There are many P411 providers who advertise as newbie-friendly. Do what you have to do to get a date with one of them, and they can get you approved on P411.
I recently decided to move on from BP encounters and go for more upscale ladies. So my first stop was P411 to get verified, but they require two provider references (I've only seen two ladies so far). One of them gave the reference and we're good there. The other has vanished. Neither I, nor P411 can get a hold of her. Her number goes straight to a filled voicemail so you can't even leave a message. Texts go unanswered.
So I've been trying to track her down. Her website lists the same unavailable number and nothing else. She has two ads (that I can find) with the same pics, the same number, but two different names in two different cities (near each other). I've used Tineye and Google to search her pics, but it comes up with the same ads I already know of. I've Googled her number, but that, once again, brings me back to the same ads. I've also looked at every review on TER of every provider in those two cities with either of her names, but nothing came up other than what I already have. Then I went to BP for both cities and looked through ad after ad with no luck. Lastly, I've PM'd her other reviewers in case one of them just happens to have a number, email, or alternate name for her that I could use (still waiting to hear back from them).
Have I done everything possible to track her down or do you have any suggestions I've missed?
f you need two provider references to join P411 (sorry, I am not a member of any verification site so I don't know if this is accurate or not), then see someone else who is newbie friendly. If you don't want to see a BP lady again (and that's a smart move for new hobbyists), there are MANY ladies on TER who ARE willing to see gentlemen without references...you just have to be prepared to provide whatever verification (i.e. work info, telephone #'s, etc.) that they require.
Why are you wasting your time trying to track down this one provider??? If she wanted to be found, than it would be easy to do so. Forget about her
LOL, not really. It took about 30 minutes total. I was trying to track her down for the reference that P411 says I need. There's no rush or anything I was just hoping to get the P411 verification out of the way, but I'm definitely planning on trying to set up something with a newbie friendly, verified provider who will then be able to give the second reference I need. I just figured it'd be easier/quicker to track down someone I've already met with, thus making it easier for the next provider to screen me. Didn't mean to imply any kind of urgency or anything.
Thanks though.
Gina has a reputation of being quite creative in getting new members screened and approved. I would suggest that you simply ask her if there is another way for her to verify you.
BTW, once you get your P 411 membership and a few okays, getting "screened" will become a breeze.
For reasons too complicated to go into here they were unable to verify me by any other means. The references were their last resort. My last communication with Lori was her telling me I *need* a second reference for them to verify me.
There are many P411 providers who advertise as newbie-friendly. Do what you have to do to get a date with one of them, and they can get you approved on P411.
If you don't want to give up personal info (which is obviously what the OP is trying to do.) If he only needed one, he would be in already, wouldn't he? He already has his one approval.
No further verification was required. And to the OP, yes this was an official "Join P411" invitation sent through P411 to me. My impression from the OP is that he has one provider reference, but she's not a P411 listed provider(and if she is, then he should just ask her to send him a P411 invitation).
Yes, I've seen two providers, neither P411 listed. One gave me a reference, the other is unreachable. My plan is to reach out, in the near future, to some local providers that are on P411 (I have one in particular I'm interested in) and newbie friendly.
I see you have 2 ter reviews I'm sure the one you gave a 5 for looks and a 3 for performance would be a problem getting anything
seen a gal with so many bad reviews before. 33 wow. Geez. Yep, stay away from those and do your research!
That's the plan from now on. I confess I was purposefully looking for such a provider, and I feel like it was a good idea, but it's also time for me to now start seeing providers I'm honestly attracted to (well reviewed and of a "higher class").
I got the impression she either doesn't know about TER or she knows what her reviewers had to say about her so she doesn't much care to return and read them. When I called to ask her if I could use her as a reference she seemed happy to do so. In any case, I didn't need her to paint me as some orgasmic lover, only to verify that we had met and that I'm not a threat or a weirdo. Of course she could have lied as revenge for my review of her, but it seems she didn't.