Seems in the past few months I contacted gals who did no screening. These were well reviewed girls. Each of the 4 girls had over 40 reviews with scores of 8/8 on up as averages. None of them asked me anything beyond what time and date I want to meet.
I asked some of the reviewers who have long histories of reviews how the girl was etc and came back positives.
I did meet two of them and had a grand time.
Just wondering what everyone thinks and would you book a girl in such situations who do not screen at all? Why do they do this, or rather NOT.???
I did ask about it. Some girls are cheap, maybe stupid, and they have less formal ways of screening. I am not going to explain what they are here (the walls have ears, you know), nor am I going to comment on how effective, or not, such methods might be, but if she is well reviewed, has a good track record (it is more than 2 or 3 reviews, the reviews go back some months, the reviewers have a number of reviews, she has a history of ads or a web site and nothing else in your contact makes you nervous), don't worry about it.
The risk of her way of (not) screening is hers, not yours.
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mention that screening is a must, do absolutely zero screening of me. With a reputable reviewed lady, the risk is on their end, so you should have nothing to worry about. On the other hand, you may have been screened without even knowing it. What info did you give her? You'd be amazed what can be found out about you with very little of your info.
like the reviews said.
I just figured she'd want paperwork on my been std free and all. My work information or something. Maybe my first born?
I text from my throwaway phone and eventually we talk. They just asked when and where. One even called me a different name but that is ok.
If she has your email address, she can check here to see if you've been WhiteListed, and contact those ladies for a reference. It can all be done quickly & quietly without having to ask you a thing.
Seriously..... am I missing something? Is this a standard practice??
If you've encountered that request frequently when attempting to schedule with a lady, then yeah, I'd get that you'd be surprised when someone DIDN'T request it.
But my impression has been that it's not too common a request.
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...on that subject are it's pretty much useless since the test is out of date (so to speak) as soon as you have sex with someone new. There is no way for either party to verify that in regard to the other. I can't recall a discussion where monger and provider alike didn't agree it would be insulting to ask and the contact would be shut down at that point.
If you requested a date through TER PM or P411 or some other reputable site, they may not feel the need to screen.
If they saw your reviews, odds are they just took it upon themselves to contact a few of the women your reviews claim you have seen.