Know this topic has probably been on before, but always nice to check in now and again. As a 67 year old who still enjoys time with women, I've been drawn to FBSM's. Better than worrying about rising fully to the occasion, is less stressful but still fun. So anybody out there who can offer what makes it the best. I have some ideas which I will share later, but looking for other's comments right now.
from someone with what I call "wise hands". I love deep pressure and when a gal knows the exact points to press, plus does the whole body including hands, feet, scalp, and face, then I'm in heaven.
Of course the HJ is important too. I love a gal skilled at that and if she can disrobe a bit and use a few other of her accoutrements to make my toes curl, then all the better.
If you can find a gal who will build you up to almost a release and then stop and let you back off a bit, then start up again; and do this several times, then that is a real keeper.
Done right, a good FBSM is as good as any other session I've had.
Such providers are, understandably, and regrettably, rare.
Mr F is right on. My most intense O ever, was a FBSM... I look for a mature lady... with the right attitude. After I've been pushed to the edge... at a certain point, I NEED a conclusion. The best gals understand at that point, they do what ever it takes to finish me. No matter what we've done... or what I might ideally prefer... she takes control with her knowledge & skill to complete. That's what makes a keeper. Eventually the room stops spinning.
to the slow and seductive techniques of a woman who loves her work and loves to tease and please a man. The slower the better. The longer the journey the better. The more she can edge and back off the better. The more of her body she can bring into the massage the better. And if we can cuddle and kiss along the way then that's all I need to crown her my ATF. And she finishes me cim. Wow. I always book 1.5 hours so we're not rushed and can play a little in the beginning. I'm not using boner meds anymore and she has me walking on a cloud as I leave. I'm 63.
I think we've highlighted a few points here: a slow and seductive massage, followed by lots of teasing and backing off. For those of us in our later years, it's nice to take it slow and simply enjoy the pleasure of having a hard on for a nice long time! Any providers want to weigh in on techiques, secrets, etc.?
I am a Chicago basked full body sensual massage provider who enjoys her work!!
All of the above comments are spot on!
Sounds like we have all experienced some great rubs.
Does anyone want to share names? I know for me, lynn in Ft.Lauderdale ..aka, massage this, was the best...alas, she has retired. Another Florida choice is Rae Ricci.
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