He does however have a responsibility to keep this information to himself, but I see nothing that would lead me to believe that he has the slightest inclination to do so.
He thinks he may be in for a great time with this lady, and I think he may be right. or at least we can all hope so. To answer the OP's original question, no this is not common, but yes it does happen, and sometimes it can lead to a great time. I would caution you not to read too much into it just yet, but it sounds you are open to whatever this leads to without being overly "giddy" about it and IMO that's exactly the attitude to take. Good luck and I hope you end up have some great times with this lady.so.... I saw a provider for the first time. She said we hand a great connection, and afterwords she shared her personal info and gave me her phone number. How should I interpret this?
for her to give you her real information when you have only met once. Did you find her through an agency? If so she probably felt safe with you, trusts you and would like to see you again without the agency taking a cut. Just because she gave you a different name don't be so sure its her real name, it could be an alternate stage name and number.
If you know for a fact it's her real info keep it to yourself. Enjoy continuing to see her if you want to but don't read to much into it.
Yeah i would be cool with it just back off if it starts to get too weird.
Discretion is the watch word of the hobby. If she truly did give you her real name and number, she intended it for you and you alone. So keep it that way. She obviously felt comfortable with you, and likely wants to see you again.
LLAP,
Swim
unless of course she was hinting at an off the clock type of relationship. Did she suggest this, or did you see an agency gal and she gave you her direct contact? If it's the latter, it's called stealing clients from the agency and is done all the time. Odds are, she wants all of your money and not just a cut... no 'connection' needed lol.
Thanks for all the feedback. Great info. I forgot to mention that she provided way more than the services advertised. She gave me her real information that I verifiedied through a Social media website and back ground check. She doesn't go through an agency, but has a scheduler.
Sounds like I might have a good situation growing here
Not to sound harsh, but verifying her to me is kind of taking things way to far. If a lady gives you information that is more personal in nature, you have a unspoken responsibility to not reveal that to others and certainly doesn't give you the right to verify it.
Thanks for the feedback. I admit that I probably went a little to far by validating stuff. I've scheduled with her for next week and we will see how everything goes. Have a great 4th of July!!
He does however have a responsibility to keep this information to himself, but I see nothing that would lead me to believe that he has the slightest inclination to do so.
He thinks he may be in for a great time with this lady, and I think he may be right. or at least we can all hope so.
To answer the OP's original question, no this is not common, but yes it does happen, and sometimes it can lead to a great time. I would caution you not to read too much into it just yet, but it sounds you are open to whatever this leads to without being overly "giddy" about it and IMO that's exactly the attitude to take. Good luck and I hope you end up have some great times with this lady.
I just find the whole need to validate her via social media and to run a background check on her way out of bounds.
Women check us out all the time. I don't get upset about them checking us out. A quick Google, Social Media check harms no one.