You need to be a little patient... Especially when starting out... These gals have lives and it is vacation season... Seems like the second gal is waiting on the first and the first may be out of the office for a few days... Give it a few more days, then move on... The worst thing you can do is make a pest of yourself.
Remember the old adage... You can beg for sex and you can pay for sex, but don't beg to pay for sex.Hey guys, i've seen this provider once, so I am still fairly new to this. I had an appointment with her and everything was fine. I also wrote her a little follow up email, wrote her a review and she gave me a white list.
I was interested in seeing another provider, and used the first one as referrence. She said she get back to me after I get verified, but its been a week already.
In the meantime, i contacted my first provider to set up for another appointment, and its been days since she's given me any response.
Have I gotten on her bad terms already or something? What gives.
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You need to be a little patient... Especially when starting out... These gals have lives and it is vacation season... Seems like the second gal is waiting on the first and the first may be out of the office for a few days... Give it a few more days, then move on... The worst thing you can do is make a pest of yourself.
Remember the old adage... You can beg for sex and you can pay for sex, but don't beg to pay for sex.
if i'm reading you correctly, you want to book again with girl #1... some gals don't want to chit-chat. It takes time & energy & they might be busy in their daily lives or even with other work commitments. She might even be miffed if you used her as a referance. (Did you give her a heads up that provider #2 would be contacting her?)
If you want to book her agan, put appontment or a propsed date in the subject line so she doesn't need to open your email. After a reasonable period of time, you might try another contact method... once. I had a Fav gal lose her email account to ISP for illegal activities... If she doesn't respond, time to move on. Don't be a stalker or a pest.
giving her name out to provider #2?
If not, she might be miffed about that.
You should always clear a reference EACH TIME before giving a gal's info out to another gal
Thanks for the response guys.
Yea she must've been busy the weekend or something, and dont get me wrong. I am pestering no one haha. I would move on if i didnt get a response.
And actually yes, I used #1 as a referrence without a heads up, then i was reading the forum that I should have. Then i immediately sent and email apologizing and she was cool with that.
it is referred to as " Newbie Paranoia "..we all had it when we first started..fear of rejection is a powerful emotion that is usually completely unfounded..
I was interested in seeing another provider, and used the first one as referrence. She said she get back to me after I get verified, but its been a week already.
In the meantime, i contacted my first provider to set up for another appointment, and its been days since she's given me any response.
Have I gotten on her bad terms already or something? What gives.
-- Modified on 8/31/2015 1:21:15 PM
without a heads up... could be your wife or SO!
Some "take certain days off" & don't log in or power up their work phones when family & friends are around. I can't blame them.
I find a propsed meeting in the subject line helps sort the volume of mail a gal recieves.