Newbie - FAQ

Now that we got it that you are going to see her at her place (in call)...
xyz23 45 Reviews 429 reads
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...you should be fine. All those reviews are a good sign. Relax, enjoy.

Newb here,

I'm going to an incall tomorrow and was worried if it is a police thing. I tend to over think things and worry about the worst case scenarios. The provider has many reviews (20 plus pages worth) and responded swiftly. I have a clean record, how can I be extra sure?

What are things that I need to do that are common practice to keep things discrete?

Thanks

Josh

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Senator.Blutarsky704 reads

...are less risky for LE stings than incalls (where you go to her). Our esteemed DCPD, would rather set up a fake ad and have the johns come to them. They usually don't expend the resources for one john on a outcall.  

It sounds like you've researched the gal, and she sounds legit based on what you shared, so relax and enjoy the ride.

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you have very little to worry about.  Hopefully, you are single and have no SO to worry about.  Most guys will advise against an outcall to your home unless you have had a few incall visits with her, me included.  You are inviting a total stranger into your home, knowing nothing about her other than her hobby identity, IMHO, not a real good idea.  If you have done the research on her, reviews, googling phone, checking pics, you should be fine.  There are always risks involved, but in this case, I don't think you should have much to worry about.

For future reference, don't ask for an outcall unless you have seen her a few times and know a little more about whether or not you can trust her in your home.  As I mentioned before, if you do have an SO who lives with you, anyone will tell a woman will know when another woman has been in her house.  Not always logical, but more often than not, it's true.

Good luck Josh, let us know how it goes, and post a review.

LLAP,
Swim

Sorry for the mistake, I got confused with outcall/incall. I meant incall. That is what I am concerned about, going to her.

...you should be fine. All those reviews are a good sign. Relax, enjoy.

Here are some flashing red lights that would make me reconsider:

The gal tries to get you to talk about sexual services and/or money on the phone or emails.

Get to the appointment ahead of time and watch for any LE activity.

Avoid any cheap-O motels where the room door faces the parking lot.

Gals who don't screen.

Now, relax and enjoy.





I'm going to have to disagree with the esteemed Mr. Fisher on one point.  I actually prefer the motels in which the rooms have doors leading to the outside.  It allows me to avoid the sometimes very conspicuous little lobbies these places have which make every person entering and leaving highly visible.  In a big hotel it's less of an issue.  But a smaller motel, well, I prefer to know I can let a lady directly into my room without passing go.  

I agree you should not entertain a lady at your home until and unless you've established a lot of trust with her.  And even then, your SO might know she was there.  Go rent a room and ask the lady to join you there.  Much more discreet and anonymous.

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