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samanthategan See my TER Reviews 352 reads
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Excellent advice!  
Read the reviews on your chosen provider but also other reviews written by the reviewing hobbyist (hope that made sense :-)). That will give you an idea whether the provider you are considering will meet your ideals.

Also, I would recommend reading any posts by your chosen provider....that will give you some insight into their personality, sense of humor (or lack there of) and whether you might find that elusive "connection."

If you are interested in a particular provider, I would recommend following her website, reviews and posts for a few weeks, even months, if you are looking for a relationship rather than a one-time thing.
Make sure that she is regularly updating her sight and adding new pictures. Girls that have the same pictures up for years are definitely "sketchy" and should raise a red flag.

Finally, if you are unsure, see if she will talk to you on the phone a bit or, at least, exchange some emails. You can often get a good "feel" for some one by a few simple communications.  

Do your research, trust your instincts and don't assume that just because a girl has an attractive pic or two or a high price tag that she is peddling the highest quality wares.
Good luck Darling!

 
Posted By: cmh614
I also have gravitated to 8-10's and higher $, and have been rewarded. I feel for your plight but that has not been my case. Although I have gotten a surprise or two along the way, I would say I do a very good job of analyzing the photos and the reviews. Once interested, I check other reviews written by a reviewer, about other providers. It give me more insight to how that reviewer thinks and what he likes. Then I can better evaluate the provider in question. Choose wisely my son.

cbusgent826 reads

You won't see me writing reviews or posting on here very much. And I am not even on here very often.
But over the years have some interesting observations, but maybe all the hobbyist’s have seen these? I have only seen providers rated 8-10 on this site and on the more expensive side. And I will be vague as overall I thought my experiences were very good.
1. If you are asked if you give reviews, and you say no, there is a good chance you will get treated different. I had this happen to me with a highly rated provider. She clock watched, told me I had X amount of time left, and talked about how her boyfriend was well endowed. (I wanted to write a review after that experience, but I’m sure the administrator would have thrown it out as her score would have been way lower than you see on her other reviews).
2.  Some of these providers’ pics and measurements are horribly off.  Yes, most or all providers touch up their photos, but some are 10-20 pounds heavier (or more!) when you see them. There are a lot of beautiful, sexy fuller figured women but If you are going to say you are petite, please know what the definition of petite is. We are paying for a fantasy and part of that is the look and size that we find sexy and hot.
3. But I will say some of the providers also look better in person.
4.  A lot of the providers are highly competitive with each other. One even wanted to be exclusive and was very manipulative. When she knew I was going to be with another provider, she asked if she was “better,” said she couldn’t understand why I would want to be with anyone else and, when I didn’t cancel the appointment, contacted the other provider and bashed me to her!
4. Some of the cancellation reasons are comical. I understand that sometimes a provider needs to cancel. Although if hobbyists cancel they want to charge us extra and/or get very upset and/or blacklist you! But if a provider doesn’t want to see a hobbyist, I would rather have a provider not respond or just give a hard cold truth on why they won't see a hobbyist than give me some comical reason to cancel multiple times.
5. Most of the providers are very nice, or at least act very nice. But come on guys, a lot of these providers can get, or have, good looking boyfriends. I find some to be way too manipulative. Yes, I’m paying for that time and the fantasy but I’m also not 18 and don’t need to be manipulated into more time/money. I’m offended when a provider gives me a sob story in an obvious effort to con me into giving her more money

Quite true on all counts.  This is a fantasy world that we live in and need to remember that it is all about the fantasy.  If the fantasy isn't being provided, move on.  There are lots of providers out there.  While I get that it is "their body, their rules" it is also "our money, our rules".  Somewhere in between lies the sweet spot where everybody is happy.  I am at all not suggesting that guys should seek out activities that the lady is not comfortable with.  But, old pictures, etc. are just wrong.

cbusgent326 reads

LOL - Hmm, you mean generating a discussion on the discussion board........?
Do you feel better not adding to the discussion but whining about mine

I also have gravitated to 8-10's and higher $, and have been rewarded. I feel for your plight but that has not been my case. Although I have gotten a surprise or two along the way, I would say I do a very good job of analyzing the photos and the reviews. Once interested, I check other reviews written by a reviewer, about other providers. It give me more insight to how that reviewer thinks and what he likes. Then I can better evaluate the provider in question. Choose wisely my son.

