Wow ... that really hits home

As someone who has always wanted to meet you ... and tried a few times but was unable to break into your schedule ... I am surprised and disappointed.  I can only imagine when someone that has gotten the kind of positive feedback that you have is feeling attacked, how tough it must be for so many of you.  I know I am only the tip of the iceberg here but I, like so many, will miss the quality and integrity that you have brought to a profession that frequently lacks both.  Best wishes

As of late, I can't really say that I blame ya, although the city is surely losing a great girl.

If you can't feel safe and secure in what you do, then what's the use of doing it? No amount of money can replace piece of mind.

Loss of another fantastic lady.  Jules, your health and safety and that of your family are paramount.  Thank you Jules!

Wishing you all the best.

Damn, you were on my list. Can't believe what's happening in Chi. Best of luck.

"Lately, I have felt more like a piece of meat, bashed on the boards, pressured and prodded to provide services I don't like. Now my friends are being murdered, assaulted, raped, and treated like trash."

As a provider who's been offering limited service for several years now, far longer than two, I can tell you that this is unfortunately now the nature of the business.  The days of genteel subtlety and reading between the lines are gone, having been replaced with does she offer "multiple pops" or will she "lick the boys" or let me ream that "sweet ass".  Before review boards were invented and crass graphic detail was required (to the potential detriment of a provider appearing in court with a defense of not providing certain services but with reviews easily printed out and used to prove otherwise), the adult business used to be a far more civilized place.  Now the concept of the mysterious courtesan has been replaced by nothing more elevated than technological bathroom graffitti, and you can't expect anything more than the deterioration of client's mindsets to follow suit.

The best approach in the adult business, given today's overall climate, is not to let the gleam of the money blind you to the point that you will accept and proactively go after every client you can get, but rather to limit your clientele (and your income) to a sane and highly discriminatingly selected regular client base who will actually support your needs (not just be a "regular" by visiting once or twice more, or 6 months later).  Unfortunately, as clientele become more and more affected by the ADD that comes with "hobbying" and the need to try everything that's out there, there are fewer and fewer clients out there who will give the appreciation and reliable support to providers who truly deserve it.  If you can look at the business as something that you engage in part-time and eventually move into not advertising but relying on your past contacts and word of mouth, you will have moved into a happy place where you no longer have to worry about danger, whether it be violence or LE.  

Unfortunately, the reviews are often a sounding board for clients who have a "beef" with you, often because of their own behavior, and are written inaccurately (and sometimes patently falsely) in order to defame a provider and "get her back", regardless of what the guidelines for posting are supposed to be.  So what would be good clients are often thrown by these senseless inflammatory reviews.  If clients would rely on their own wits and ability to sense a provider's overall "vibe" from her presentation and take a chance, with the understanding that they can always say "no thanks" rather than have an experience with someone they're not crazy about, we would all be able to function below dangerous public scrutiny, while maintaining a personal level of trust and candor with our clients.

I'm sorry that you feel the need to leave the business cold.  My point is that perhaps you can choose instead to supplement something else you may do, or just choose to work on your established clients without subjecting yourself to the public auction.

And it would also be great if clients could remember, based on ALL the risks that providers take in order to put a smile on their faces, that screening is necessary and is not meant to be an inconvenience, annoyance, or intrusion.

Jules,

I know I should have booked some time with ya last week! Parting is such sweet sorrow.  You were and still are my ATF.  I still remember the first time I met you, it was amazing....and so was everytime after that. You will be missed dearly by me.  If you are ever in town or if you are going under the radar please let me know, I'd love to see you again.  Good luck with the future, you are certainly a bright and amazing person with a heart of gold.  Best wishes Jules.  I'll toast a drink for you tonight.

We certainly can fault you for taking care of yourself - be good, but no too good

Juliane...

I am sorry I never had the chance to meet you, but this is a great move for you. I hope all the great ladies of this community can get out before they suffer at the hands of some troll like Vanessa Sue or Cheryl did. Take care of yourself and I hope everything goes great for you.

Good luck and best wishes in your future, sweetie!!

Bignail out

Jules I wish you luck in everything you do, I can't blame you for your decision. I want to say I had the opportunity to meet you once, and had an exceptional time, of which the memory will last a lifetime. Again Thanks and best of Luck to you.

Re:Saying Goodbye

You will be truly missed! You were my ATF