If you truly did nothing wrong ignore the threat and keep work on building your good reputation, then even if you are on a list it won't carry as much weight. If its a blacklist site worth using, you will not have access to it.
Why would someone do that to me? I did nothing wrong.
How can I check to see if someone did blacklist me? This is so wrong.
If you truly did nothing wrong ignore the threat and keep work on building your good reputation, then even if you are on a list it won't carry as much weight. If its a blacklist site worth using, you will not have access to it.
If you are the trick that they are talking about in the previous thread you deserve it.
Keep hiding behind alias won't do you any good.
The rest of us are trying to establish a level of trust with escorts so we can truly forget it is a service
Are you guilty? What did you do to her?
Allegedly BBFS that became an 18 year obligation that he feels isn't his problem. Now we don't know how much of this is trolling or just pure stupidity! It just goes to show what can happen when you don't play safe because you don't like condoms...
...who are on said "blacklists". In my opinion, being a NCNS is not a reason to blacklist someone. Shorting a lady funds, or worse; yes, but NCNS never.
I believe that many ladies abuse the blacklist sites, as a way of "settling a score". What they do not realize, is that a name on a blacklist site, can hurt his family, his chances of finding employment, etc. Most of the gentlemen I find on blacklist sites have been found through a simple Google search.
We all need to pick, and choose our battles, but please do not blacklist a gentleman because your feelings were hurt.
Hugs and Kisses,
kelly
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I agree that nobody's personal information should be placed upon a blacklist for a non-dangerous offense. And I've actually never had a NCNS, so I've never blacklisted anybody for that. Not sure if I actually would or not...I guess it depends upon the circumstances. If it was a proven pattern of behavior, if he knew I'd booked a hotel room or traveled a long way, etc.
I have gleaned a lot of useful information from blacklists, that are not necessarily about someone who's dangerous. If I'm about to put down $300 for a non-refundable hotel room, knowing that a guy has a history of NCNS is very valuable information to me. Again, I'm not saying to put him on blast, or include his personal info...just to put enough info (TER handle, hobby email, etc) on a private board, to give a heads-up to the next lady .
Some guys chronically NCNS...like maybe show up to 10% of appointments they book. Really, that's just flat-out disrespectful, so I'd definitely want to know he acted that way before accepting the appointment (I doubt I would)...I'd hate to think of what such a person would be like BCD.
Also, I said this in another post - EVERY client of mine who's shorted me my fee was blacklisted for NCNS, timewasting, or some other silly offense. If he has enough disrespect to NCNS, he might do something worse. One thing I've learned is to pay attention to the little things, and then I don't have to worry about the big ones. Most nice clients would never NCNS another person...if a guy has a record of doing it even once, I take notice. I take other things into account, but I do take notice
Only you can answer the first one.
And the second one is pretty irrelevant, in my opinion.
Perhaps, doing something "right" instead of the common word "wrong" that you seem to use a lot, would help your situation. It is not that hard to do the right thing, at least for most of us.