Newbie - FAQ
Yes, I'm very aware of that.
If I don't feel like I am going to be asked to jump through too many unnecessary hoops, I normally comply, but if I am instructed to fill out her insipid little screening form or get any other "demands" to do things "her way" that's usually the last she ever hears from me. I don't even bother responding at that point as I already know we won't be a good fit.
I don't know what constitutes a "hoop" in your mind (other than being required to fill out boring forms lol) but many ladies have them for the exact same reason you won't use them: these providers also know that if someone is unwilling to dance to her tune, that they will not be compatible. It's just another way of weeding out those who aren't for them. 
It would truly make this activity much smoother, with less time wasted on both sides, if more folks who don't wish to fulfill a lady's requirements or requests would do as you and simply move on. NEXT!
So when a potential client tells me he can't/won't text as asked, I just reply that we cannot meet. Simple, right?
It should end there, but does it? Rarely. All too often, it gets ugly. Or pathetic. Which come to think of it, isn't very attractive either lol. 
GaG, I'm certain there are many hobbyists who, like you, don't waste time on providers who require what they will not do or give. I just wish there were more.
If I don't feel like I am going to be asked to jump through too many unnecessary hoops, I normally comply, but if I am instructed to fill out her insipid little screening form or get any other "demands" to do things "her way" that's usually the last she ever hears from me. I don't even bother responding at that point as I already know we won't be a good fit.
I don't know what constitutes a "hoop" in your mind (other than being required to fill out boring forms lol) but many ladies have them for the exact same reason you won't use them: these providers also know that if someone is unwilling to dance to her tune, that they will not be compatible. It's just another way of weeding out those who aren't for them.
It would truly make this activity much smoother, with less time wasted on both sides, if more folks who don't wish to fulfill a lady's requirements or requests would do as you and simply move on. NEXT!
Don't get me wrong: I usually don't mind and will respond politely to a simple inquiry regarding my screening requirements. (I say "usually" because I admit there are those times when I've received a larger-than-usual amount of such requests in a given time period and I either don't respond at all, or reply rather tersely due to my exasperation.)
Quite frequently, someone will email or PM me to ask if I'll make an exception for him based on his OKs, Whitelists, reviews, posting history, or a combination thereof. When I reply in the negative, about half will leave it at that.
The rest? I've received many long messages either insisting that I don't need said info, with drawn-out explanations as to why he cannot/will not comply. Others will lecture me on the dangers of what I require, with a few even getting quite pushy about it. Some will try repeatedly, over the course of several months, hoping that I'll change my mind.
I don't get it. I mean, besides the psychology behind wanting what we can't have, it makes no sense to me. I'm in an area with lots of provider options. I don't have any illusions (delusions? lol) about my services and reputation: I'm not the hottest thing going, not the latest "it girl" that everyone has to see, so why not just skip over me and on to those whose requirements they do meet? As you know, there really is someone (often many someones!) for everyone.
For the small percentage who are actually unable to meet my requirements I try to be patient and kind but it is still a waste of both their time and mine.
Then there are those who fulfill the screening requirements but balk at my confirmation procedure (text me by a certain time on the day-of), for varying reasons.
I don't think texting is unreasonable, and I'll try to work with you, but this has been a deal-breaker for some.
And that's ok! I've never given anyone a hard time for refusing to do what is uncomfortable or unfeasible for him, and I honestly do understand why some can't do this.
So when a potential client tells me he can't/won't text as asked, I just reply that we cannot meet. Simple, right?
It should end there, but does it? Rarely. All too often, it gets ugly. Or pathetic. Which come to think of it, isn't very attractive either lol.
GaG, I'm certain there are many hobbyists who, like you, don't waste time on providers who require what they will not do or give. I just wish there were more.
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Send me a PM, email, or text message, as I don't feel like cluttering up the board with it.
I notice many escorts mention on their website that the screening form must be used for verification.
However, there have been many instances that I have contacted ladies through P411 and they accept the appointment even if I didn't fill out their screening form. Other ladies respond to refer to their site.
Problem is the details are not explicitly mentioned on the site. i.e. "you MUST fill out form P411, Date check isn't enough..."
What gives?
However, there have been many instances that I have contacted ladies through P411 and they accept the appointment even if I didn't fill out their screening form. Other ladies respond to refer to their site.
Problem is the details are not explicitly mentioned on the site. i.e. "you MUST fill out form P411, Date check isn't enough..."
What gives?