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LanaDaSilva See my TER Reviews 331 reads
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I like to read a gentleman's reviews to see if we r compatible and I like to talk to him before our meeting.

frog1078 reads

I know discussion of detailed activities during the setting of a date is frowned on but how do providers generally feel about exchanging details via email/text after an appointment has been confirmed? Do you discuss specifics over a drink? I love to spend time getting to know a woman before playtime but find the discussion of what's acceptable a little awkward ("Would like a little more wine and, by the way, how do you feel about facials?"). On the other hand, you need to have a shared understanding of what is okay before the fun starts, otherwise you're just asking permission every ten minutes.  
Would love to hear opinions from providers and hobbyists.
Thanks!

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GaGambler416 reads

but if there are activities that you consider very important, I would suggest you read her reviews before booking. Do NOT email or text her and ask her if she is ok with CIM, Greek or any other sexual activity, and asking her about specific sex acts before you are both naked is also a nono.

If you are the kind of guy who needs to "warm up" before getting down to business, I would suggest you book slightly longer sessions, 90 minutes to 2 hrs should be fine, and maybe you can have this conversation with her as you get into some extended foreplay, this way she won't be put off by wondering if you are LE trying to get her to incriminate herself.

but please, do yourself a favor, and under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you discuss "sexual details" before a date, all you will accomplish is to get yourself on a bunch of DNS lists.

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impposter427 reads

When there is pre-discussion (via email), it is SOMETIMES possible to refer to reviews rather than details. If she offers more than one package and she wants you to make clear what your expectations are, or if she actually asks you what you like or what attracted you to seek an appointment, it is sometimes possible to make reference to her reviews. "abc's review is exactly what I'm looking for." or "def mentioned that some things weren't available. Is that a new policy or is it YMMV?" or "I'm kind of vanilla, not like ghi's review, but definitely like the last part of jkl's review.

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Cherigirl356 reads

Also not that this ever happens here, but some reviews could be 'embellished' , or possibly not every client gets the exact same treatment as the reviewer experienced , so...
So if you find a lady that you like and when you comfortable with one another on your date , as in close contact , you could mention something like "I've always wanted to try such and such " to see how receptive she is to it .Then accept her response either way and enjoy your time together . Just my .02 . :D

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Debra_Hollander485 reads

Posted By: frog
"Would like a little more wine and, by the way, how do you feel about facials?"
Bwahahahahahahahahaha!!!  I freakin' love that.  But then again, I've already had some wine myself today.  ;-)

Seriously, though, the advice already given is pretty much spot-on.  Now, I'm a bit fussy and don't like to discuss sexual acts until we're both warmed up and naked..... but that's just me.   :-P

 
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keystonekid399 reads

any rules I need to be aware of?" I then give an example of one provider who I saw years ago and what she said was a "no".

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Larissa_Sweets288 reads

I personally let the client take control and sometimes some will ask what are your boundaries? Ect..,  

I offer a drink and talk to them a little and feel them out. Best advice is to read reviews, if you want something don't be afraid to ask the provider when you guys meet face to face. I personally will not answer naughty questions via text or email to be honest. However, everyone is different.  

Don't be afraid say what it is that you want. It's a service is it not? Whats the worse she could say? No.

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LanaDaSilva332 reads

I like to read a gentleman's reviews to see if we r compatible and I like to talk to him before our meeting.

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