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RariCartier 548 reads
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Posted By: RariCartier
I'm tired of backpage, the way I look, work, carry myself is waay to upscale for BP and I've had bad experiences! Please can someone help me? HOW CAN I GET REVIEWED !?
   
 I don't know how busy you've been despite no reviews, but I'm recalling a few stories of newbies who found themselves in situations where the guys were convincing them to do things that they (the girls) didn't really want to do.  In particular, I'm thinking of a now very successful, very popular young lady who posted to newbie when she was a newbie and said that a client had convinced her to provide him with BBFS against her common sense thinking.  He told her 'You're new.  Everybody does BBFS.'  Well, that's not true.  She is much wiser now.  
   
 As much as you may want reviews, don't do anything that you don't want to do.  Pass on those requests and ask them to leave if you have to.    
   
 Good luck!
Trust me I won't do anything I'm not comfortable with for a review, I'm smart ;) thank you so much! Kisses Xo

RariCartier1608 reads

I'm having a hard time signing up for P411 and date-check because I do not have any reviews. I never met a TER reviewer! Am I in the wrong area? Where are the reviewers? How can I get reviewed? I seriously need to get reviewed so people can stop thinking I'm Catfish! I'm tired of backpage, the way I look, work, carry myself is waay to upscale for BP and I've had bad experiences! Please can someone help me? HOW CAN I GET REVIEWED !?

P.s. I am not a VIP member yet

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Jacque_Jenesais679 reads

Also, do you have a website? If not, my favorite free site was escortdesign.com. then escortbook.com. escortsite.com has a lot of glitches

These are predesigned FREE sites that look really great with lots of options.

The reason I'm talking about websites, is, if you want to attract reviewers, that means you're attracting researchers. (People who believe in reviewing because they have benefited it.)

One thing a lot of guys do who do their homework, is look for a lady who has a website. It's more official, and also a confirmation that this isn't just a quick stop to make a few bucks, then disappear. If you're investing, that means you'll stick around / not a scam etc.

So anyone is welcome to correct me... But TER will let you post an ad..??

My suggestion:
Jump on to escortbook.com and start your free site. It's so easy, you could do it on your phone . Zack is just phenomenal at responding with any site glitches. You can also keep updating it and building it as you go. Start with a little bio page, pictures page, donation page, and links page for when you get your TER profile.  

Get your site "TER reviewed", and register your site on the " site reviews" section

Pop an ad up on TER. Maybe do a little TER member discount to encourage members to book...

Start getting the reviews!!!

:D

Questions, check out my profile and shoot me an email. Otherwise, I'm sure you'll get lots of help here!

 
Last note: you can also ask your clients if they review and tell them you welcome them. :)

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LSMJD691 reads

She's right in her advice- you need to get noticed.  Many upstanding reviewers will only see a girl who has 3-4 reviews from reputable review writers.  We like to do our research - just like how ladies screen guys, we screen ladies through our own way - reviewing your website, reading your posts, seeing who else has written a review of you, etc.

Often though, more experienced hobbyists will Take One For The Team (TOFFT) and see an unreviewed lady to kick off the process and open up the TER profile.  But how do you attract these guys?  Get your website up as Courtney advises.  Get VIP access on TER, get a P411 profile set up (a must in my opinion), start posting to your local TER forum and run ads.  

Once you attract someone from TER, ask him to write a review AFTER the session is done.  PLEASE do not offer "Review Specials"  It cheapens the experience and guys will see it as desperate and we know we can't always trust reviews that were monetarily motivated.  Courtney's suggestion of a TER member discount is an interesting spin and I've seen girls also do P411 member discounts.  Just please don't make it a quid pro quo for a review.  If you attract the right TER member, you'll get an honest and fair review posted.

You're asking the right questions and you'll get lots of help her on this board, so you're already on the right path.  But, you need to do a bit of diligence to establish yourself here on TER.

Good Luck.

 

 



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Jacque_Jenesais510 reads

To get in other ways, if you know what I mean.

I don't do p411 or any site specials anymore, for that reason. VIP extended dates I do with guys who come back at full price a lot.

Member discounts are a way to attract clients who will need to prove their membership to you. Even $25 bucks off is a nice little compliment , special thing to do for people who may feel VIP for being a member of the community. And I think that's OK. It's not desperate to reward something good, just like a tip from a guy doesn't mean he's desperate.

Most I've noticed didn't take the discount anyway, but liked the gesture. :)

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RariCartier572 reads

Posted By: Courtney.Ova
Also, do you have a website? If not, my favorite free site was escortdesign.com. then escortbook.com. escortsite.com has a lot of glitches  
   
 These are predesigned FREE sites that look really great with lots of options.  
   
 The reason I'm talking about websites, is, if you want to attract reviewers, that means you're attracting researchers. (People who believe in reviewing because they have benefited it.)  
   
 One thing a lot of guys do who do their homework, is look for a lady who has a website. It's more official, and also a confirmation that this isn't just a quick stop to make a few bucks, then disappear. If you're investing, that means you'll stick around / not a scam etc.  
   
 So anyone is welcome to correct me... But TER will let you post an ad..??  
   
 My suggestion:  
 Jump on to escortbook.com and start your free site. It's so easy, you could do it on your phone . Zack is just phenomenal at responding with any site glitches. You can also keep updating it and building it as you go. Start with a little bio page, pictures page, donation page, and links page for when you get your TER profile.  
   
 Get your site "TER reviewed", and register your site on the " site reviews" section  
   
 Pop an ad up on TER. Maybe do a little TER member discount to encourage members to book...  
   
 Start getting the reviews!!!  
   
 :D  
   
 Questions, check out my profile and shoot me an email. Otherwise, I'm sure you'll get lots of help here!  
   
