Ditto to TD77. The thrill of the next conquest is phenomenal. But one of these days you will find the one whose chemistry mixes with yours, and find a whole new phenomenon. The experiences of the new conquest, and the repeat visit to the one with whom you have chemistry are like apples and oranges, both wonderful, but both vastly different...
I spot a new provider on a web site. I do the research on reviews, I search the boards for information. I finally work up enough nerve to set an appointment. I'm as giddy as a school boy. I pick up flowers on the way to the appointment. She opens the door and I can't believe I'm seeing her in person. Wow is she beautiful! My stomach is full of butterflies. My head is in a giddy haze while she exceeds all my expectations.
After that, I have no interest in seeing her again. I'm off to the next conquest.
Am I the only one puts all the planning and effort into it? Do most guys just get horny, call, and have a provider show up an hour later? Am I the only one who loses interest in a provider after we've done it once?
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...activity, it's more or less THE MAIN POINT. You're not wining and dining a civvy, filling her ear with bullshit, taking her to bed and then having her complain, "You never CALLED me!" Instead, you plunk your money down, bang her and leave. Your entire obligation: the money. HER entire obligation: your good time, but only on the one occasion. That's the difference between a provider, even one who provides a GFE, and an actual GF. You scratch the itch, you satisfy your curiosity, and you're on your way. I think MOST guys are like this.
...You.
Why? I’d rather consider human activity, as a human interaction.
My GF, a GFE provider is as human as you can get. I have never treated her differently as when I was a client or as her BF. With respect and definitely NOT a hole to “plunk your money down, bang her and leave”.
Yes, you are right, she is there for your pleasure, not hers. To scratch your itch as you say. I am just glad she comes back to me when she wants to be shown that she is worth her weight as a woman and as a human being, in gold...
I am glad you posted this as it shows your true colors CM....
Sign me off as
“Not most guys”
I bring a big lollipop! I engage in the same Hit&run activity, but limit my age group to only 18-20 new to the industry girls, part of my sick little kicks in this is the "freshness" - I LIKE nervous girls that, don't know what they are doing, and have limited menu's - then I know I'm not licking up some other guy's JIZZ when DATY!
Because of the "way" I shop in our local market, I often see girls their first week - if not their first day out. I even found a girl once that not only was I her first customer, but I was her "FIRST" as well! - NOW THAT'S FRESH!
if all she's got are just her looks (you didn't mention her performance), perhaps she didn't manage to hook you to come back for more.
In my case, the ones that made me go back again and again don't have 9s and 10s on looks but the performance's out of this world.
No, you're not the only one. In my case, I usually spring for an outcall and make the atmosphere as comfortable as possible for her. Some appreciate the effort, some could care less. If you did not make any kind of connection, then move on. Sooner or later, you will find one who will keep you interested more than once. It's all about chemistry. Then again, it could also be that the thrill for you is more in the 'action' part of it - the search and the set-up. I find that there seems to be some kind of thrill when I'm in the process of making the first contact and setting-up the meet. People with gambling problems are like that . . . it's not about the winning, it's only about being in the action which creates their high.
Ditto to TD77. The thrill of the next conquest is phenomenal. But one of these days you will find the one whose chemistry mixes with yours, and find a whole new phenomenon. The experiences of the new conquest, and the repeat visit to the one with whom you have chemistry are like apples and oranges, both wonderful, but both vastly different...
I usually stick with one for a couple of rounds. I have found that it gets better the second or third time and then I move on unless she's got something between her ears and wants to go hang out. Most though are FALT types.
Excuse me? Thrill of the conquest? With all due respect to the ladies involved, there is no conquest. You paid for the company, it's your money, not your charm, that makes the chosen lady be with you. Perhaps later on she will enjoy your company again, and at some point it will be your charm. But that takes time.
If I can kiss her without her laughing or hurling, I consider it it a conquest.
Hell, I feel like Don Juan if she even opens the door after giving me the once-over through the peep-hole.
...if you are enjoying yourself, isn't that the objective here.
Dr. Phil-ip always poses a question for his quests and here is your's- "Have you ever tried a repeat visit with one of these providers you had a good time with before and maybe asked them to dress a little differently, meet you at a popular bar? She's dressed sexy as hell, you start flirting with her, she openly flirts back, all the other harddicks mouths drop when she leaves with you. Hell, to add some fun to it, you dress up like some DORK and really put some role play into it !!
But, if you're enjoying things just the way they are now, then stop analyzing it and KEEP enjoying yourself.
Ahhh, maybe I should call Okrah up. I'll put on my PIMP clothes, with the purple brim, purple suit, white shoes. I'll ask her to meet me at the corner of...
If they are bad I won't visit them again. I have noticed that the greedy overated GFE ones try to take advantage of you on the 3rd visit. The spend to much time talking about their personal lives and wasting time to the point that you don't have time to get in the 2nd pop for a 2 hour appointment. This could be an indicator of a provider who is overworked handling to many calls in one day.
Once in a while you get a provider who can do 2 pops in 1 hour, few and far between.
Many of these providers have forgotten about the basics. The focus on CIM and BBBJ to much. I can cum in all of them in lap doggie position. Only a few can make me cum in missionary (those are the keepers). I have yet to find one who can make me cum in cowgirl (many run out of energy), you have to do the extra work to prolong cowgirl.
Out of the 15 providers I have been only 2 have been able to get me to recovery in 10 minutes for the 2nd pop.
And it makes life worth it.
While you may certainly not be the only one, I'm not exactly in your shoes. I've moved from provider to provider somewhat to satisfy my need for variety. However, I would like to stick with my ATF if only she could be RELIABLE. The two leading candidates (who are certainly not aware that they're "in competition") have both been unreliable at times, thus preventing them from acheiving my ATF designation and causing me to see other providers. I'm under no allusions, I know this is a business to them. I'm not seeking a GF, mistress, etc., as I'm married and want to keep things simple. I do want someone to be able to see me and not back out with regularity b/c of other conflicts/ excuses. These missed appointments (mind you, I've never been stood up) are certainly not good for "their business", as I could easily become a steady regular.
are less if you schedule way ahead of time say two weeks in advance as opposed to same day or two days in advance? My ATF has never had to cancel or change on me whenever I schedule way in advance like at least a week; even when it's same day or a day in advance, I've only been affected once (I wanted morning, she said Okay the evening before and then sent me an e-mail wanting to move it to the afternoon).
No. I usually schedule 5 to 7 days in advance with these two ladies. Some of the reasons that sessions have been rescheduled: her boyfriend surprised her by coming back in town, illness, her period arrived, a pet swallowed some prescription meds that had accidentally been left out requiring a trip to an emergency clinic. While they were all legit reasons, it's still the unreliability that I'm trying to avoid.
On the occasion that I did book 2 weeks in advance, the appointment had been forgotten when I called to confirm. Huge drama on her part, to make arrangements to see me(was able to see me & we had a great time). Another time, I showed up (after confirming) and she thought I was an hour early and wasn't dressed for the part (she had bathed, so I still fucked her, but still...)