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tokai 1450 reads
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Any getaway would do.

If there is a town/5 star resort hotel within a reasonable driving distance (2 hours?). Give her a night or two there. If it is a town, find a nice bed and breakfast.

Lance Romance2738 reads

I have lady friend and former provider whom I've kept in touch with, on and off, since we both retired.

She's struggling with her new life, staying clean and on the straight and narrow, but has had some bad things happen.  Financially she's okay.

I'd like to do something nice for her to cheer her up a bit.  Thought of buying her a day in the spa, but that's really not original.  Lunch/dinner,  opera/theatre with ME won't fill the bill either, for reasons of discretion.

So I ask the guys, what kids of things have you done which were appreciated?

And for ladies, if it were you, what would bring you a little joy?

Appreciate all (well-intentioned) suggestions, thanks.

ellobo693009 reads

She'll return with a smile and a certain wobble to her walk. http://aav6.aavacations.com/Consumer/aavaccom.asp

I talked with a lady the other night that said she just wanted to cuddle.  She'd been ill, and thought it would do the trick.  Unfortunately for me, her story was of a past event, so I couldn't help out.

The point is, it's not always the big stuff.  Just let her know that you're her friend, and that you care.

sweetnsoft1808 reads

...Being rubbed from head to toe and slathered in mud from Iceland....

If originality is important to you though, it sounds like this gal could use a few sessions with a life coach. Maybe get a gift certiificate for that.

tokai1451 reads

Any getaway would do.

If there is a town/5 star resort hotel within a reasonable driving distance (2 hours?). Give her a night or two there. If it is a town, find a nice bed and breakfast.

Tig Ole Bitties1877 reads

When I am feeling depressed or down I like having my pussy eaten then banged out doggy style. It has never failed yet.

always cheer me up. Carnival Rides at the county fair. A long ride on the back of a motorcycle. A helicopter ride over the city. Rent a speed boat for the day and go really fast! Do something fun, a little dangerous and crazy. Take her somewhere she can get wild and laugh and act like a kid again. She will love it.

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