   
 Last note: you can also ask your clients if they review and tell them you welcome them. :)
 
Thank you so much Courney! I created a website on escortdesign lastnight I am not fully finished to my liking yet, I knew it was best for a website. I will take a look at ebook to see which I like best. One more question. Donations; im stuck on what to put as my donation. I don't want it to be too high nor too low. $200 an hr, I don't understand why girls charge that. I thought that was bp prices but from the looks of other sites, most females charge 200-3hrly, that's not even a profit if you really think about it. We have rooms, food, gas & feminie goods that we need, we have to provide safe love for our clients & give up our goods for 200? I need 4-500 an hour bc I feel like that's the least I should receive. I just want to draw in the high rollers bc I want to do high roller things. If I'm getting 200 an hour why should I get a nice upscale hotel? Why should I do upscale so things?
.. Its not worth it. If I charge 4-500 an hr would I get clients as a newbie? (For All Readers Please Feel Free To Chime In)

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hiddenhills523 reads

Where are you located? Rates are regional, so it's hard to advise without knowing where you are. Remember the goal is to get some reviews.  Once that's accomplished you can always raise your rates if your reviews merit the raise.  

A few months ago, I was the second reviewer of a local provided who at the time was charging 225, it was a "teaser" rate. Once she started to accumulate good reviews she moved her rate to 300, which is the mid ground rate for milf providers.  

Setting rates is an art not a science.

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RariCartier568 reads

Right. I am located in South Jersey. I visit Newark Delaware, BWI, & Philly. I will tour to DC, Va & Atl this year

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Jacque_Jenesais529 reads

Price ranges I've noticed attract different types of clients. Not bad vs good per se, but last minute vs prebooking, serious vs flaky, willing to screen vs asking for even more discounts, I've really noticed the play is a lot more rough at lower rates, and less sensual and mentally stimulating. For me at least.

It's about how many dates you want, how many inquiries vs serious inquiries you want, and can you fulfill what would be expected at that rate... Are you at red roof in or a higher end hotel? What services do you offer? GFE? (Bbbj and kissing?)

Are you willing to be slow at times without lowering your rates while you build a regular client base? Stuff like that.

-- Modified on 8/9/2015 3:43:06 PM

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impposter703 reads

Posted By: RariCartier
P.s. I am not a VIP member yet
It's not the first thing on the list of things to do, but monthly VIP ($30, I think) will give you access to PM (Private Messages, for additional help) and other features until you do have your first review and Profile.  Once reviewed, you get free limited VIP.  If things go well, you'll have a Profile and review within a couple of weeks and you won't even have to renew paid VIP.

But your website and other stuff may be a higher priority.  

You can post your Picture only to the Photo Only board, but read the rules.  Roughly, Name and City in the subject line is the only text allowed; each picture can be used only once per 30 days (so you'll need a bunch of different pics to keep posting).  Read the daily thread for a couple of days before jumping in.

You can post ads to the local Ad Boards but read the rules.  One ad each 7 days.  If touring outside your usual area, the subject line must include the dates of your visit.  Read your preferred Ad Board for a couple of days before jumping in.

Participate in your local discussion board so guys will get to know you and your personality.  READ ONLY for a several days (at least) to get a feel for the board and its major contributors and their personalities. Do not post anything ad-like to the discussion board.  If someone posts and ISO ("In search of") to their discussion board, you can reply that you're available or fit their request and it will not be considered an ad (on the boards I frequent).

Good luck and stay tuned for more and better advice from other regulars

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RariCartier547 reads

Thank you guys soooo much! This was super helpful!

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swimtrekr525 reads

the self help center.  You have been given some good advice, but you need to read the self help center.  Come back here if you still have questions.  I also suggest you start replying to threads on your local regional board.  That will get your name out there and give potential clients a feel for your personality.  You may start a thread, but you can't post a link to your site on it, admin considers that an ad.  You can put your site link on a reply to someone else's thread without penalty.

Get some good pictures, both candid and professional to post on the photo day threads.  Just be sure to follow all the guidelines for posting so you don't run afoul of TER admin.

LLAP,
Swim

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impposter566 reads

Posted By: RariCartier
I'm tired of backpage, the way I look, work, carry myself is waay to upscale for BP and I've had bad experiences! Please can someone help me? HOW CAN I GET REVIEWED !?
I don't know how busy you've been despite no reviews, but I'm recalling a few stories of newbies who found themselves in situations where the guys were convincing them to do things that they (the girls) didn't really want to do.  In particular, I'm thinking of a now very successful, very popular young lady who posted to newbie when she was a newbie and said that a client had convinced her to provide him with BBFS against her common sense thinking.  He told her 'You're new.  Everybody does BBFS.'  Well, that's not true.  She is much wiser now.

As much as you may want reviews, don't do anything that you don't want to do.  Pass on those requests and ask them to leave if you have to.  

Good luck!

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RariCartier549 reads

Posted By: impposter
Posted By: RariCartier
I'm tired of backpage, the way I look, work, carry myself is waay to upscale for BP and I've had bad experiences! Please can someone help me? HOW CAN I GET REVIEWED !?
   
 I don't know how busy you've been despite no reviews, but I'm recalling a few stories of newbies who found themselves in situations where the guys were convincing them to do things that they (the girls) didn't really want to do.  In particular, I'm thinking of a now very successful, very popular young lady who posted to newbie when she was a newbie and said that a client had convinced her to provide him with BBFS against her common sense thinking.  He told her 'You're new.  Everybody does BBFS.'  Well, that's not true.  She is much wiser now.  
   
 As much as you may want reviews, don't do anything that you don't want to do.  Pass on those requests and ask them to leave if you have to.    
   
 Good luck!
Trust me I won't do anything I'm not comfortable with for a review, I'm smart ;) thank you so much! Kisses Xo

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