I've heard of some girls getting cranky when they're asked, but that's pretty rare.
I don't know of too many ladies who would be concerned by your lack of reviews. Anyone can write a fake review so it's not exactly a safety assurance. Just shoot an email (or text or whatever she prefers) to someone you've seen before and say "Hi [insert name here], I hope you're doing well. May I use you as a reference in the near future? Thanks!" Something to that effect is fine. You don't really even have to ask, it's just the polite thing to do.I've seen a few ladies that have been reviewed. In my quest to see others, I'm hitting a wall where providers won't see me because I don't have references and/or many reviews. Let me start by saying, I'm not a huge fan of writing reviews, in my mind it's like kissing and telling. The hypocrite in me loves to read and use them to make decisions though. So in my quest to find a happy medium, I'm wondering when is the most appropriate time to ask if a provider would mind if I wrote a review or if I could drop her name as a reference? I've already ruled out the moments when my d!ck is in her mouth, or when her face is planted while her @$$ is up. Should I wait until I've had a few sessions with the same lady? Maybe a call or text a few days later? I won't write one unless they are ok with it. Same with a reference, almost feel like I'm having another lady tell them I'm moving on. This maybe part of the newbie process and maybe I'll just not give a damn 6 months from now, but right now I do. Thanks.
This whole system is based on referrals so do not be afraid to ask /
The best time if you are new is when a session is over ask if she would see you again and if she would b comfortable is giving you a reference.
You should also see if she would Whitelisr you but some do want more than one visit to give a sort of permanent stamp of approval
Also consider signing up for P-411 on their free six month trial and get OKs there. A few there and you are off and running/
As for reviews of a provider they can help
Or hurt her business but keep her name out there. Should not make a difference in getting a date but if you do not have any reviews may not get any help or response to ISO posts or to PMs as you are an unknown.
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can tell the story using non-explicit language, that's what I do. Use acronyms too so the reader knows what transpired w/o getting real graphic. Yes, you are kissing and telling, but many providers won't see you if you don't have some kind of track record they can check, and that's one thing reviews do.
You can ask for whitelist referrals on this site, OK's on P411, and refs on DateCheck. I think P411 is better than DC, but DC is much cheaper if you want a lifetime membership.
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you could ask about a referral/white list and review when you send a follow-up "thank you" to the provider via her preferred communication channel.
You have the right idea to ask the provider if it's OK to write a review. Some don't want them, period, and some don't want them at that time for whatever reason. If you had a really bad experience that you think other hobbyists should know about, then asking first need not apply.
Frankly I'm surprised that a lack of reviews is an issue in getting providers to see you. I know some experienced hobbyists who have few or even no published reviews, and they obviously have no problem. I always thought screening was mainly about references. Maybe some providers can comment on how important the number of reviews is to deciding whether to see someone.
...from providers who are P411 members. It is a good idea to check out P411. Check out their web site and call the 800 number in order to find out about them.
There is a free trial membership on P-411 if you enter though a P-411 link Ina provider's profile.
Not there in the website. At the end of six months you nasty or drop out.
The combination of P-411 verifying youand also listing many of your local providers is a great combination.
Sending date requests through P-411 is the cleanest and easiest way there is IMHO
Not there in the website. At the end of six months you nasty or drop out.
The combination of P-411 verifying youand also listing many of your local providers is a great combination.
Sending date requests through P-411 is the cleanest and easiest way there is IMHO.
I've heard of some girls getting cranky when they're asked, but that's pretty rare.
I don't know of too many ladies who would be concerned by your lack of reviews. Anyone can write a fake review so it's not exactly a safety assurance. Just shoot an email (or text or whatever she prefers) to someone you've seen before and say "Hi [insert name here], I hope you're doing well. May I use you as a reference in the near future? Thanks!" Something to that effect is fine. You don't really even have to ask, it's just the polite thing to do.
If you'd like get a reference from someone you've seen, like Tobi mentioned, a friendly email if text to give them heads up is fine. Hopefully you wouldn't send it to a girl you saw months ago. Sending it to someone you've seen more than once or had a great connection with us even better!
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