I have had reasonable success in making initial contact with providers via e-mail, particularly when I am travelling to her city or she is visiting mine. If she is local, I think the phone is the best bet. I usually wait until a week or two before my, or her, visit. I let her know that I am interested in meeting and ask whether they will be in town and available for those specific dates. I don't try to make an appt for a specific day via e-mail. It's ok for you to include your number if you wish, but don't expect them to call you. They receive many, many calls and e-mails from guys who are not really serious about meeting them so they probably won't bother to call you. More than likely, they will respond with a phone number for you to call when you are in town. When you arrive, call and try to arrange a day and time. Then follow up on the scheduled day.
As HF suggested, making initial contact by phone is the next best thing. If you end up leaving a message, let her know when a good time would be for her to call you back if there is one. As a rule, many won't return calls unless you specifically tell them it is ok for fear of having a SO or family member answer the phone. Others will never return calls and you just need to keep trying.
Alas, some girls don't want to be bothered until both of you are in the same city. Regardless of how you make contact, don't hesitate to let them know that it is your first time and what you have in mind (top, bottom, oral only, etc.) without being explicit. Read the ads and reviews ahead of time to see if they provide what you are looking for so you don't waste her or your time. Some are versatile while others will not top or will not bottom. Keep your communication friendly, simple and straight forward. Many girls do not speak english as their primary language and may feel uncomfortable if you are speaking too quickly or using words that are difficult to understand.
Lastly, it is not a bad idea to have a backup. In spite of all of the time you spend trying to corrdinate a session, there are many times when you head out and they flake on you. If you have a few numbers with you, you can still try to set up something last minute while you are out instead of the whole drive being a total waste of time.
Ok, I need some advice ladies and gentlemen...I have tried in vain to meet a TS provider for the past 2 years, but still have not been able to do so. I usually use their e-mail, and I have almost always gotten no response...I finally did get a response this weekend, and I was blown off...twice. I don't use blatent language or even inuendo in my e-mails, so that's not it...I will gladly provide my full name and unblocked cell #...so what's up with this? I don't get many opportunities, so this has become quite frustrating...and this is not just Vegas; Vancouver and Denver too. Any advice? I'm going to Chicago in a couple weeks, but after that I probably won't even have a chance until next summer. I have been fantasizing about a TS for quite awhile now, yet I have yet to pop the proverbial cherry. Thanks
Try calling if e-mailing fails. Go to a tranny bar if calling fails.
I have had reasonable success in making initial contact with providers via e-mail, particularly when I am travelling to her city or she is visiting mine. If she is local, I think the phone is the best bet. I usually wait until a week or two before my, or her, visit. I let her know that I am interested in meeting and ask whether they will be in town and available for those specific dates. I don't try to make an appt for a specific day via e-mail. It's ok for you to include your number if you wish, but don't expect them to call you. They receive many, many calls and e-mails from guys who are not really serious about meeting them so they probably won't bother to call you. More than likely, they will respond with a phone number for you to call when you are in town. When you arrive, call and try to arrange a day and time. Then follow up on the scheduled day.
As HF suggested, making initial contact by phone is the next best thing. If you end up leaving a message, let her know when a good time would be for her to call you back if there is one. As a rule, many won't return calls unless you specifically tell them it is ok for fear of having a SO or family member answer the phone. Others will never return calls and you just need to keep trying.
Alas, some girls don't want to be bothered until both of you are in the same city. Regardless of how you make contact, don't hesitate to let them know that it is your first time and what you have in mind (top, bottom, oral only, etc.) without being explicit. Read the ads and reviews ahead of time to see if they provide what you are looking for so you don't waste her or your time. Some are versatile while others will not top or will not bottom. Keep your communication friendly, simple and straight forward. Many girls do not speak english as their primary language and may feel uncomfortable if you are speaking too quickly or using words that are difficult to understand.
Lastly, it is not a bad idea to have a backup. In spite of all of the time you spend trying to corrdinate a session, there are many times when you head out and they flake on you. If you have a few numbers with you, you can still try to set up something last minute while you are out instead of the whole drive being a total waste of time.
Belive me!..You have no idea,how to be nice with different people,I'm one of the ts,who's love people and care people,But never know how to deal with them,..IT'S SO HARD TO DEAL WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE.But i still love to try again and again,.. some time seem get some painful in my feeling but life is short to scare and do anything right., Zara.
I find that most do not respond by email. Most are not comfortable even talking on the phone due to the lack of communication skills whether it be it English not being the primary language spoken or just too busy pumping guys out one after the other. Calling is the best way to get a feel of what you may expect. Most I find don't want to even have you call unless you are ready to see them within the hour.
When I go out hunting, I always have back up numbers to call. Always do some research of the girls if you can and have a list and go down the line. Shit, call them all and see who you feel most comfortable with. As Luvemlong has stated always have backup numbers. One time I had 6 numbers and they were all flakes. It also helps to avoid peak times when calling such as afterwork or on weekends.
Two years!!!! How can you look for two years and come up flat. Are you really looking? Most of these ladies are looking for you. Your not telling them you pay with an IOU are you? I think there is something inside you that is holding you back and you have not overcome it. Two years is to long to find a good TS. It should have been two weeks because you have this site, the web, the bars and the papers. Take the jump and really try this time, you might like it.