it just gives me a rather awkward vibe. Kissing just seems like the most natural place to start, so if you don't want to kiss, I really won't be ask "into it" as I am with some nice long, slow, wet kisses... mmmmm yeah!
Would you guys recommend it? I'm new to this hobby and call me boring but what I plan to do is kiss the living hell out of the provider. I don't know why I just love kissing, my plans are pretty much jus staying in mish and kiss and then when I go into dog style I plan to kiss her back and neck, pretty much just kiss her non stop.
My question is, would you guys recommend kissing? I keep reading reviews and they mention DFK a lot. What I'm worried about are stds. I recently learned that not all stds are visible. So what precautions should I take?
I too am a fan of kissing. It's a lovely intimacy which I hope to enjoy on every date.
That said, nothing is 100% safe. There's an increased risk of transmitting Hepatitis C if you have brushed your teeth recently. Doing so can cause tiny injuries in your mouth. Hep C is transmitted via blood, so if 2 people have tiny bleeds in their mouths and then kiss, it could transmit Hep C. Don't brush any closer than an hour before your date. If you are concerned about fresh breath, and you should be, use mouthwash, or your favorite chewing gum or breath mints.
DFK and BBBj. If there is no DFK, I will not see her, same for BBBJ. If those are not on her menu, no visit from me. But, you have to stay within your comfort zone. Only do what you are comfortable with.
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Find a GFE provider and start kissing. Many lower priced or higher volume ladies don't kiss so read reviews and research before making a date. For me kissing can make or break the session.
There is risk in any intimate contact and only you can decide if the benefits out weigh the risks.
I even went as far as to choose a provider for my first encounter that did not kiss so that I wouldn't be tempted and I learned one thing. DFK is a requirement! Like a Boa Constrictor must bite and latch on before it can strangle its prey, I must passionately kiss a woman before I can fuck her! So I have decided to get past my worries and kiss away because without DFK I don't have a hobby.
You are all good and since you are paying, get enjoyment out of what you want. Some will, some won't. Read reviews.
I always feel awkward if he doesn't want the true GFE but more of a PSE time or somewhere in the middle.
Many gals will make out like high school and chat away to make you comfortable. Check it out and go from there. There is all sorts of variety.
If I was a guy (or even the lil I personally hobby) there has to be meaningful kissing going on. That just gets me revved up to go!!!
Different strokes for different folks. That is in NO way boring. Be you and enjoy.
It puts a session onto a whole new level, and just seems more passionate and connected. Even better if she'll tell me what she likes, as you can't offend me by offering directions!
Have had a session where she kissed like it was our last day on earth, and then another session with her when she was just not into it. The vibe was off on the second visit (she was stressed out from a client who Lots-of-Calls-But-No-Showed earlier) and was a very different session without the kissing. Everything else was still hot, but the distraction was evident.
As for STD transfer, the risks are never eliminated. They can be minimized, and some girls will avoid kissing just for that reason. Previous posters have listed good suggestions for you, my only addition would be to get immunized against HepA and HepB, commonly called travel immunizations. Can get them at your doctor's office, or the county travel nurse, or from Walgreens/CVS (may need a doctor's note). Just say you're travelling to Europe and want to be protected in case of an accident, in case they ask why you need it.
I can't remember the last time I went a week without an "appointment" so by your logic I could never enjoy garlic again?
I am half Chinese and half Sicilian, just how the fuck am I supposed to swear off garlic???
The key is to make sure both parties eat similar food. Case in point, if you take a woman out for Korean food make sure that if one of you eats the Kimchi BOTH of you better eat the Kimchi. lol
We are just talking about having sex here...aren't we
Probably with lots of garlic to boot
literally.
I had the bad experience of being with one gal who loved to kiss, but her breath was indescribably bad.
We went to dinner afterwards and I found out why: She ordered a side plate of garlic with her food.
She didn't seem to last too long as a provider for some strange reason.
A lot of Korean food involves raw garlic, and as bad as normal "garlic breath" can be, you can smell someone who eats raw garlic from across the room.
A good rule of thumb, if you can still smell someone's breath even while doing doggie, DFK should definitely be off the table. lol
I used to see K-gals all the time, and now when I walk into a Korean restaurant and smell the kimchee, I get a boner.
Pavlov's dog has nothing on me.
it just gives me a rather awkward vibe. Kissing just seems like the most natural place to start, so if you don't want to kiss, I really won't be ask "into it" as I am with some nice long, slow, wet kisses... mmmmm yeah!
I agree with you on this. Without it, just not the same experience.
You just have to feel her out and hope she likes to kiss just as much as you do.
...then it is especially important for you to read reviews and perhaps even PM some guys regarding how the kissing went, if she was really into it, etc. Kissing is so personal, I've found more variability with this activity than with any other - both in terms of the lady's enthusiasm and technique. Let HER take the lead with how this goes, and follow suit. Some use more tongue, some almost none at all. Some like things slow, some have their tongue darting all over the place. Some seem to enjoy, some just seem to tolerate and make it the briefest of the foreplay activities.
Just go into your date with fresh clean breath - and clean in all other respects too - and let things unfold, slowly and naturally. If the kissing turns out great, look at that as a wonderful bonus. At least this is my approach, to take what comes kissing-wise without putting the highest expectations on each date in this regard. Also, I should add, if you are a decent guy and respect the lady and treat her right on the date, and you start to really click, the kissing can get more passionate as the date goes on. This can especially be the case after a nice DATY round, if you've managed to please her the way she likes to be pleased (but DATY itself is another thread topic too of course - and another activity during which you need to really be aware of all the signals she is giving in order to maximize her enjoyment).