a provider in her 20s, but that's the exception that proves the rule.
I'm mid-40s and having the best sex of my life. Why should it be surprising that women get better with experience as well? Add to that the fact that some young providers are uncomfortable with older men and IMO the smart money goes on 30 and over.
I started hobbying when I was 24 and am now in my fortys. Throughout my years of hobbying, I find sex with providers in the age group of 30s to be the best among all the other age groups. Am I the only one that feels this way?
Geez, must be missin' out on something, I just sit with them as we have just paid for time, right? Actually it varies and I try not to pigeon hole people into categories for any endeavor - people are people, young, old, tall, short, stacked - you just gotta' try to make decisions for who to see based upon something more than a category. I try to make my decisions based upon replies I get in emails from providers - a sixth sense for screening.
your more comfortable with and attracted to them.
I find myself more "connected" and attracted to them on so many different levels.
I didn't mean to single out or pigeon hole them based on their age. But I've tried seeing providers outside of the 30 something age group and, generally speaking, found the experience to be good but not overwhelmingly great.
I find the teenagers to lack the maturity to have great "connection" with them, both sexually and intellectually. While it's true that they're more youthful and energetic in most instances, I don't find them very sexy. The 20 somethings are a little better but many aren't cognizant of, haven't discovered, or connected with their sexuality enough to really enjoy the experience. There are exceptions but when women go past the age of 40, unless they take the trouble to keep themselves look good, they become less attractive physically and other physical problems may cause their libido to go down. This is just my perception based upon my own experience which I share here.
I'm not saying you can't have great sex with women in other age groups but it's just not the same with the 30 something. I've tried venturing out of this group a few times and found myself wanting to go back to that group.
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After 30, women know they are past their prime and any shag they get thrown their way may well be their last, and so they put their heart into it! 
I should know. Megatha has a lot of heart...!
I feel that way too *wink *
If we're talking sex that's hot because the partners are physically comfortable with each other and the woman really understands herself and her sexuality, then my hot zone starts at 30 and continues with some women into their 50s. Now and then I connect strongly with a provider in her 20s, but that's the exception that proves the rule.
I'm mid-40s and having the best sex of my life. Why should it be surprising that women get better with experience as well? Add to that the fact that some young providers are uncomfortable with older men and IMO the smart money goes on 30 and over.
Try Eva of Chicago for an over thirty treat. Not much better than this!
Stereo-typing is not good because there are outstanding ladies in all age groups, with various colors of hair, height, bust size, etc. Not sure what bust size would have to do with "spending time" with a lady other than for eye candy but, dreaming is good exercise for the mind.
my mind is over-exercised............
yeah - yeah - yeah eye can here it now....what phucking mind
welll ewe mite have a point their.....
anyway
Thank you
I think the older you get, the better you get... I'm one the "mature" SP's and let me tell you, for me, it only gets better...
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providers aged between 35 and 45. They are great because they know what we ALL want and show that while having sex. Sure, they are doing it for money but they also tend to enjoy what they do. They are also more down to earth and dont rush sessions. Its just my exp. I LOVE them!!
Why be with a girl .... when you can be with a woman.