Is this typical? I would've thought seeing a provider once would be good enough.
Some girls don't feel comfortable giving the proverbial "thumbs up" to a guy that maybe they only saw for an hour or so.
Seeing you on multiple occasions can give a girl a better feel and allow her to make a more informed recommendation to a fellow provider.
I cant ever remember a girl telling me this but I almost exclusively see hookers for lengthy sessions.
If I've only seen you once, but then i haven't seen you in 6 months to a year, I can't in good faith give you a reference. You may have changed drastically over that period of time and i would be none the wiser.
If, on the other hand, you see me once, then i get a reference request from another provider for you a few weeks later? No problem.
It just comes down to whatever that particular lady's policy happens to be.
....I always begin with "with me, he was.......". I don't care if he wants to visit a lady the next day, or next year, I have no idea how he will treat another.
When replying to a request, I also include the date I last visited with the gentleman, and how long I have known him.
Warm regards,
Kelly
You want a reference after only one date? Most likely not happening! It also depends a lot on the provider you've just had a date with. Just because she seems comfortable with you on one date doesn't mean she's comfortable enough to hand out a referenc
Most of my white list references were after one date.