Thanks gsee for the recomendations, however I do not have a ton of $$$$ and those type of providers who charge 300 an hour are not withinin my financial reach. Also I dont have or even know how to obtain "refrences" so I have never visited a provider who requires them. I usually use TER and see backpage girls who have been positively reviewed there, also my average cost per visit is usually less than 100. I have seen some nice milfy providers advertised on bp but I cannot verify they are legit, and since I am married I cannot afford to get arrested for this, lol. So I guess I should have been more specific in my initial request, but if there are any further suggestions keeping this in mind id love to hear them.