Newbie - FAQ

Remember, reviews are subjective, the opinion of the reviewer.
swimtrekr 58 Reviews 239 reads
posted

Pay more attention to the text of the review than the numerical ratings.  Everyone has an occasional bad day, including providers.  Guys write reviews based on how well she pleased him, not on how well he pleased her, or how pleasing his appearance was to her.

I assume you are just making an observation, because you really didn't ask a question that could be answered on this board.

LLAP,
Swim

Perused some of the escort advertisements on the various sites, like BP, and pinpointed the escorts that I felt were within my budget and that I was attracted to. Then I went to the TER reviews and tried to match-up my picks with positive reviews. Amazing that many of the escorts that I was attracted to were the one's that were reviewed on TER. I now have 9 excellent independents and 1 agency with 7 beautiful girls in the Tampa, Florida area alone. Everyone of them is my type and within my budget. There was one that was quite a bit outside of my budget. But, she is a Taylor Swift look-a-like.  

I see that some of the reviews will be diametrically opposed to others. You will have 10 excellent reviews for one girl and one or possibly two reviews for the same girl that were disappointments. Could it be that the guy was not very pleasing to the girl physically. After all, most of these girls are meeting the guy for the first time and don't know what he is like until then. They probably don't want to turn away someone unless he is threatening or high on drugs. So, they go through the motions and don't give their full effort. Maybe you can't blame them.

A drastic drop in performance and appearance scores is often a review ment to punish a provider because she wouldn't do what he wanted. Some times guys want a reduced rate in exchange for a good review or BBFS or some other activities he thinks he's entitled to.
 That's not always the case but it happens often enough to suspect it.  
If you read his other reviews you can usually get a feeling of his reviewing style, could be she had an off day or he may be a tough grader or maybe he's just an asshat who getts off on trying to hurt a provider.
 Look at all her reviews and watch for trends to get the best idea what to expect.

Terrible scores for an otherwise highly to very highly-reviewed provider are often just what DJ mentioned: revenge.

There's a recent post on the Chicago board by a lady who received a very terrible 5/3 review: he booked a massage, then asked for GFE FS at the massage rate and in exchange he'd give her an outstanding review.   She declined, and so he gave her a bad review.

My very first review was a terrible one: I never even met the guy; he had an ax to grind with the agency I worked for at the time.  Actually, the review was posted just a day after my profile was added to the agency's site, BEFORE I'd ever seen any clients.  Obviously fake.  The agency owner tried in vain to get it removed but it's still there.  He left equally terrible reviews for all the ladies working for her at the time.  

Recently, I had a client who, after reading a since-removed false review, thought that I perform acts which I do not... since he was disappointed, he left me a 7.  While not terrible, it did drag down my average.

Another gentleman who once gave me 7s thought I'd be happy with his review and was surprised I wasn't grateful; turns out he's just a very stingy scorer, who gave those same scores to a lady who usually gets 9s and 10s for performance.  So when you spot a review with scores below that lady's average, take a look at that reviewer's other reviews.  In addition to the possibility that he uses his own grading system and not TER's, it could also be the case that the low-scored review is for someone much different than the type he usually sees.    

But I know that to a lot of men who do their homework and read many reviews, the so/so scores like I mentioned provide balance, and give a good idea of what might be the worst to expect with that particular lady.  

Please keep in mind that we providers are accustomed to entertaining gentlemen of all physical types and descriptions.  Thus, we are very good at "going through the motions" with apparent enthusiasm and pleasure, and will absolutely give it our full effort.  It's the jerks who refuse to be nice despite all our efforts, who might get less than our best.  

xox

Pay more attention to the text of the review than the numerical ratings.  Everyone has an occasional bad day, including providers.  Guys write reviews based on how well she pleased him, not on how well he pleased her, or how pleasing his appearance was to her.

I assume you are just making an observation, because you really didn't ask a question that could be answered on this board.

LLAP,
Swim

The question was "Could it be that the guy was not very pleasing to the girl physically".  

Posted By: swimtrekr
Pay more attention to the text of the review than the numerical ratings.  Everyone has an occasional bad day, including providers.  Guys write reviews based on how well she pleased him, not on how well he pleased her, or how pleasing his appearance was to her.  
   
 I assume you are just making an observation, because you really didn't ask a question that could be answered on this board.  
   
 LLAP,  
 Swim

"Could it be that the guy was not very pleasing to the girl physically"

Extremely unlikely.    

The most likely scenario (if the review is honest & scored along TER's guidelines) is that the client and provider just didn't click.  Call it a lack of chemistry or that their individual styles just didn't mesh.  Whatever the reason, things were just off.  And rightly or not, the provider is sometimes blamed for this with these less-than-positive reviews.  

Or the client/reviewer did not treat her nicely.

What makes a good client doesn't have anything to do with physical appearance, though a lot of clients think it might, especially some young, good looking guys think we might be especially excited to see them.  His appearance doesn't even appear on my list of characteristics that make a desireable client at all.  Neither do skills as a lover.

If you are respectful, have references, are clean, don't stay over on time, don't Overcommunicate between sessions, don't try to pay less than the advertised rate...you are GOOD!  And I will WANT you!



-- Modified on 5/21/2015 10:23:50 AM

Sometimes it's great, and sometimes it's awful.

That plus other human foibles account for the range of reviews for some gals.

Contrary to popular belief, bad reviews are not always the provider's fault. Many times a guy should have just been told to take a hike but she went ahead because she did not want to offend him or piss him off after the trouble he may have gone through to see her. Yes, many times chemistry does play a part and we are afterall, human. I am very wary of those who seem to be able to perform like robots with just anyone. It makes me think they have zero standards, and can put up with just about anything for a dollar bill. Wish I was that way, because I would be rich.  

I can usually tell within a few emails or a phone conversation if a guy is going to be worth seeing, as I am sure you guys can tell about the provider as well. I tend to 86 a booking if things are awkward from the start. Had a guy email me most recently and I took the time to reply, yet nothing from him. I don't have time for bs games and people who can't reply when they initiaate contact. Yes, I know things come up but gimme a break. He is posting on TER. Common courtesy goes a long way, and I would never see this person now. Add to that, two of his refs said he was a pain in the ass, and I will never say which ones I contacted.

Register Now!