I think anyone who falls for a provider is mixing up infatuation with love. For it to be love you have to really get to know someone. For example, you kinda should know their real name. 
Has happened to me twice now... and am wondering how frequent it is? and do the ladies always know? can they always tell - my suspicion is that they cannot. The thread below caught my eye, and the comments were quite interesting but I would like to know how many gents fall for their providers. I suspect that it is quite common, but in the end, logic and circumstances force us to the reality that it is not to be...
In my case - it is both an age related issue and a financial one... what of others?
that's what I thought until I met Gina4Uonly. Luckily for me, she was 300 miles away, out of my price range, and retired not too long after I met her.
And we're slaves to them.
I hope that I'm hedged enough that I could prevent it from happening.
I'm sure providers experience this, but I'm also sure that most of the guys are like me: they're just there to get their rocks off without worrying about all the other stuff that comes with a relationship. I never lose sight of the fact that their time with me is about a pay check.
yeah I wasn't expecting a relationship when I started this hobby but hey, shit happens.. I think she knows it but I am not pursuing it so I guess she is ok with it. Yeah, I am one important source of income and I donot think she would kick me out.
I think there are many guys who thing they've fallen in love with a provider when in truth, they've become infactuated with her. For me, there are providers that do just that, provide a service and they're done. These girls I see purely for the physical aspect.
But there have been a few that I see because I thought there was something more. Honestly, it was just me being infactuated with them for their beauty and the way they made me feel. In the end, after several visits, it faded away.
That isn't to say the one-way falling in love doesn't happen. But before you say you've fallen in love, ask yourself if it's love or lust.
A girl that's REALLY good at the job will make it seem so real that it's hard not to fall. Been there, but reality hopefully takes back over.
Otherwise, I just kill her.
I think anyone who falls for a provider is mixing up infatuation with love. For it to be love you have to really get to know someone. For example, you kinda should know their real name.
And a lot more, in fact, where she was from and all sorts of stuff that she told me about herself... Was interesting BUT - knew that for her to be interested in me, it would be a non-starter because of our stations in life... But, it got my juices flowing - and IF she were to come up to me on the street and say, hey, baby I miss you, come fly away with me, well lets just say that this superdude would sprout wings...
That this sort of happened once surprised me, that it happend twice makes me wonder - are there superdudettes that can have that effect on a guy... Maybe Ciara knows....
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Falls in love with every beautiful young lady that puts a lip lock on Mr happy but the feelings go away in about 24 hours. On a serious note I fell in love with a lady b/c she treated me so well. Then I had a chance to spend a little off the clock time with her and saw what she was really like. Ruined the fantasy. I was disappointed in whom she really was and stopped seeing her