Tantra is a spiritual practice. It has nothing to do with prostate massage. There are many ladies who use the term for marketing.
It IS possible to include sensory awareness, energetic practices, chakra manipulation, and some general tantric principles into a session to create what some would call a tantric practice.
If you are hung up on what service the lady provides, Tantra is NOT for you.
I noticed on some of the west coast Eros sites that there are a number of ladies who offer "Tantric" services. I looked it up on the internet and the whole thing sounds like the Feng Shui of sex. Just call me a simple country boy from NYC. I hate to sound like a philistine but WTF?
Has anybody been with one of these ladies and can anyone comment on whether or not the experience is any better than a traditional provider? There was one lady out of DC that I wantd to book with but when I read her website, the trantric crap turned me off. I couldn't tell whether or not she offered full service or a massage for big bucks. Truth be told, it all sounds like a scam.
Read Emmanuelle's reviews on TER-Chicago
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This is a joke right?
Not for human consumption. I only told him to read the reviews.
Man, I'd be hard pressed to send my worst enemy to Sauk Village or wherever they are. The others she works with (wild reviews) also lay out a trail for drugs, ripoffs, and plain old deception. Since when do you have to risk your life for pussy?
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Emmanuel is definitely full of shit in advertising that she is a C-cup. Looks to be a "nearly B" to me!
It's nothing more than sticking a finger up your ass, which you can do yourself by the way and is all fluff.
I was not impressed with my visit with one. I could have visited my ATF and got more, because she can take care of that prostrate just fine thank you very much.
The reality behind so called tantric sex is that it is a made up term and should be regarded as a red flag. The word is made up here in the West from the Sanskrit "tantra" which connotes black magic.
Rely on the review of the providers and disregard the hype.
an expert massuese can hold you at the brink of orgasm for extended periods of time, and give you whatever kind of release you desire (quick, delayed, prolonged, violent, etc).
a superior provider may give you all kinds of visual and tactle stimulation topped off by the orgasm of your choice. men who find a high quality tantric provider never complain.
but there are just as many scams in this field as in any other, just because someone claims to be a tantric masseuse doesn't mean that they know what they are doing.
in order to enjoy tantra you must be open to something other than getting your dick wet and "man on top, get it over with quick". in order to find a real, quality tantric masseuse, you have to read the reviews.
ha, this is a very funny thread, I could almost believe you guys are real.
Tantra has nothing to do with having your prostate given some attention, that's funny.
It is a way of life in a mixture of sexuality and spirtuality. It involves energy work and other subtle things. If you're looking to just try some new positions or have someome 'do' something to you, it's not for you. It involves work on your part as well. very amusing, thank you I needed that.
May Kali bless you all.
I have been with a few tantrikas. There is definitely something there, but you have to be open to the spirituality of it. If you just go to a tantrika thinking you can tolerate the mumbo jumbo in order for the better experience, well you will miss out on the better experience.
It's not for everyone, and many who advertise as tantrikas don't have a clue.
Look for someone who has a web site that talks about it in detail. They are most likely the real deal.
One of thousands of Google hits on Kali:
http://www.sanatansociety.org/hindu_gods_and_goddesses/kali.htm
She also removes attachment, ignorance and fear.
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My interpertation is that what Kali offers is death of the ego.
just suspend disbelief and forget about the chains of skulls she has.
But really she is about letting go of self importance and related things, it takes a very powerful goddess to do that.
M.
i'm a little puzzled as to why your message was in reply to mine. i do not mention prostate massage at all. however, if you open your eyes and look around you, you will notice that this is a site where people talk about sex and orgasm on a pretty regular basis. providers who offer "tantric" massage are offering an alternative route to orgasm (as opposed to oral or vaginal sex). i'm fully aware that tantra is about much more than that; but in THIS venue, that's what it means. i'm sure it's very spiritual of you to feel smug and laugh at a bunch of horny guys who do not have your deep understanding of the tantric way, and i'm glad we could amuse you.
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Tantra is a spiritual practice. It has nothing to do with prostate massage. There are many ladies who use the term for marketing.
It IS possible to include sensory awareness, energetic practices, chakra manipulation, and some general tantric principles into a session to create what some would call a tantric practice.
If you are hung up on what service the lady provides, Tantra is NOT for you.
Cindy Spice in Vegas supposed to be outstanding tantric provider. I have not had the pleasure, but know someone who has.
Doesn't Country Boy from NYC sound like an oxymoron? hehehe
Its merely something one is offered if they are curious about it..
Just like if one is advertising greek lessons
You dont have to do it
Its an option..
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I know I am a newbie at all this, to date I have only had one successfull time with a provider so I am only speaking for myself.
About 6 months ago I tried a "Tantra Provider" it was a joke and a half. Cost me 2 1/2 times what the real provider ended up charging me . All I ended up with was a half ass massage and feeling like an idiot.
MinRonNee,
Unfortunately there are many ladies who use the word "Tantra" solely as a marketing gimic. It sounds as if you met one.
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May better experiences await you, in whatever form you seek!
xoxo,
S.