Excellent advice!  
Read the reviews on your chosen provider but also other reviews written by the reviewing hobbyist (hope that made sense :-)). That will give you an idea whether the provider you are considering will meet your ideals.

Also, I would recommend reading any posts by your chosen provider....that will give you some insight into their personality, sense of humor (or lack there of) and whether you might find that elusive "connection."

If you are interested in a particular provider, I would recommend following her website, reviews and posts for a few weeks, even months, if you are looking for a relationship rather than a one-time thing.
Make sure that she is regularly updating her sight and adding new pictures. Girls that have the same pictures up for years are definitely "sketchy" and should raise a red flag.

Finally, if you are unsure, see if she will talk to you on the phone a bit or, at least, exchange some emails. You can often get a good "feel" for some one by a few simple communications.  

Do your research, trust your instincts and don't assume that just because a girl has an attractive pic or two or a high price tag that she is peddling the highest quality wares.
Good luck Darling!

 

Posted By: cmh614
I also have gravitated to 8-10's and higher $, and have been rewarded. I feel for your plight but that has not been my case. Although I have gotten a surprise or two along the way, I would say I do a very good job of analyzing the photos and the reviews. Once interested, I check other reviews written by a reviewer, about other providers. It give me more insight to how that reviewer thinks and what he likes. Then I can better evaluate the provider in question. Choose wisely my son.

Epsilon_Eridani340 reads

... is one of my pet peeves!

I have seen providers here on TER that claim to be this certain "size" only to find out that they are not what they claim in their pictures.  

Many pictures are often older than 12 months. In some cases, several years old!

Some providers will do a lot of photoshopping their pictures. Why? what are you hiding?  

That rose tattoo on your arm does NOT identify you by name. (unless your name is on the bottom of the tattoo)  

I never understood the logic of photoshopping your tattoos from your photos. What are you hiding?

Are you trying to tell me that your family will automatically identify you based on a tattoo?  
Really? is that your logic?

For staters... why would your family *be* in TER in the first place?

Unless you gave someone in your family a reason to check out TER, you never have to worry about that!

Posted By: cbusgent

2.  Some of these providers’ pics and measurements are horribly off.  Yes, most or all providers touch up their photos, but some are 10-20 pounds heavier (or more!) when you see them. There are a lot of beautiful, sexy fuller figured women but If you are going to say you are petite, please know what the definition of petite is. We are paying for a fantasy and part of that is the look and size that we find sexy and hot.

That's all part of the research.  
If you have seen the same photo of a gal posted for several years, then that's an old photo. If you can tell it's a highly photoshop'd image, be aware, ask around, find out. Then as I stated above, when you get an opinion from a reviewer, check out other reviews by him to see that he seems to share views like yours. Maybe you find a review of another provider that you both have seen, then you can compare/contrast.  
For me, when in doubt, don't go, wait and see.

I think that is the way to go....don't rush, just wait and see. You are paying a considerable amount of money so you should have a somewhat reasonable idea of what to expect....and that takes some time and thought....even communication.

As for tattoos, I do have a large one that is unique (I drew it) and that some one who knows me would recognize. I'm not really worried about my family as I truly doubt any of them are looking at TER or other sites.

But....my pics and ads (like most girls) have been viewed several hundreds or thousands of times. I am concerned about a co-worker or student (I have a "real," professional job that is quite competitive and that allows me to meet a LOT of different people) stumbling upon them. Even a "friend of a friend" since only a couple of the closest ones know about this aspect of my life and, like most everyone else, some one could do a great deal of damage should they choose to be malicious.

