You can generally expect that they'll be more experienced, comfortable and open to activities beyond the standard oral sex-then-intercourse routine.
I am hoping for a bit of help here (please be gentle I am new to this). How can I best determine what services a provider offers? Some providers make it very clear what is on the menu. Either on their website or through posts on this board. I would call a couple of them out as what I think are great examples but am not sure if they would appreciate it or not. Other providers provide little to no information on the services provided.
How can I best determine that a provider offers what I am looking for? Without contacting everyone I might be interested in. The reviews on here provide some insight but may not provide the complete picture.
To take it a step further what is the best way to determine you are both on the same page for exactly what you are interested in?
I don't want to waste anyone's time. I am also trying to avoid scattering my information all over the place. I don't want to be "that guy" that sends the wrong email. Finally I want to maximize my enjoyment by ensuring I do not have the wrong expectations by thinking that an item is on the menu when it is not. Or that I can only get something one way when I want it a bit different.
Until you actually meet, there is no way to know that she'll be able to deliver 100% exactly what you want, how you want it. There's always a certain "roll of the dice" to any first meeting, and you're more likely to enjoy yourself if you have some flexibility in your tastes and are able to enjoy your companion for what specific qualities she has to offer.
Given the intimate nature of this, beyond the general categories (ex. FS or not, BBBJ vs. CBJ), you can't expect to receive the exact same performance as someone else. If you have very specific expectations, taking a close look at reviews for consistency of activities and messaging reviewers to confirm should be sufficient for making an informed decision.
If you have specific interests beyond sex acts (ex. costumes, role play, etc.), you can inquire about that. Sex acts you can inquire about AFTER screening as long as you're discreet (use euphemisms) and not vulgar/explicit
is to read her reviews, that means if you don't have a VIP membership you need to get one so you can see what's in the juicy details. Asking her if she will preform specific sex acts for money is a good way to never meet her.
... for the very 1st meeting.
Use the 1st meeting as a "get to know each other" type of thing. Yea, you can still have fun.
then, during the meeting, you can inquire about other menu items that may or may not be offered.
doing this in person will alleviate any possibilities of misunderstandings on both sides.
How can I best determine that a provider offers what I am looking for? Without contacting everyone I might be interested in. The reviews on here provide some insight but may not provide the complete picture.
To take it a step further what is the best way to determine you are both on the same page for exactly what you are interested in?
I don't want to waste anyone's time. I am also trying to avoid scattering my information all over the place. I don't want to be "that guy" that sends the wrong email. Finally I want to maximize my enjoyment by ensuring I do not have the wrong expectations by thinking that an item is on the menu when it is not. Or that I can only get something one way when I want it a bit different.
Thanks for the input everyone.
I don't want anyone to think that I am looking to put together a script where these 10 things will be done and C will follow B followed by D.
I just want to make sure that if I am looking for say role playing and a bit of prostate fun that it is on the menu. Somethings are easy to identify from the reviews, e.g. Greek.
I do understand that this is a YMMV situation. I also understand that I things can change and that I can still have fun even if it is not exactly what I was expecting. I am easy going and can roll with it.
However the information I am looking for will help with narrowing down my choices and help increase my chances of getting a specific itch scratched.
You can generally expect that they'll be more experienced, comfortable and open to activities beyond the standard oral sex-then-intercourse routine.
they will probably be less likely to be offended by a specific inquiry, especially if you politely ask their permission to be candid about it first.