I don't really advertize that I am a switch but it is something I enjoy doing.
I would need to know a head of time what my playmate is looking for.... because he just might get GFE instead "the switch".
I like getting alittle ruff in play but I need to know if there are limits on either side. Maybe in talking with Providers, ask them about there limits?
If there is a safe word? If marks on the body are ok, depending on the area?
I have had some serious Hand Prints on my ass which turned into brused.......lol
This is something I believe that needs to be discused in detail so NO one is disappointed on either side.
This is truly a mind game that can be fun to play