I try to remember to mention my tattoos before I see a gentleman the first time but (all ya' all know I'm blonde! :-)) sometimes I forget. If tattoos are a dislike or concern for you as a hobbyist, you should ask/mention that when you book.

Yes, I agree with all that Sam says. A provider can have a reason to be secretive.  

As for Cbusgent's concern regarding 'Truth in Advertising': Really? Is anything real anymore? ABC Sports got caught a few years ago adding bird sounds to golf matches. They were caught because 'Birders' listen to golf matches to identify species, (funny, huh?). They found species of birds that were not indigenous to the match locale.
Another example is TV crews add color to the water when televising golf matches, because water does not 'look right' on camera. This doesn't have to be all about golf but the metaphor is funny as it's all about getting something into a hole.  
Do you know that coffee does not look like coffee on TV? They have to color it to look 'normal.'
Any way, I've touched-up my own photos on Photoshop, why not? Every one wants to show themselves in the best light! However, when they(providers) alter reality to the point of lying, then that's wrong. But then, what about push-up bras, spanks?  
Come-on, you know when a girl has photos that hide a portion of her body, there might be something about that part of her body, right? I would hope for providers being honest so we know what we're getting but that can't always be true. Hurray for those that do!!! There are a variety of types of people out there and that's why we need to do our homework! Sorry to be-labor the point, but as Samantha said, We "are paying a considerable amount of money" so lets do the work to get it right.

Posted By: cbusgent
You won't see me writing reviews or posting on here very much. And I am not even on here very often.  
 But over the years have some interesting observations, but maybe all the hobbyist’s have seen these? I have only seen providers rated 8-10 on this site and on the more expensive side. And I will be vague as overall I thought my experiences were very good.  
 1. If you are asked if you give reviews, and you say no, there is a good chance you will get treated different. I had this happen to me with a highly rated provider. She clock watched, told me I had X amount of time left, and talked about how her boyfriend was well endowed. (I wanted to write a review after that experience, but I’m sure the administrator would have thrown it out as her score would have been way lower than you see on her other reviews).  
 2.  Some of these providers’ pics and measurements are horribly off.  Yes, most or all providers touch up their photos, but some are 10-20 pounds heavier (or more!) when you see them. There are a lot of beautiful, sexy fuller figured women but If you are going to say you are petite, please know what the definition of petite is. We are paying for a fantasy and part of that is the look and size that we find sexy and hot.  
 3. But I will say some of the providers also look better in person.  
 4.  A lot of the providers are highly competitive with each other. One even wanted to be exclusive and was very manipulative. When she knew I was going to be with another provider, she asked if she was “better,” said she couldn’t understand why I would want to be with anyone else and, when I didn’t cancel the appointment, contacted the other provider and bashed me to her!  
 4. Some of the cancellation reasons are comical. I understand that sometimes a provider needs to cancel. Although if hobbyists cancel they want to charge us extra and/or get very upset and/or blacklist you! But if a provider doesn’t want to see a hobbyist, I would rather have a provider not respond or just give a hard cold truth on why they won't see a hobbyist than give me some comical reason to cancel multiple times.  
 5. Most of the providers are very nice, or at least act very nice. But come on guys, a lot of these providers can get, or have, good looking boyfriends. I find some to be way too manipulative. Yes, I’m paying for that time and the fantasy but I’m also not 18 and don’t need to be manipulated into more time/money. I’m offended when a provider gives me a sob story in an obvious effort to con me into giving her more money!  
 
 
Ladies I got news for you... if you weigh over 130 lbs you are NOT PETITE.

Well....I agree though technically, 'petite" refers to height. If you go into a major department store it is possible to find "petite" size 12 or 14. The clothes are designed for those of us who are "gravity-challenged" with shorter hems, inseams and torso lengths.  

I'm annoyed by girls that are 5'9" but say they are "petite" because they are holocaust-victim thin. Let's not play games....if a gentleman wants a "petite" provider he is looking for some one who is smallish in most every way (except maybe cup size :-)).

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