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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 533 reads
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I haven't seen one yet, but I have seen reviews that took place in trailer homes, an office, and even an abandoned building, and a construction site. Too bad we don't have key word search ability. If I do run across a car date review, I'll send you (and Debbie) a link.

YI8121708 reads

This is mainly fit the guys out there.  How many of you would be a little annoyed or disappointed if the following went Diwn on one of your dates:

I have seen this provider numerous times.  We both agreed to doing something different so we started off playing that dice game....kiss breast, lick body, rub "?"  I'm sure all of you have seen those.
Well we were playing/using these die for some pretty interesting and stimulating foreplay for a good 15 minutes or so when the provider I was with said "let's just f*k"

After a several minutes of this her freakin' phone goes off....and she answers the darn thing!  It's a guy that she had scheduled for a car date OVERLAPPING my time!!  What's even more crazy us that her phone dies t work correctly so everything is on speaker phone (he's arguing with her why he can't see her NOW)

The phone call ruined my mood, "junior's" mood and the evening in general.

She doesn't understand why I calmly got up, cleaned up, got dressed, and left without my normal goodbye hug and kiss from her

Oh well her loss (actually it's my loss...she gets the money)

Thanks for listening

riorunner864 reads

Only you can decide how you wish to play such a situation but I sure can't fault your decision to bail. her behavior would be a definite mood-killer for me as well.
    You say you've seen her numerous times so I assume you enjoy her company. If it were me, I'd let her know why you're upset and see how she reacts. Then, depending on that reaction you can decide whether to see her again or not. Some people are really clueless. She may blow you off or she might tell you the next round is her treat as a way to make it up to you. Or any range of things in between. But, she can't fix an issue if you don't inform her of what the issue is. And if she's simply fucking clueless, then by telling her how unprofessional she was you might help her become better at her business. For me, it would really come down to how much I liked her and how much effort I felt like putting into attempting to keep the relationship.
      Good Luck.......RR

YI812573 reads

Thanks RR!  I have had dates with her more than a dozen times.  We got to the point where we really trusted eachother to the point where I decided to take a break from seeing her because I felt our provider/client relationship was too intense.  

I questioned her after it happened and she denied that she knew he was going to call.  He quoted the "agreed upon time" which would have been overlapping ten minutes into MY time but why did she even answer the phone in the first place?
Just before I left she asked for a hug and I agreed but it was like a hug I'd give my sister...better yet my brother.  She sensed it and started bawling saying how she wished she didn't "have these feelings for you."

I texted her on the way home but haven't heard anything back from her.

riorunner543 reads

Well Y1812, perhaps your first paragraph and subsequent description tells you what you need to do. If you had already decided to take a break because you were getting uncomfortable with the intensity level and then she felt badly enough about your being upset at her behavior she admitted to "having these feelings for you" it sounds like you are at a fork in the road so to speak.
   Don't know what you texted her about on your way home but assuming it was the reason you were pissed off then, if you really want to take a break from her, do not contact her again. Her radio silence could mean several things....she's simply thinking about how to proceed based on what your text said, she came to her "senses" about the roles you two are playing, she's fuming angry and plotting revenge, or who the hell knows what. LOL I'd wait and see if she contacts you, judge how she reacts, and then make the decision that works for you.
   The standard advice from many is one should never let "feelings" enter into your relationship with a hooker. Perhaps good advice for most, especially "newbies", but I take it with a grain of salt. I've been playing in this sandbox for decades and I have "feelings" for many of the women I've come to know. It's a strange world in many ways. People are sharing themselves in the most intimate ways with partners that, at least in the beginning, they know next to nothing about. For myself, I only repeat with a small percentage of women I see. There is simply so much pussy & personalities to experience! I'm continually seeking that rare combo of intense physical attraction and a cerebral connection.
    Good luck going forward in the relationship with this woman. Hope it works out beneficially for both of you.
            Regards........RR

GaGambler553 reads

I think it's most likely best you haven't heard back from her. I think after you put things into perspective, you might find it's simply best to put her into your rearview mirror.

...seen a review yet where the atmosphere is described as "tuck and roll upholstery."

My mechanic really fucked it up.

Oy, hope I don't get banned for that one

If you ever do come across a review like that, though, I would LOVE to read it!!!    

I was once asked to do something like a "car date"... he wanted to role-play that he was picking me up either on a street-corner or along the highway as a hitch-hiker.    

Yeah, that one wasn't ok with me.  But I'm sure some ladies would do it.  My compromise was that I'd meet him in the hotel bar and we could to a pickup role-play but that wasn't what he had in mind.  

The seedy, seamy side of things does hold a certain appeal or mystique for some folks.  ;-)

 
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I haven't seen one yet, but I have seen reviews that took place in trailer homes, an office, and even an abandoned building, and a construction site. Too bad we don't have key word search ability. If I do run across a car date review, I'll send you (and Debbie) a link.

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