Unfortunately I only get to hobby once or twice a year as I have a very busy work week. I'm heading to Atlantic city for a couple of days for my yearly trip at the very end of August and I usually just go with the phone book in the room to find my provider for the evening. The last couple of years I haven't really been happy with that because the quality of provider those agencies send are usually among the robot/unenthusiastic type.
My question is how long in advance should I attempt to book an independent provider or put out an ISO?
Thanks in advance.
for most ladies, the earlier the booking, the better. also, you can get all the screening business out of the way and just have the date happen.
For all intents and purposes though, a week would be plenty of time.. 2-3 days beforehand would work too, but if you're using references or employment verification for screening, i'd suggest more time than that.
have fun!
Okay, thanks for the tip it's appreciated. As far as employment verification goes I'm probably going to spring for the ter membership for a month or two but does it make sense for me to sign up with p411 or a service like that if I only hobby once or twice annually? Thanks.
personally, I'd do rs2k or p411 because you only hobby 1-2 times a year. Lots of ladies won't accept references that are over 6 months since last visit, and lots of ladies won't give out references if they haven't seen you in over 6 months.
Seeing that you don't have a current reference, rs2k and/or p411 would help, but lots of ladies still require additional info concerning p411.
Good luck!
If the dates for your trip to AC are fixed, I would certainly do it no later than the beginning of August!
Ok cool. Thanks man
....as much as some providers prefer that we ladies & gentlemen book super early, I have had it happen that the provider completely flakes and forgets about the appt, despite some gentle reminders from me along the way. So I don't try to book too early- I usually start the process a week or two before I want the playdate.
hen I started hobbying many years ago, I used the phone book and prayed that the worst thing that happened was the lady tried a little up-selling. Not the greatest experiences to say the least!
TER research has eliminated any doubt that the session will be great
I travel quite a bit on business. I usually post about a month in advance on the regional board of the city I am visiting. I ask for recommendations from hobbyists and for ladies to introduce themselves if they feel we would be compatible. I provide the dates I will be in town/available, as well as a brief description of the type of lady I'd like to meet and the type of date (short session, dinner, etc.) that I am seeking. It has worked really well for me