But in the interest of full disclosure I sort based on the scores unless I have back channel info or have chatted with someone I won't knowing book with someone with lower scores. I find many scores inflated, possibly due to having such a good time, so I generally assume that an 8 is probably a 7 in my book and that's about all I'm willing to go down to. In short, if she's not hotter than my wife why risk it?
I want to know if most of people have higher expectation from a provider that have very good reviews(8-9-10)& explicit reviews?
The problem with reviews, especially high ones is how the reviewer perceives the session. For him, it was lights out, for the next guy, well you know the drill. Many reviewers embellish and will credit providers with some explicit act (BBBJNQNS) when that is pure fabrication. The poor provider has to live down the reputation and if the next guys feels cheated, he's gonna slam her on one of the boards etc. So yes and no and damn the fools who lie because there should be some honor even where getting some strange is concerned.
I tend to look at the bad reviews first and see what went wrong. There should also be LOTS of good ones, which I'll read through next.
I almost didn't see one lady because her reviews were incredibly good, and I feared being disappointed. After I realized that I was being stupid, I scheduled and officially now have an ATF. Go figure.
But this doesn't excuse one from doing his own "research" on the topic. If I read that 9 out of 10 guys had a super experience I probably will go in expecting/hoping for the same.
A lady with many 8 plus reviews just gives more confidence that I am picking the right lady to see. I have very little expectation (regardless of her review ranking) in an initially meeting because I have learned to expect the unexpected in this hobby.
But in the interest of full disclosure I sort based on the scores unless I have back channel info or have chatted with someone I won't knowing book with someone with lower scores. I find many scores inflated, possibly due to having such a good time, so I generally assume that an 8 is probably a 7 in my book and that's about all I'm willing to go down to. In short, if she's not hotter than my wife why risk it?
a rolling sensation? Like the twirly things in a car wash?
Way to go!!!
i mean by that somebody describe things in his experience you're expecting the same things no matter what?(Bad hygiene,agressivity)Aren't people can read betwen line?I'm curious who guys see it!Thank for the comments,hope i can some ideas out of this!
intelligent enough to read between the lines. A few of the guys I've met are "numbers only" kind of fellas and barely write themselves.
And seriously, everyone has a different reason to call you so you can't have a single answer.
(For example: The "numbers only" guys may not need to read the review to get exactly what they're looking for. ETC.)
I've met a small number of enlightened guys who somehow make their experiences blessed events each and every time because they know why they are doing what they are doing and have chosen a woman to advance their cause. They aren't expecting anything but what two unique people can bring into a room. "Live in the present" kind of mentality. Here and now...you and me.
Seems a healthy thing to strive for in my case.
Before responding, I looked to see if you had given a 10 in a review. Wow. I just saw another Ms. Ten, and though the specifics were different, I relived the experience reading yours with Emma. If anybody is uncertain what a 10 should be, read JP's review of Emma. If you can't relate to it, it's probably an 8 or 9 in sheep's clothing. Thanks, JP. Damn I wish my friend wasn't travelling. I want to see if lightning strikes twice.
I have a different way of doing "appearance" ratings because I can't seem to work within, what I assume, are the parameters provided.
I include the "spirit" the woman shared with me during our date. A person's appearance is totally altered for me by their heart and soul.
I've done it for all but my first review. (Sorry Rain...you should be a 9 on that score. But I was young and foolish.)
On my second date with Emma everything was....
aaaaaaaaaah!!!!!! She makes me happy.
Been in this hobby now for a little over 2 years.... and have seen far more than the number of providers listed in TER. 10's I have given to two providers - one for the richest experience that I have ever encountered on ANY date - let alone escort- that was provided by Samantha (See my reviews for details). That evening could never be paid for or duplicated - plus I am convinced that she is blessed... and she is still providing and her level of rating is consistant... For many reasons, I gave her a 10... my second 10 was because in many ways I just simply like the person... and empathize with her... Both of these people are incredible people first, and providers (at least to me, second). Second in my mind is a provider who is without a doubt someone that I have a hugh crush on... but have the sense to know that our worlds are too far apart for her to have an interest in me... kinda like the dog chasing the car.... What would he do with one if he caught it!?
What I do believe is that if you read SEVERAL reviews, rather than the score - you will get a picture that will have consistancies in it... that is if the provider gets into the session - it is highly likely that she will give that impression to a number of people... if she likes (or more accurate, is willing) to perform a certain act, it will show up in several reviews... so look for consistancies...
On the negative side - I saw a provider that while I liked her as a person - I did not or was not physically excited by her - ie, the little sicnarf failed to respond to her reviews... God knows the girl tried - and was very - extreemly sweet about it... So I am somewhat defensive of her - and protective of her... as I never saw anyone work harder in their life - to make me feel ok! when I did not! she is a sweetie... For her - I have nothing but respect... and gave her the rating she earned which was consistant with the ratings that she has consistantly received...
But there was one provider - who had reasonable ratings... I made an appointment.... and a really downer of an experience happened - but when I went back and read the reviews - everything that I experienced was in the reviews... Everything.... Which is why I say, Read the Reviews... for you newbies - pay the bucks to do your homework... it is worth the price... write enough reviews to have a rep on this board... and you will find that people will provide you with more information on the BC... but whatever you do, be honest in the reviews....
Even in the one negative review that I have written, everything that I reported - happened... Guys who make stuff up- well, I don't understand - and agree with the many comments that in the long run - it hurts the girls, the guys and the hobby.
So, while the scores ARE IMPORTANT, the comments are more helpful...
Good hobbying - and Samantha, if you do read these boards, you are really blessed and to my other 10 -- well, lets just say, you made me realize what could have been in a marriage...and that it can be real... to my crusher - may only good things come to you.
Awe - hell, I love all of ya!!
sweet dreams all!
Noticed she was your first post on TER - as with my experience with Olivia in Chicago, it was one of the best and of course, most memorable. I still find myself thinking of that session years later.
Also, I had hobbied before I was married - did not hobby while married... But when the D hit- I began - and found that the hobby had changed - much for the better... Quality of the ladies is also better! But if anyone has ever experienced Samantha of the gothic look but incredibly sweet personality -they are enchanted!
After doing this for a while, I wouldn't want a carbon copy of what somebody else got. I use reviews to see it there is a potential for an extraordinary time. I always know that it takes a personal connection for it to go beyond normal. Either that or we are both extemely horny at the same time for that short period of time.
When I'm looking to see someone new, I read them to get a general idea of what the experience might be like. It gives me AN expectation, not necessarily a higher expectation. However, the expectations are higher upon repeat visits; I do prefer consistency.
Regardless of your reviews, I just hope you'll treat me like a human being, as I will you. What happens beyond that...you just never know.
Life = YMMV
Remember the old ad campaign for Avis rent-A-car. "We're #2 but we try harder". I've enjoyed many experiences like that in this hobby where although the lady was not enjoying the 10/10 status she gave a service that near approached a "12".
I always look for consistency in a ladies reviews. Appearance scores vary the most (except for the "haloed" elite) but as long as Performance scores don't vary more than 2, maybe 3 points I'll give her serious consideration. Of course the actual tryst is where the rubber meets the road and here is where the factor of YMMV will ultimately decide.
FR.
If you do your homework in a thorough manner, you don't have to depend so heavily on "numbers". While the numbers can be interesting, I've found them to be less then full proof. So my expectations of a situation is based on all my homework. Hopefully, I've done that well, and the expectations meet the reality for both of us.
I DO have a higher expectation. But I also know that reviewers are far from perfect so mostly I'm looking at the trend. One bad review won't scare me off. Inconsistancy probably would. fpg