Sorry, but many providers feel silence is the best policy not to offend someone.. not me lol. Anyone can get a school email honey... I had 6 and only went to 4 Universities. That'as not screening unless she can call your school, verify you attend (yah right) and speak to YOU on the phone while you are actually there. Again, yah right. Join Preferred411 is my best suggestion.
Hello people,
I am a first timer and I couldnt find any provider around Boston who would meet me without verification. I cannot sign up for one because i am an international student and i am not allowed to work in the US.
Anyways, so I found a provider who i am interested in and she seems like a very nice person based on her reviews. On her P411 site she states that she is newbie friendly too and some reviews said that she meets newbies as well. So i emailed her and told her of my circumstances, and she replied the next day and asked me to send a discreet verification email throught my school email. And so i did. I did not get reply two days later and i tried calling, but i couldnt hear anything on her end. Then i texted her asking to follow up and she still ignored me.
So I am wondering where did i do wrong?
My verification email was just something like.
"Hi this is mimmozz, my other email(which i originally sent with) is [email protected]" and thats all.
I need some feedback. Thank you
You may come across as too pushy if you engage further with her. I suggest you move on and try seeing someone who may not be at the top of your list, but is willing to meet with you. Once you build a couple references that way, further doors will open. You can also inquire with agencies - some of them have a fairly low bar for entry.
...work with you to get you verified even if you don't work. You need to talk to them not just go by the web site info. Get verified by them, then contact newbie friendly providers. You will likely get better results.
Gina and her staff are pretty good at working with potential clients to get them verified. You may have to provide some personal information since you do not work, so be prepared for that. Keep looking for newbie friendly providers is the only other advice I can offer. You should try being active on your local regional board by replying to threads. This will let the local folks know you are real, interested, not LEO, and not a crazy one.
I think it likely as mentioned above that something changed her mind about seeing you. It's a common tactic for providers to cut off communicating with guys when they do not want to see him. It's easier than telling him directly. Where you went wrong? Only she knows, my disappointed friend.
LLAP,
Swim
I don't think you've done anything wrong but in your "student situation" it may be a slow go in getting verified with the larger agencies and their girls. As far as P411 is concerned did you go through their verification application first or did you contact the girl first? Try calling them! They're very good at helping people get verified.
If you still can't get verified with an Agency try the non-agency providers. There are plenty very good to cox element ones out there. If you still want to stick with an Agency there is also Boston International and Down City Divas (Rhode Island).
Good luck, be safe and have fun!
D.
PS my favorite market is Providence but have also seen providers in greater Boston and Springfield.
Sorry, but many providers feel silence is the best policy not to offend someone.. not me lol. Anyone can get a school email honey... I had 6 and only went to 4 Universities. That'as not screening unless she can call your school, verify you attend (yah right) and speak to YOU on the phone while you are actually there. Again, yah right. Join Preferred411 is my best suggestion.
And newbie friendly that she would see you based on an email...
She can't screen you and she doesn't owe you any more than what she's already given you. Contacting her by text after calling and just comes off as pushy. The best thing any provider in that situation can do is put you on ignore. If there's no explaining to you why you can't pass muster when you've already said yourself no one else will see you. Please move on, she's nice, doesn't mean she'll forgo the measures necessary to keep herself safe!
Very old thread that i created, in case anyone found this thread with the search.
She was just busy and did not get to my email as soon as i like it to be. We met and i even got a whitelist from her. So its all good.
As a newbie, ive been posting around getting help. I cannot help but notice that people immediately judge me that i am needy or pushy when it comes to setting up an appointment. Not all guys are like that jeez. And that i dont attend school? Really? I wrote on the board for help, not to be judged.
No hard feelings, but its just something i noticed everytime i ask for help in these boards.
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