OK, your new to this, or maybe you been away for a while and you want some pointers to make that first paid experience go well. We where all new at some point. The first time can be nerve wrecking. Many things can and may go wrong. Following this guide will help you avoid the many pitfalls in the hobby. In this guide I am going to assume you are not visiting a Nevada legal brothel.

May I congratulate you on doing the first step. Doing ones own homework by doing research. Before you contact your first sexual service provider, you need to know how the game works. May I suggest asking any and all questions you have on the boards. You may get ribbed by the old hands at this but better that than learning the real hard way. Also you need to make some choices early on on what risks you are willing to take. Most providers are discrete and professional but sadly some are not and a few are downright dangerous. We will cover those choices as they come up. One thing you need to be aware of is out side of the legal Nevada brothels this isn't exactly legal in the US and should be prepared if you should meet up with law enforcement. I Have a guide on that: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=22842&boardID=25&page=1#22842

First choosing who the lucky lady will be. There are tons of providers out there and tons of sites that advertise those ladies. Do not let your dick do your thinking. Bad things can happen if you don't do your homework. No matter where you find them you must do your own homework and screen them. I posted a guide on this: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=148359&boardID=33&page=1#148359

Now lets talk about special considerations in choosing a lady. First you will need to find a lady that will see new clients as many require references. Best way around this is to join a screening site like preferred411.com or date-check.com and find ladies listed as Newbie friendly. This will help in screening later as well. Remember to screen.

Found a lady that turns you on? Checked to see she is safe? Ready to book? Not so fast. Make sure you read her ad and read her site. Most providers screen. They take huge risks in doing this. I know ladies that have been raped. If they are smart they will want to know you are safe. Everyone must screen everyone in this game. Remember earlier I said you would have to make choices? Here is the first one. You must decide how much info you are willing to give out. Most providers are discrete but some are not. It is possible any information you give a provider will find its way in the wrong hands. At the same time any lady not screening is taking risks that puts you in harms way. It is a delicate balancing act of risks. That being said most providers are discrete and if you screened you should be fine to share your information. Just make sure what she is asking is what your willing to share. Once out there it is out there and you lose some control. There is no take backs.

Now your ready to contact the lady. DO NOT DISCUSS SEXUAL ACTS IN FIRST CONTACT EVER!!!! I suggest that if it is a contact method used by the provider you are interested in that you use email. What to put in this email? Well a brief introduction describing you would be nice. Keep it short and PG. Also please include the screening information she requests, and the date, time and length of appointment you are looking for. If this is your first time go ahead and let her know. Don't lie to the lady because that is one quick way to end up on the do not see ever list. Do not discuss sex acts. Do not haggle prices. Be prepared to pay exactly what is listed on her ad or site and know that before you book. Let her know if you are looking for an incall (you go to the provider) or outcall (the provider comes to you) appointment. And be polite providers are women first (most of them that is there are a few male ones out there).

Now you wait. Give her a few days and most often they will get back to you. As you are new screening could take a bit of time. If the lady feels safe your time will be much more enjoyable. If after a few days she does not get back to you may send a follow up email. If still no contact check your spam folder and move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea.
 
Great now you have your first appointment booked. It is a great idea to confirm the paid date the day of. Also if this is outcall make sure she has your address, or the hotel name, address and room number you are meeting at. If this is an incall she will likely use a two call system. This is where she will give you a place close to where you are meeting and she can check you out and then contact you with an exact location. She may also have her meet her some place public first. Communication is key.

Now before you go here is a check list:

Are you clean? Teeth brushed? Hair combed? Freshly showed? Freshly shaved? Clean balls and ass? Make sure of this. Bad hygiene ruins many  dates paid or no. Sad this must be brought up but some guys don't wash themselves. Don't be one of those guys.

Have the money ready to go and precounted. I find an envelope useful, but others do not. If the lady has special instruction on what to do with the money once you get there it is often best to follow them.

Are you dressed as to not attract attention? Are your clothes clean and in good shape? Trust me ladies like a man that looks neat and clean. Plus you don't want to stick out.

Do you know where to go and what she expects? is she using a two call system? Follow it.

Do you have condoms? Most ladies prefer to use their own but having a fresh unopened box does come in handy from time to time.

Do you have your phone?  

If you answered yes to all of the above you are ready to go.

Once you get there be discreet and be aware. Don't act sneaky as that will draw attention to yourself. Be causal, like you belong. Use your big head. Follow her instructions to the room if doing incall. When you get there or she gets there set aside the money as requested by the lady and be prepared to take a quick shower and rewash your ass and balls. Be polite be respectful and have fun. One last thing please be respectful and do be ready to go when your time is up.