I could always ask my wife if you could join us.  we live on a little lake, in lake county, similiar to "on golden pond".  guest bedroom, guest bath, jacuzzi on the deck, boats, boats, and more boats.  best part is I can count lot's of men on the street who wouild love to come and spend time with you.  but then I go back to the "well I could ask my wife", probably not so much, she is sweet as hell, but not that opened minded.  good luck with your search.