Sad to say. A provider, your atf will always be happy to see you coming if she knows you are paying her , her same rate, or a bit more than the special rate she offered you. A gift or a tip.
I have been seeing one particular provider for 4 months now and noticed that her performance / service has gone down hill quite bit. I still enjoy our session when I see her but it seems to me that she is not really into it anymore.. It is sad when I think about it. I know she sees me for money but she used to enjoy our session a lot more. Maybe I have a bad breath now..
Anyone's had the same issue??
Interesting observation.... I suspect that the more skilled courtesans in the hobby, are actually enjoyers of the hobby as are the males... Think about it, you get to meet a wide variety of gents (and some not so gent-like..) for a wide (as wide as you wish to allow...) range of activities (in and out of the boudouir).. Now, if there is some thing approaching monogamy coming into the picture - a repeat client... who only sees her - they have a routine... etc.. then the similarity to monogamy kicks in - and she winds up enjoying it a bit less.... I suspect that that is what you are dealing with - have I had it happen - ??? yes, but in reverse....
Some clients who consider you their ATF just come around too often and want too much. I have one who is really nice, but constantly calls between appts and just gets to darn emotional. I dread appointemtns with him, but can't bring myself to cut him off...yet. He obviously doesn't know as I method act through the appts, but it's a bit cloying. I would actually be relieved if he took a break.
Maybe make yourself scarce for a few months and then check back in with her and see if things have regained their spark. Familiarity breeds contempt sometimes.
The sooner you revoke his pleasure card the better. I'd like a real massage before Labor Day.
I see my own ATF only once every 2-3 months... and she has commented to me on that... AND in between, I do see other providers- giving me a reference point for her services... Also, I remember where we left things off - on the conversation side. These thingies are delicate balances of human interaction.... Several providers that I have seen have degrees in psychology - one even has an MS in psychology and is a ligit movie (really hollywood movies - not xxx rated) actress... she was as good as it gets in terms of providing the GFE - for an hour... my ATF is really good at GFE - and she does it instinctively - but she too has an education in dealing with the public...
Because my ATF and I do enjoy each others company I try to schedule more than one hour when I book with her... and only 1 hour of that is the bedroom antics... the rest - well, lets just say that we engage in adult play! of a non-sexual nature...
So I agree with sweetnsoft - too much and you loose the "strange" too little and you loose the other part of knowing who you are dealing with...
By the way, sweetnsoft, can I have your personaly information.... can I date you!??? what kinda movies do ya like.... let me come over and cook you dinner.... can we, like, hang out together.... lol!!!!
Obviously I post under a pseudonym, but for the providers that know me, they know that on the whole, I admire them, respect them, but also realize that I am not the type of guy that they would "pick up" in civvie life... And I am proud to know them. They on the other hand are probably less willing to acknowledge that they know me... So to the orginal poster, consider your motives, and your emotional response... are you falling for the provider!? If so, my advice - move on.
It could be that you are getting too attached to her and she knows it. I recently had to do this with a friend of mine. He pledged his devotion to me and got all giddy as he talked of he and I going out to dinner, watching movies at home and taking trips together. This was after he saw me one time! I guess I really put it on him. 
It was a compliment because he saw me again later that day and wanted to see me again in the same week. He acted too much like a boyfriend, a husband even and that was too much for me so my behavior in bed wasn't the same and then I told him I wouldn't see him anymore. You may be doing the same thing but just not noticing it.
We must always make sure to bring some fresh ideas to our experiences with our favorite ladies.
Also, keep in mind that if the provider appears to be just going through the motions or the session isn't as intense, the lady may be taking advantage of you.
Sad to say. A provider, your atf will always be happy to see you coming if she knows you are paying her , her same rate, or a bit more than the special rate she offered you. A gift or a tip.
Why the heck would you keep going to the same provider for 4 months when there are so many wonderful alternatives?!!! Hell, isn't that why you started this hobby so that you could get some stange???
Many thanks to all the posts here!
No, I am not in love with that ATF. She is just ONE of my ATFs and I like her. The other ATFs I see haven't shown any changes in their performance...
Routine - that is a right word for this case, I guess. She must be bored.. I shall buy some toys!
If she is just one of, then she, by definition is not your ALL TIME favorite. That would make her a provider you see with some frequency. I belive that someone suggested a little distance between you two. Perhaps with your ATF.