Is that how a message board now lists the subscriber's own posts? Or did I hit a wrong button
That would be the "Ignore User" button.
Just go to the Mail tab and then click on "Ignore List" to see if your own name is there.
If it is, then just click the "Remove" button to the left of your name.
Hope that helps! 
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