but not until after the Memorial Day weekend and before Labor Day.
And the condition of the clothes is probably more important than their style, as you point outWhen contacting an independent provider you have not seen before what is the proper way to do so? I know you shouldn't call or text and say "hey babe, are you busy tonight? ..." do you introduce yourself? I'm wondering because I want to see a provider that's out of my normal market (I'm in Providence area, she'said in greater Boston ).
Also, for meeting with a new provider for the first time what is the proper attire? Casual...business casual... dressy?
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ow you came to know about her (That is, where did you see her ad, etc.), your screening information (Read her website carefully to make sure you cover all the bases she wants.), a brief profile of yourself (age, family situation, etc.), and when you would like to meet, and for how long.
Wear clothing suitable for going out to a public place: A shirt with a collar, dress slacks, shoes that were made from something that had parents, and a sport coat perhaps
My uniform for the summer is shorts. If it's good enough to get onto a country club, it's good enough to go see a hooker, err excuse me, good enough to see a sex provider.
IMO how you dress is not as important as being clean and fresh. You can look just fine wearing shorts and a golf shirt and you can look downright disheveled and seedy even wearing a suit if you've been wearing it for hours in 90 degree plus heat. Casual, comfortable and clean will work 99% of the time.
but not until after the Memorial Day weekend and before Labor Day.
And the condition of the clothes is probably more important than their style, as you point out
In Florida for example, shorts are just fine, even in January.
IMO, if you are dressed well enough to show up at a country club, you are dressed plenty well enough to show up at a hookers door.
Times have changed a LOT where it comes to dress, but it does matter quite a bit where you are. In Las Vegas for example it's perfectly acceptable to show up at a five star restaurant wearing jeans or even shorts, but you may very well be turned away if you attempt the same thing in a city like Boston.
It's just too damn hot and humid in Florida for a dress shirt and slacks. I usually wear some kind of logo T-shirt, and occasionally a golf shirt.
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I almost exclusively use P411 when setting up my dates. I'll introduce myself and let her know where I noticed her. I then ask if she is available to meet on such and such a date at what time and whether it is incall or outcall. I usually close with something to the effect "I am looking forward to hearing from you, warm regards, your devoted Senator" it seems to work for me.
As far as attire, whatever you're comfortable with as long as you are neat and clean.
Just my dos centavos...
Chances are she'll specify how to get a hold of her (email, contact form, text, etc) and what to include in your initial contact.
As far as what to wear, I say dress for the environment. If you're meeting her in a 5* restaurant, showing up in shorts and a t-shirt probably won't work. Most guys seem to go the business casual route. As long as you don't look conspicuous, it really doesn't matter.
I would not want to dress way up and make a spectacle of myself in a casual place. If we are meeting for a cocktail at a nice hotel, I would expect to dress in accordance with the other guests. On my website I have a drop down for how you would like me to arrive: jeans, designer couture or appropriate for venue. Since I'm in Vegas, it could go either way. Lots of people wear jeans to high end places. I like to ask what my date is wearing so that we look like we belong together.
Regarding your opening line, identify yourself "Hi, this is David from Chicago" identify the source "I saw your ad on ___________". Give a time line, "I'm in town until Thursday" or "I'm local" and then your desire "I'd like to get together for a drink and an hour of private time" or "overnight" or whatever. Then offer appointment time options: "Are you available Tuesday evening or Wednesday at lunch?"
I HATE it when someone becomes too familiar too fast. "Baby" sounds like something out of an old gangster movie or it makes you sound like a player instead of a gentleman. We may be ho's but we are still women. Make us feel safe and respected and we will open to you like a flower.
Once you know us... that's a different story. 
....so I arrive at most of my incall sessions in work attire, which for me is a nice blouse & slacks. My last session was on a Saturday, and I had the day off so I showed up in shorts and a t shirt. I honestly think that as long as both you and your clothing are clean, the provider won't care if you are meeting her at her hotel room or apartment. Now if you are meeting in a public place, like for dinner or drinks beforehand, then obviously your attire should fit the occasion.