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Re:Does a provider care if your younger than them?
SheerUtopia See my TER Reviews 1909 reads
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Touchy subject, most providers will post on there site or ad if there are age restrictions.  As for the first timer issue it maybe a first for you but if she is willing to see you I doubt it will be a first time for her and she will make you more than comfy = )

icedrake44125 reads

i'm 18 and most providers i've searched are 20+
I'm described as looking like a 16-17 year old =|
i'm afraid it'll be a nervous experience because i'm a first timer too.. any advice?

No, many ladies will not hold your age against you. If you are sure that you want to see providers at your young age try giving some ladies that interest you a call.
You are very young. If you are attractive at all, I do not understand why you are not focusing on getting laid by civvy ladies. If you are careful with who you choose and the sex with them, there should not be any problems that you will have to deal with later in your life. I am always leery of someone as young as you are getting into hobbying, you have barely had time to have had any relationships at all. I hope that you are one of the few, at your age, that understands clearly what they want and why they want those choices. Good luck.

numbnuts111945 reads

free pus$Y you'll ever need in college. I know I did!!!!

let him play. We'll probably have one less kid with STDs and a fragile psyche. I think about the few kids his age that I know and they are off the hook; no protection and experimenting (anal et al.) like there is no tomorrow. I knew about providers when I was his age because my uncle showed me a few places. Plus if he meets the right ladies he may learn a lot more about women and a lot more about how to...

Great advice, can you believe I even said it ? LOL .Someone check my pulse

Reason why i do not, is because i live near 4 college campuses. I have a son about to begin college. Alot of  providers have children and dont want to see children. Its toooooooo freaky for me to have kids my sons age to show up at my door. Once it happened and never again. I dont want to proof like its the local Main Street bar for UB students.

Same reason why "some" hobbyists dont want to see 18-21 yr olds if they have daughters the same age.

I know thats opening up a new can of worms.. SOME i say.. SOME.. LOL..

On another handsfree note. the younger providers love to see men their age. There are a few I know, that ask for refs, " how old is he ", then says YUMMMMMMMMM when I send the younger men to her. (under 25 )

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I could have handled it at that age and while I think kids today are a lot more naive about things and people, it's a case by case issue. I had always dated women a few years the other side of my birthday and had a much better time. The only trouble when I met girls my own age, I was not willing to tolerate their games. Now, I truly get your drift about the college age kids near where you live, that would be tough. Having taught kids that age before, it's a crazy age and yes the options today that kids have are mind blowing. I can think of a few man-eaters that would scare me if I were that age again, but I stand by my guns that if the guy can truly afford it and wants to focus on other things than chasing pussy, then a good provider is worth the stamps.

ma vie1663 reads

This is true.  I was 19 and I met the right ladies.

Touchy subject, most providers will post on there site or ad if there are age restrictions.  As for the first timer issue it maybe a first for you but if she is willing to see you I doubt it will be a first time for her and she will make you more than comfy = )

I can only guess as to why you wish to go this route at the tender age of 18. If you have done your research here you'll see most of the really popular providers with good consistent review scores are over 30yo. You probably have also noted many ladies specify "gentleman over xx years old". This is mostly attributed to the "flake" factor and/or the propensity for very young men to play sophomoric "games" in e-mail, on the phone or otherwise.
  There is a host of reasons why so many of the best providers are ten or more years your senior. In all honesty I would recommend developing your social skills and learning more about the elusive and mysterious Homo sapiens female and how to get it's attention and win it's favor without relying on a fist full of cash.

  FR.

karmacoma2521 reads

with monopoly money!  Be sure to let them know up front how old you are.  As long as you present yourself in a mature manner you should not have too many issues with this.  Of course some women will not be willing to make any exceptions to their 'age limit'.  If you find you have contacted such a provider, move on to the next one on your list.

Good luck!

kc

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I know what you're going through, my friend. I'm 43, but I can pass for 65.

I wouldn't mind at all. My youngest friend so far has been 21. Like to break the record.

Smiling at the thought,
Anneke

She will teach the youngster a thing or two.  What a way to learn.  Can I try for some extra credit?

And you want to break him in with a marathon?
Your so naughty I love it....HeHeHe

  FR.

My concern for you would be that you may become accustomed to providers and then regular girls your age may never measure up.
Make your decision carefully.  It could potentially affect the rest of your life.

...we have with providers is their JOB.  Your regular GF won't DO that stuff, not all the time, anyway.  (You think providers dress in latex and CFMs and trot out the lube, the vibrators and the restraints for their SOs EVERY SINGLE NIGHT?  OF COURSE they don't.  It's them being good at what they do.)  Now: would I have been deterred by this argument at 18 or 20?  HELL, no.                  

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