Hey all! I'm going for my first visit next month, completely new to the hobby, and nervous/excited! I'm using an agency (Belle De Jour), and am all set, but wondered if there's any tips/things that are must know, as well as a few questions!
From the site I know that trips to Greece are on the menu for extra, but when do I mention that I'm interested? I've read to keep all such mentions off of calls/texts/emails, but then some providers ask for advanced notice? Do I just bring the extra and try for it day of? Do I let the agency know first? Also, should I trim/shave beforehand? Is that something providers expect/prefer? Anything else I should watch for? Don't want to FUBAR out of ignorance!that is linked on this page?
That would be the first place to start if you haven't already.
That pretty much covers the gamut.
To answer your specific question: While you are correct that you should not make any direct inquires of a sexual nature, it is OK to indicate that you are interested in the optional services indicated on the gal's website or reviews, and that along with a wink should be sufficient.
Gals do like a clean shaven man, and that goes for the basement as well as the upstairs.
Go are review this board going back a few months. I'm sure you'll find topics of interest.
Just remember to breathe.
...seeing a provider. You run the risk of cutting your junk - not something providers want to see.
As per my fellow hobbyists, you have received excellent advice on the shaving of your jewels.................... Really can't think why you wouldn't do this on a regular basis regardless of the hobby. I mean why would someone want to get things stuck in their teeth................. so much more appealing naked. Can't imagine many of your lady friends have said WOW what a bush you have LOL
I would only add in here everytime you shave use a fresh blade and after shaving rub yourself in on the shaved area with polysporin, an antibiotic cream. I have found a fresh blade is very important. For this just buy a 50 pack from Sams/Costco use once and throw away, don't use it for your face then on your nuts
Good luck, keep us posted on loosing your virginity all over again !!
(1) Immensely increases the great sensations of being licked etc.
(2) Provider more willing to take big mouthfuls since won't be swallowing a bush.
(3) Apocryphal possibly - decreases likelihood of crabs.
Shave three days before, then again two days before to ensure a good job. Do not shave (or floss teeth) the day of the meeting because you don't want any even microscopic open abrasions. Do not use an electric trimmer for the final close shave because there is a reason your nuts are called the family jewels
Any guy here ever get the manzilian? I hate shaving all the time but the thought of some gal ripping out my short hairs just does not seem right. Just curious to see if any guy has made the plunge.
I suggest no longer than a one hour appointment the first time you meet any girl you're new to. You never know how things will pan out...the chemistry may not be there, you may find her unappealing in person, her crotch might stink, etc.
There's been times I've been really glad I followed the one hour appt. rule. I've also violated the rule and ended up with one of the aforementioned toxic crotches.
Have a good time and let us know how your session goes!
I suggest that you choose a highly reviewed lady with at least 10 or more reviews, preferably some of them in the last 3-6 months. Find a lady whose offerings and looks are what you want/like. Frankly, I suggest that you pick a lady who rates 8.0 or higher in looks and performance. But, recognize that if she does not offer certain things (A-levels, BBBJ, or is Bi, if memory serves) her highest performance score will likely only be 9 -- so is she is above 8 she's actually a very high performer. I normally read her very worst review, and then decide if the worst-case scenario is something I would likely still enjoy.
After doing all of that, since this is your first time, I suggest at LEAST 90 minutes, and I think 2 hours is likely best. Also be sure to tell the lady that it's your first time also... she will likely help you along. 
If you 'click' 3 hours will seem brief. But if not you'll be thinking about all the other things you could have used the cash on as you're leaving 75 or more minutes early.
Plenty of time and opportunity to see the lady again and for a longer session if all goes well
The women who do Greek usually say so because they make more money... they advertise it. I don't do it and hate when people ask. Answering that question to the wrong person could get me arrested. Re: manscaping, find a provider who is willing to do it for you. The sensation is delicious and a great way to warm up! Finally, why use an agency? Lots of independents out here who don't believe in having a pimp.