can and should get you put on her DNS list with her only response being radio silence.
If a provider posts an ad that mentions different prices for different service levels (i.e. from Massage up to GFE), is it appropriate to ask what is included with each service level? For example, whether giving/receiving oral attention is included with the mid level massage package? Looking at the profile page shows the expected GFE activities, but from reading reviews its not clear what you get at each level.
I'm not usually a massage person, so I don't know the convention.
Providers don't ussually offer services a la cart. I've seen some who advertize FBSM vs Escort at different rates... sometimes with different names to Separate the services expected.
FBSM is an all over rub... typically includes a HJ. Sometimes you get a BJ or can negociate for more.
My former Fav was FBSM... until she got to know you... then she'd give extras but expected a nice tip.
GFE is an advertizing term without specific menu... beyond how you feel when you leave her.
Typically GFE is all inclusive through (covered) Full Service (Intercourse). In my area, anal (Greek) is always an add on, if offered at all, & costs an extra 100$.
can and should get you put on her DNS list with her only response being radio silence.
There's no ground rules that dictate what Service Level and Extras are included in a particular Session. It just depends on the comfort level of each provider. Most providers I've seen generally offer massage with a H.E. That may include Oral. But most do at least a H.J. Oral only sessions are just that, only Oral. This may include Swallowing or a Facial finish. Depending on the comfort level of the provider.Full Service is generally an all inclusive session. Oral and Sex. Any other menu items such as Anal is not included. It's usually an extra menu item separate from the other services a provider offers. To really know what pricing level a provider is offering for a particular request it's a good idea to see her on a regular basis. This way the provider will get to know what a client likes to do. Then she can tailor the session to fit your needs and desires. Asking what's included in a certain session on the phone is not a good idea.
...from her point of view you could be LE trying to get her to connect sex with money. There really is no way to get the information you want by asking her whatever method you use. E-mail, phone, text, etc. If she has a web site further explanation may be there. One other option for you is to contact by PM some of her reviewers and ask which service level their review covers.
Another possibility is if you're simply that interested in her see her for her lowest level service and once there in the course of activities ask what you want to know. Doing this toward the end of your alloted time would be best. If you walk in the door asking those kinds of questions you'll still sound like LE trying to catch her.
your encounter will be like. As always, YMMV.
mmmm, i disagree with this. both of my reviews are/were pretty inaccurate!
but these are pretty much questions that should be asked upon arrival and once naked.
You only have two reviews. We can hardly get a picture of you from those. However your post about your second review (see the link) left some of us wondering. By the way the ad we referred to in this thread disappeared shortly after the discussion took place. Since you claimed to not offer a quickie session but several of the posters saw it in that ad you don't have a lot of credibility. You didn't explain when I and others asked for an explanation.
It is recommended to newbies that they see well reviewed providers. They should have many reviews and as the poster you responded to here said the writers of those reviews are important. It's clear you would like that to not be the case in light of your 2nd review. It's entirely possible the guy did lie about everything but we have no way of knowing and again your credibility is suspect.
Since you have only two reviews newbies would not be recommended to see you. However experienced mongers could very well see you should they decide to. They could help your credibility with honest reviews to rebut those others though they could reinforce what the others said.
Reading your two reviews and making sure the negatives don't happen again is the best thing you can do about making sure you get better reviews in the future. Continuing to bring up your "inaccurate reviews" will only serve to put you in a bad light.
Your P411 is a positive for you and I notice it's the only link on your profile now. The "My Provider Guide" link is gone. I also see you have corrected the cost of service info on your profile. That too is a positive. Hopefully your TER presence and your P411 profile will garner more and better clients so you can move on.
You gave good advice here about when to ask the type of questions the OP was concerned about.
when trying to establish a meeting with a provider. If you don't have VIP membership, get it so you can read the juicy details in her reviews. As mentioned previously, you could PM some of her reviewers and get some inside info from them. But asking her ahead of time will likely get you cut off from contact with her.
LLAP,
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