So what if you are not sexually attracted to your spouse/so ?  I know I love my wife but she doesn't look like she used to, so I play around. It makes me nicer to her.  Then again I'm no spring chicken and probably don't look quite as good as I once did (cough, cough, AHEM) so .....I wonder how I would feel if my wifey started seeing some young boy toys.  I don't think I'd mind, it would make us more open with one another, might even turn me on to watch her getting pounded and enjoying it.  How would you feel