You mentioned in a later post about her openness being a key factor, but a search of NJ on TER showed over 100 with her same openness. Many of those providers with much better reviews, real photos, and a greater assurance of you having a good start.
Call her, cancel the appointment, and try to aim higher unless her reviews and persona are what you're after - different strokes for different folks. Yeah, her $100 seems like a great rate - but it's so good that she can't use her own photos; that her reviews are not exactly screaming for the guys to repeat, or to line up to see her. Think of it as auditing a class: you got to see how her reservation system worked, you made contact, but decided not to take the course and thus won't have her in your memory banks and she won't have your tuition fee.Made an appointment with Ally Cat in Trenton for tomorrow night. This is my first time in the hobby and I am excited but understandably nervous. She is on TER and has a number of what seem to be reputable reviews but I got her updated number off of BP. Called her up and she did not ask for screening info, seemed to be a red flag for me. Asked me in call or out call and then gave me a rate. This seemed pretty standard but I don't know. Said she would call me back a half hour before the appointment tomorrow to confirm. I assume I will get a location then.
A few questions. What is an LE check? And what is the two call system? Also does this seem legitimate?
Her TER id is below along with the BP link
TER id 25451
...the price is right for a college boy so I'm assuming that's the main reason you chose her.
Her profile says her photos are not only not real but they're not accurate either. You don't want any surprises for your first time so you should see a provider who has more reviews and have a better idea of what she looks like.
..do more to educate yourself before you set up your first session. The self-help center would have been a good place to start and reading several pages here on the newbie board. Everything you have asked says to me this guy's first time is not going to go well. Nearly everything stated is a red flag to me and it's apparent you haven't invested in VIP because I don't think you read the juicy details in her reviews.
My advice to you is to cancel this date, cancel it do not NCNS her, and use the money you would have spent to buy VIP and take some time to learn how to research and do this safely. Good luck and have fun.
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I actually have VIP already and have read her reviews. I know they aren't top notch but it's the lack of boundaries I am interested in. I have been through the self help guide pretty extensively too. What other research should I be doing?
My advice to you is to cancel this date, cancel it do not NCNS her, and use the money you would have spent to buy VIP and take some time to learn how to research and do this safely. Good luck and have fun.
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What you described isn't uncommon with someone you find on BP but it's also the same tactics used in LE stings. Any mention of money in exchange for sex is an admission of prostitution. Lack of any screening is also often found on BP, LE doesn't screen because they are happy to meet anyone but many legitimate ladies on BP often don't screen either.
The LE check isn't uncommon but it's completely useless, if you're in the room with LE you will be arrested. If that happens the best thing you can do is know your rights and shut your mouth, do not answer questions, do not try to explain and never lie to them.
All that being said I doubt that you have to worry about LE with her and as long as you're aware of the service you can expect and know she isn't going to look anything like the photos she uses I say have go fun. I hope your first time is a great experience, there are a lot of great ladies here and they are all waiting to rock your world.
A two call system is first call gets you to a general location, second call gives you the specific location.
Since she's been reviewed, I wouldn't be overly concerned about LE. I would worry about her lack of screening, most ladies will ask for information.
I would agree with the other responders that it would be in your best interest in canceling this. Just reading the general reviews, I would have bypassed her.
The suggestion by other to do more research is an indication that you would be better served by doing searches here on TER to find what you're looking for, rather than using TER to verify a BP ad.
on this one. I think you could do a lot better for your first time, unless money is a critical factor.
BTW, the LE check is providers' way of making sure you are not a LEO. For either of you, it is totally worthless, but many mistakenly believe it will make you safe from arrest, not true.
The 2 call system is this. First call directs you to a general location. Second call gives you a specific address, hotel name and room number, apartment number, in short, the exact location where you will find her.
Good luck.
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You mentioned in a later post about her openness being a key factor, but a search of NJ on TER showed over 100 with her same openness. Many of those providers with much better reviews, real photos, and a greater assurance of you having a good start.
Call her, cancel the appointment, and try to aim higher unless her reviews and persona are what you're after - different strokes for different folks.
Yeah, her $100 seems like a great rate - but it's so good that she can't use her own photos; that her reviews are not exactly screaming for the guys to repeat, or to line up to see her.
Think of it as auditing a class: you got to see how her reservation system worked, you made contact, but decided not to take the course and thus won't have her in your memory banks and she won't have your tuition fee.
I could not resist checking the TER ID for reviews you guys referenced.
Really? I can't imagine a provider staying in business with reviews like that.
I agree with advice to cancel!!
Really? I can't imagine a provider staying in business with reviews like that.
hmmmm...i checked out her reviews too. A couple of her pics make her look cute...in a strange kinda way. I guess that can be appealing.... She's thin too (at least the pics show that) However, some of the other pics also show hthe wear and tear.
in a perfect world her stats of 5'5 120 long brn hair blue eyes and 32-34B's would get my blood flowing before you could blink. But we all know this world isn't perfect. The scars on her hands would 've had me running out the door. The open wounds on her arms would've had me running so fast I probably would have run right past where I was parked!
To each his own though. I wish you the best of luck with whichever direction you choose
Did you go through with it mate? I'm thinking of pulling the trigger soon and booking my first appt in the near future. Kind of interested in how your first experience went, especially with someone that only advertises on BP. Not looking for a full review or anything...just an overall evaluation.