I am recently divorced and single again woohoooo. But still it sucks losing half of everything you own. Well anyway to make a long story short. It is a hell of a lot more convienient to have some fun with some awesome (beautiful and sexy)providers than it is to get in a long term relationship again. Dont get me wrong, I still date, im in my late thirties and make good money (and have all my teeth and hair LOL)so getting girls isnt an issue, but damn it still seems like having sex the provider way is better in the short term. Here are my questions.
How do you guys manage it ? Do you find you get emotionally involved ?? Do you stick to a few favorites ?? Do you do things with them outside of sex ?? Do you still date when seeing your AFP. What advice do the veterans have to give.........much appreciated.
as a long term fix. At most they can only fill in some gaps. Don't stop seeing civies and learn to enjoy both worlds. Providers can only give you some short term satisfaction and some will fill your needs better than others. You can and will find some that will be willing to see you outside of sex but don't see them for this reason or you will surely be disapointed and piss some of them off.
If I see a provider its almost always a spontaneous decision, I only have a couple I try to schedule in advance.
The whole reason I see providers is so I don't get too emotionally involved with any woman. I'm like the kid in the candy store and I'm in no hurry to find out what candy I like best.
I travel so its not practical to have a few favorites. Locally I have one I would prefer to see more often but somehow we are cursed at times
Yeah I have done outside things with providers where sex isnt involved and had a very good time
I date frequently. I hesitate using the terminology "ATF" as it seems to have different meanings to many people here. There are providers I like other than just sex, There are two providers I've never had sex with that are great friends of mine and probably will never cross that line.
Enjoy the hobby for what it is. Treat the providers with respect and don't set ridiculous expectations they can't possibly meet. Use TER reviews thats what will help you make the best decisions in determining who you would like to see and get best results