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Tough one, it could be just about anything.
swimtrekr 58 Reviews 314 reads
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If you did nothing to set off any red flags for her, it may be as LV said, just plain rudeness.  A couple questions, did you review the providers you saw?  Where did you see the ad for the one who didn't respond? Do you belong to any of the verification sites?  Did you give her a specific window to call you or can she call any time?

Like you, I'm puzzled.  Something had to cause her to not call you back, but who knows?

Good luck.
LLAP,
Swim

chilton111078 reads

Hi All,
Has anyone had issues with providers not responding when you try to arrange a session?  I have had a couple of sessions so far since I joined, and have been happy with the providers I chose.  For the past few days, I have been not been able to receive a response from providers in my area who list a current ad (say like today).  I follow their instructions (call, text or email depending on how they want to me contacted) but nothing.  On Sunday I got through to a provider, told her the time I wanted to meet, was told "let me look at my schedule, I'll call you back in two minutes", no call back, and no answer when I call back.  This has been since last Thursday.  Not sure if I am doing something wrong.  My phone number is not blocked, and If I can leave a message, I state that I can provide references if they like (I can and have previously).  Any thoughts?

LasVegan355 reads

My first thought is you may be in an area not served by a high number of providers.  If this is the case, it just could be "the luck of the draw" and when YOU call a provider they are already booked.

There is no reason what so ever for a provider or anyone to tell you they will call you back and ten NOT call you back.  That is just basic courtesy.........but, people being people...........we have some rude providers.........just as we have some rude hobbyists.

If you did nothing to set off any red flags for her, it may be as LV said, just plain rudeness.  A couple questions, did you review the providers you saw?  Where did you see the ad for the one who didn't respond? Do you belong to any of the verification sites?  Did you give her a specific window to call you or can she call any time?

Like you, I'm puzzled.  Something had to cause her to not call you back, but who knows?

Good luck.
LLAP,
Swim

chilton11266 reads

Thanks LasVegan and swimtrekr, haven't reviewed yet - (2 were down in Fla last month and 2 here, all had dozens of reviews). Newbie here, no verification sites, but each provider told me I could use them as a reference.  As far as I know there were no issues, the women appeared cool afterwords.  I would assume providers would respond to texts right away if thats how they wanted to be contacted (unless they were with a client) I have no restrictions on calls, and have left messages to ones whose voicemail boxes were not full.  I just looked - so far since Thursday it's eight providers I have tried to contact.  I just did a search of newest reviews in my area - they had links to the providers websites either personal or BP.

....so if its any consolation, you are far from alone. I attribute at least 50% of "no responses" to ignorance & blatant rudeness. The other 50% are no doubt a mix of forgetfulness, accidental spam/junk labeling, or some other non malicious accidental event. The only thing you can do is put HER on your own DNS list, and try someone else.

because we get busy and don't always mean to ignore you. I am based in Las Vegas if a gentlemen tries to reach me & too long has gone by I don't respond for fear of getting him in trouble.

I don't like a guy that calls over and over again but if you call and get no response, shoot her a text. A follow up email is nice.

Also you can get prescreened with a couple local providers so when your ready to have fun you have several options.  Just an idea.  Best of luck...

If you have not heard back from them after a couple of days, it is time move on as contacting a provider multiple times will send up red flags for her.

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