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In addition to all this fine advice:....
mrfisher 108 Reviews 235 reads
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Always be specific on the issue of the day, hour, and length of time you want to see  her rather than make it general.  Providers see that as more definite and will take the request more seriously.

Also specify whether incall or outcall if she offers both, and if outcall, where to

So i have a friend that has given me some info on starting in this hobby.  But i wonder if there are suggestions, maybe even from providers, on what is good info to text/voicemail on first contact?

So far ive been calling and leaving voicemails, roughly:  Hi, saw your great reviews and looking to see if you are available today/tonight/etc.  I leave my name number and really not much else.  

Suggestions on what to add to the above, or remove, expand upon?  I see lots of providers saying no AA and love white/asian.  Does it help if i disclose that im white?  That im relatively fit, clean, etc.  

Thanks for any feedback!

Aaron

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Posted By: agwasb
But i wonder if there are suggestions, maybe even from providers, on what is good info to text/voicemail on first contact?    So far ive been calling and leaving voicemails --snip--
 Calling a provider that you've never met is a bit intrusive.  E-mail or a text is better.  Even with someone I know well (SB/ATF) I rarely call her unless we're meeting within the hour and there's a problem:  e.g,. I'm running late; theres a problem with the room, etc.  
 
Posted By: agwasb
...saw your great reviews and looking to see if you are available today/tonight/etc.  
 Ok, going for a same-day hookup with someone you've never met is usually a bad play.  Try to book her in advance.    
Posted By: agwasb
 I see lots of providers saying no AA and love white/asian.  Does it help if i disclose that im white?  
 Your screening profile should have a basic description of you, including race.  So don't tout that you're 'white'--it sounds a bit racist & desperate.  If you're not using a screening site (P411 or DateCheck) then join one.  --

I agree with you, Z.  I'm almost thinking that he has by-passed the screening process all together ( I hope that's not the case)

Depending on the are you're in, try getting verified through P411.  They will take care if you.

D.

since you have apparently not done much, if any, research on a provider you are interested in.  Preliminary research will tell you her preferred method of contact.  Do it that way, phone messages may not be what she wants at first.  Read her ads, look at her website, look at her TER profile if she has one.  For a first time visit, you need to give her time to check you out, and asking for a today/tonight date is not gonna cut it.  If it's your first time contacting her, she needs time to screen you, so a short notice date is probably not gonna happen.  As you are new, take it slow, don't ask for a same day session.  Relax, you got time.

It would probably help if you mention that you are white if her ads indicate she does not see certain races.  It does without saying that she expects you to be are clean, fitness not so much, but cleanliness is a must.

LLAP,
Swim

PS, read the self help center.
S

Always be specific on the issue of the day, hour, and length of time you want to see  her rather than make it general.  Providers see that as more definite and will take the request more seriously.

Also specify whether incall or outcall if she offers both, and if outcall, where to

Thank you, mrfisher.  You're a PRINCE! Such common sense advice, yet......
 

Posted By: mrfisher
Always be specific on the issue of the day, hour, and length of time you want to see  her rather than make it general.  Providers see that as more definite and will take the request more seriously.  
   
 Also specify whether incall or outcall if she offers both, and if outcall, where to.  
   
 

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